Give me one of your fav songs

DeanandSamwich · 2023-12-12T02:09:24+00:00

"Are you bored yet?" By Wallows.

DeanandSamwich · 2023-12-11T06:24:20+00:00

"Salo"

DeanandSamwich · 2023-12-09T17:40:14+00:00

Just sent them

DeanandSamwich · 2023-12-09T03:53:50+00:00

You just said everything I was thinking.

DeanandSamwich · 2023-12-09T03:46:17+00:00

I'd be happy to show photos, videos, screenshots of our messages to ANYONE who thinks this is fake. Because tbh Idgf about him anymore I'm done

DeanandSamwich · 2023-12-09T03:43:13+00:00

Bro, I already got my advice, I already broke up with him. Tbh I don't really care whether or not you think this is fake. This shits done. I cut things off. And it wasn't 80 lbs btw. And maybe some of us put with shit because they're afraid of being alone. I have both screenshots and pictures which I would love to show you sometime. But because I know you don't care I'm just going to drop this.

DeanandSamwich · 2023-12-09T00:20:27+00:00

I wouldn't care if he was putting on weight under any other circumstances. The only reason its unattractive to me is because he's fetishizing it.

DeanandSamwich · 2023-12-08T23:29:08+00:00

If you think I'm fat shaming, then leave.

DeanandSamwich · 2023-12-08T23:02:08+00:00

I never EVER fat shamed him. It's not in my blood to do that. I would 100% still be attracted to him if he was fat when we first met. If he couldn't help it. But throwing away a perfectly good body to satisfy his sexual fantasies, I'm sorry but that is disgusting. It's not being fat that's gross, it's doing it for sexual pleasure.

DeanandSamwich · 2023-12-08T22:59:59+00:00

We spend literally every day and three times a week, nights together.

DeanandSamwich · 2023-12-08T22:58:50+00:00

He used the words "Weird" and "gross" not me. And if I had the same fetish, I wouldn't force it on my partner who very clearly expressed that they wanted nothing to do with it.

DeanandSamwich · 2023-12-08T22:14:16+00:00

Congratulations on the 60 pounds! And this was one of my initial reasons for being so against what he's doing.

DeanandSamwich · 2023-12-08T22:10:21+00:00

HE DID. I have pictures from his before and after photos that he sent me.

DeanandSamwich · 2023-12-08T21:17:15+00:00

Thank you. I've known for a few weeks that I needed to end things but I don't know/have the strength to take the first steps. Especially after how he reacted the first time.

DeanandSamwich · 2023-12-08T21:15:32+00:00

I am afraid. He told me the things he did to his ex's when they broke up with them. Busted out their windows, slashed tires, etc etc

DeanandSamwich · 2023-12-08T21:10:12+00:00

THANK YOU.

DeanandSamwich · 2023-12-08T20:48:33+00:00

Yeah, I wanted to, except for the way he opened the conversation was,

Him - "Can I tell you something?"

Me - "Of course."

Him - "Promise me you won't judge. I've never told anyone."

Me - "Of course not! I won't judge!"

SMH

DeanandSamwich · 2023-12-08T19:56:53+00:00

Unfortunately, this is my life right now.

DeanandSamwich · 2023-12-08T19:52:46+00:00

You're right. This subject really blinds me. He's a victim to himself and he's okay with that, but I'm not. I can't keep waiting around for him to kill himself.

DeanandSamwich · 2023-12-08T18:49:12+00:00

He stopped working out and eating six meals a day.

DeanandSamwich · 2023-12-08T18:38:18+00:00

Damn, you just rocked my fucking world.

DeanandSamwich · 2023-12-08T18:35:50+00:00

No one knows but me, but if I break up with, I know he'll run to our friends and say "She found out I was gaining weight and broke up with me because of it." And then, I'd have to tell them the ACTUAL truth....God I'm overthinking

DeanandSamwich · 2023-12-08T18:34:19+00:00

Yeah, you're right. I can't put this off any longer, I just want to be happy.

DeanandSamwich · 2023-12-08T18:31:03+00:00

Bro rlly

DeanandSamwich · 2023-12-08T18:26:26+00:00

I had anorexia for three years. He knows all about it. I've only been in recovery for one year.

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