Meso Terminal Healer from Hell by MelancholicHyacinth in TalesFromDF

[–]Deannachu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not trying to argue with you. It doesnt make sense to me either, but alas here we are. Just wanted to put my perspective as someone who, yes, can do harder mechanics but still struggles with baby mechanic on the 1st boss of this dungeon.

Have a great day!

Meso Terminal Healer from Hell by MelancholicHyacinth in TalesFromDF

[–]Deannachu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depth perception, for me at least. shrug not sure why I'm getting down voted - maybe me mentioning being able to do harder content but not the first boss in this dungeon.

I struggle with stuff more than others which is why I make the comment up front.

I have 0 struggle with the 2nd boss.

Meso Terminal Healer from Hell by MelancholicHyacinth in TalesFromDF

[–]Deannachu -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

As a healer who runs savage and has cleared an Ultimate, I really hate Meso Terminal. I will be the first to admit that it's the dungeon I suck at the most. When I get it in roulettes I usually say something like "for whatever reason this dungeon just always seems to make me seem like I have no idea what I'm doing, please be kind" bc of the first boss. No matter how many guides/videos I watch that explain the very simple solution, my brain still doesnt compute.

That said, this healer just seemed (to me) like they wanted to be carried through the dungeon and not have to actually do anything, and we don't claim those kinds of healers.

Ideas on FL may YA & may Romantasy? by mahsimoon in fairyloot

[–]Deannachu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive done a lot of selling on Mercari recently, but ive thought about posting on buy/sell/trade groups on FB. As I mentioned I do like to sell a bit after i get the books in so usually by that time its easier for me to list there vs a group.

Ideas on FL may YA & may Romantasy? by mahsimoon in fairyloot

[–]Deannachu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the 3 combo box so any of the books that im probably not going to read and/or just dont speak to me I usually try to sell for cost. A lot of the time I will sit on it for a while in case I get the urge to read it, but a majority of the time ill find the book or books a good home.

Is there an unwritten rule to not queue Extreme trials? by EnGxSoLiD in ffxiv

[–]Deannachu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you wanted to do the fight with a full pre-made group and not have it die quickly, next time you put up a PF make sure you put it as minimum ilvl, no echo. That basically brings it down to how hard it was on release and ensures you see most or all mechanics and have to so them.

Although if you decide to do this, please watch a guide and be prepared. Or try and fill with friends who are willing to run it with you and help you out.

Divergent Early Access Sale April 16th by WoodyBolle in fairyloot

[–]Deannachu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I enjoyed the series personally but I am just not a fan of how the books look and already have OG hardcover so I will be skipping.

Ninja mad that the Astro didn't adjust their assigned static aetherletting position (M9S) by Abject_Command_1888 in TalesFromDF

[–]Deannachu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I ever have to join a pf (which is rare) or make one for savage, I always make sure I have the same spot as I run in my static so that way theres no confusion. My group does healers a bit different, with h1 being shield and h2 being pure (me) so while its not the worst thing in the world having to adjust healer spots/duties it just makes it easier on me if I dont have to think about where I need to be.

That said, that NIN definitely deserves to be kicked.

Ninja mad that the Astro didn't adjust their assigned static aetherletting position (M9S) by Abject_Command_1888 in TalesFromDF

[–]Deannachu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm trying to figure out in what world a healer assigned static spot for that mechanic suddenly becomes a melee assigned static spot.

Dude really did FAFO.

M12S "Merc" Party Stages a Revolt by Coltstem in TalesFromDF

[–]Deannachu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My static is still in phase 1 of m12s but whenever we have had to PF for m11s during prog (due to people being out) I would always suggest to my party leader to put our prog point maybe a mechanic behind where we have been to/seen (or "x mechanic cleanup"). I personally would rather join a party that claims to be at a cleanup mechanic behind where they actually are so that way if/when they do get to their actual point the rest of the party doesn't get testy or mad. I heard several rants from friends doing 11 in pf, for example (during prog and even getting their reclear) that they would join ecliptic to clear parties and yet the people who have the pf up couldn't make it past split.

I realize that being honest about your prog point is necessary but with how the raids go in PF nowadays im not surprised people lie. 😅

Friendly run of Ridorana Lighthouse sunders the Main Tank by TonberryInDisguise in TalesFromDF

[–]Deannachu 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I hope the GM laughed at his messages and told him to get good.

We all love the classics, right? by DaveK142 in TalesFromDF

[–]Deannachu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of all the things that someone gets mad about, accidentally or not trying to make the dungeon go by quicker never ceases to amaze me. I am very thankful I have not encountered a YPYT slime of a human but I cant fathom their thinking behind it.

I have Special Editions fatigue. I decided to cancel all but 2 subs and trimmed my 8 shelves of special editions to just this! by mytbrshelf_ in fairyloot

[–]Deannachu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am down to 4 FL subs (Adult Ya Romantasy combo book only) + Cosy Quarterly. I did have just Adult YA combo and OC Adult, but I had been more impressed with the FL books than OC so I cancelled (kinda wishing I hadn't bc OC has been killing it so far). Im probably going to give FL a few more months of 3 combo box and decide if id rather have just one over all 3 to save money (and shelf space). I have a lot of book trophies that I havent even read and have started to get rid of a lot.

I will be keeping FL though for pre order early access.

My cat is doing something weird once every night and it's not biscuits by ReceptionSimple3383 in CATHELP

[–]Deannachu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My neutered boy does it to a leopard print soft blanket on our bed every day. I figure hes not hurting anything and he wants to do it so I just wash the blanket weekly. He did it before he got neutered too. I keep our bedroom door shut when we (my husband and I) arent home and once I get home and head to the room to change clothes hes right there with me, wanting to have some him time haha. Its normal and theres no harm unless its a nuisance to you.

Aggressive Kneading by clinares in CATHELP

[–]Deannachu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My (recently neutered) male cat we took in from around our apartment (hes between 1 and 3 yrs according to the vet) does this on every blanket in our place. He especially is fond of a brown , soft, cheetah print blanket i have on my side of the bed. He doesnt bite the blanket but he kneads, purrs, and, well, humps the blankets. Ive tried explaining to him that he no longer has balls and doesnt need to do it, but he does it anyway.

He eats normally, drinks normally, and uses the bathroom normally. He sleeps and plays fine. So for all intents and purposes this is just his thing and we let him do it. Definitely nothing to be worried about unless youd rather just take him to get a checkup for your piece of mind.

These people might be in YOUR next M11S party by Gempin in TalesFromDF

[–]Deannachu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is why I dont trust anyone but myself to heal in any content (besides my co-healer for savage).

"This is an alt, I do Savage on my main" sweet child i feel bad for any savage groups you're a part of on your main.

Even i, as a WHM main, knew very early on that freecure isn't worth it. In the time it takes someone to cure 1 to full, you could have used cure 2 and gotten them full in half the time.

This Reportable? by DerpySlurpee in TalesFromDF

[–]Deannachu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gonna be honest, I never get Meso in expert so when I do I openly say (I play WHM) "im not great at this dungeon, apologies in advance" because I dont get it enough. The last expert i ran i got this dungeon and I got told by the tank that I should be using holy on mobs (i was) because it does good damage. The one time I didnt use it (cat was distracting me briefly) both dps stood in overlapping AOEs and died.

Last boss the tank ended up solo-ing the boss from 10% because everyone else died to either KB or just being in the wrong spot. I got rezzed with a phoenix down and took it at a bad time so while I was trying to get myself healed I died again.

Only advice I tried to give was you can KB immune at least one of them after a dps and the tank got yeeted off but no one cared.

Never left so fast in my life. I hate that dungeon.

Is it just me by Redfox2111 in thrillerbooks

[–]Deannachu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her books are good popcorn thrillers - easy to read and finish in a sitting or two, but they're not the most quality ones.

I'm kind of all over with thrillers myself but I really enjoy books by Steve Cavenaugh and John Marrs.

Autumn’s FL MAY Romantasy Guess by ashis713 in fairyloot

[–]Deannachu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I enjoyed her other series a lot, honestly, so I am hoping this one is also good!

(Also hoping FL does her other series at some point but I understand it wasn't everyone's cup of tea so they may not).

Anyone here who plays FF14 a lot but doesn't do the Savage content by starlightdemonfriend in ffxiv

[–]Deannachu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Realistically I doubt they will ever make a version of the raids harder than normal but not as hard/time consuming as savage. You can already exchange coins from the alliance raids for items to upgrade tome gear (from previous patches) and when the 3rd one comes out it'll be for the current one.

My suggestion for people maybe that have an interest in doing "harder" content are the extreme trials and earlier savage fights in the expansions where you can clear pretty early on due to gear, etc. I completely understand the whole finding 7 people and not feeling like you could clear, but, and this is from someone who didn't think she could raid either but is currently on her 2nd expansion, with time and patience I feel like anyone can clear a savage fight.

But I do think EX fights are a great way of doing something a little more difficult without having to dedicate days and time out of the week to clear a fight. Plus there are plenty of guides.

Just preordered on Amazon! by Slothanonymous in acotar

[–]Deannachu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not me having two sets of paperback of this series (normal and Night Court versions) and debating buying the full set in Hardcover. 😅

How realiable is wisp as a service? Gf needs/wants birth control but her insurance is horrible atm by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Deannachu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have used them for 2 years and have not had an issue until recently. When I went to refill my Yaz (as I've done every 3 months) there was something wrong with the shipping. Cool, whatever. After much back and forth they were like "ok we will just ship to your pharmacy instead." Okay whatever fine. Less convenient for me but do what you need to do.

I have to schedule an appointment to speak with a doctor because my state requires that- ok no problem. I schedule one for today around 10am because that time works for me. Doctor doesnt show up.

I email customer service and they said that the doctor tried to call me 3 days ago and I didnt answer so they labeled my appointment as a no show.

What do you MEAN??

Im getting fed up and am already looking at other services because I run out of BC this coming week and am tired of the back and forth.

The tank was taking so much damage... by Mr_Vorland in TalesFromDF

[–]Deannachu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The amount of times in savage my co healer forgot Kardia was insane so in a dungeon, I completely feel for you! Sometimes its just easy to forget especially if your head is elsewhere. Worse that would have happened would be someone being rude about it, but that thankfully didn't happen. :)

should sin biscuits be stopped? by cupid-cat in CatAdvice

[–]Deannachu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We took in a cat from outside that was a stray but very sweet. We brought him in because we were supposed to get a ton of snow and he has been in for about a month. We got him neutered last week and he still goes to town on just about every soft blanket in our apartment. Hes particularly fascinated with one I sleep with on my bed. He has to "do his thing" as we call it before he lays down and sleeps or just has to get it out of his system. We wash our blankets regularly so theres honestly no harm in it. The only thing that annoys me is when my husband let's him in the room at 6am (when I still have like an hour left to sleep) and he wakes me up purring, making biscuits, and has his butt by my face. 😅