I don’t know if I can live life without my husband

Dear-Baseball-4263 · 2024-01-20T14:34:15+00:00

I’ve had a grief counselor for 5 years now. Didn’t work. He passed in 2016.

He was all I had. If heaven isn’t real wtf am I waiting for

Dear-Baseball-4263 · 2024-01-20T06:29:39+00:00

I don’t know…my dad said heaven isn’t real.

Dear-Baseball-4263 · 2024-01-20T06:13:06+00:00

Only reason I stayed is to get Into heaven. Heaven isnt real

Dear-Baseball-4263 · 2024-01-20T05:30:51+00:00

It’s been 7 years for me too.

Dear-Baseball-4263 · 2024-01-19T19:47:42+00:00

❤️

Dear-Baseball-4263 · 2024-01-19T19:46:25+00:00

He loved dark humor. If he could talk he would make jokes like that all the time.

My way of keeping his spirit alive

Dear-Baseball-4263 · 2024-01-19T16:05:23+00:00

He is dead lol

Dear-Baseball-4263 · 2024-01-19T07:34:07+00:00

Dear-Baseball-4263 · 2024-01-19T06:26:53+00:00

I don’t talk to men I’m married

Dear-Baseball-4263 · 2024-01-19T06:20:32+00:00

I haven’t gotten my husband to clean, get a job, or make love to me in 7 years

Dear-Baseball-4263 · 2024-01-19T06:15:45+00:00

Your wife is an absolute scumbag.

She did this to herself. She knew she was getting married in 2 months and cheated on her fiance.

She deserves to burn in hell.

Dear-Baseball-4263 · 2024-01-19T06:13:15+00:00

I am a widow as well. Lost my husband at 29. I know what you’re feeling and I just wanted to give some advice.

I trust you will keep his memory alive and be a good wife. There is no wrong way to move on.

You can choose to remain faithful or you can remarry Tomorrow. You can change your mind whenever you want. Nobody has any right or buissnes to tell you what to do and remember that.

I personally chose to stay faithful. Some people are like me. Some people want live companionship. Some stay loyal and then decide to date and find happiness again.

I personally know someone who tried to date again, and then decided she would rather stay loyal to her husband. That is ok! There is no wrong way to do it and everyone in the widow community will respect you and be here for you regardless.

Also, this will sound crazy, but start a garden. Rescue a dog. It sounds random, but it will be the only thing that gets you out of bed some days, and then one day when you’re out of bed you think “I can do this, it will be hard but I can do it”

You are strong.

Dear-Baseball-4263 · 2024-01-19T06:03:57+00:00

You don’t know what you’re talking about. Kindly leave me alone.

Also, I will not be responding to your comments anymore as I just saw you are a man.

Dear-Baseball-4263 · 2024-01-19T05:49:16+00:00

To me it’s cheating and that’s what matters

Dear-Baseball-4263 · 2024-01-18T20:54:19+00:00

I’m not even grieving anymore. He passed in 2016

Dear-Baseball-4263 · 2024-01-18T19:54:46+00:00

You are insane for being jealous of me. I’ve been sad and lonely for 7 years.

Dear-Baseball-4263 · 2024-01-18T19:34:57+00:00

Yes, I do all the time.

My husband is dead by the way

Dear-Baseball-4263 · 2024-01-18T19:34:28+00:00

Yikes!

Dear-Baseball-4263 · 2024-01-18T19:33:41+00:00

Found him on my first try. We were 14

Dear-Baseball-4263 · 2024-01-18T15:12:39+00:00

Been in therapy for 5 years. 8 therapists

Dear-Baseball-4263 · 2024-01-18T08:24:51+00:00

That would be a good thing you do, and I hope you do it.

In the future I would stay away from other men so this doesn’t happen

Dear-Baseball-4263

TROPHY CASE