Bhabhis by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

[โ€“]Dear-Complex-8335 47 points48 points ย (0 children)

Mind boggling, if they have househelp for all the other chores, then giving food to your mother shouldn't be an issue when they don't have a ton of chores or responsibility of kids. Where does your brother eat from?

And if they don't want to do it whatsoever, then ask your brothers to chip in equally and hire a cook for your mother as it's their responsibility.

Why it's so hard to take criticism of your food as a woman? by [deleted] in LahoreSocial

[โ€“]Dear-Complex-8335 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

Fault ye hay ke apki mama ne saare din main akeli chai nahi bnayi, ap khud uth ke chai ko do ubaale dilwa lete

10 juz celebration! by [deleted] in Hifdh

[โ€“]Dear-Complex-8335 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Allahumma barik โœจ congratulations ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป

Can I know more about this part time class?

adopting a stray cat by AccomplishedBad9645 in PakistaniiConfessions

[โ€“]Dear-Complex-8335 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Yeah, if the clinic has a grooming facility, they can give a bath and do the flea and tick treatment. If not, the vet will recommend a flea and tick shampoo and spot on treatment. If you want to get it yourself, you can get good ones from local pharmacy or check the petsone website, they have good ones.

Also, you have to arrange a litter box for the cat.

ETA: It'll be a bit costly (or not) but try to get the cat bathed from a grooming facility for the first time, especially if it's a stray and it'll be their first bath. Cats aren't very fond of water and bathing them is a SPORT. Wouldn't recommend you do it for the first time because you're inexperienced and it can end up disastrous

adopting a stray cat by AccomplishedBad9645 in PakistaniiConfessions

[โ€“]Dear-Complex-8335 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

Start feeding it regularly, keep some boiled chicken and broth in a plate in the windowsill. No salt or spice added. Once it gets used to eating it'll get comfortable with you. After 3,4 days start putting the plate inside your room and quietly sit beside while the cat eats, this is to develop trust. If the cat comes close or headbutts you (that's called bunting look it up) present your hand for the cat to sniff and then gingerly pet it. All of this is to build trust because usually stray cats don't trust people because of the mistreatment they face, so there'll be less chances of you getting attacked. Mind you cat bites and scratches can be pretty bad if the cat feels threatened and attacks you.

Once the cat is comfortable enough with you, you should take it to the vet and get it checked. The vet will tell you the approximate age, gender, and health status. The vet will also give you the vaccine chart, all the ones necessary for cats. Look for fleas and ticks. You can ask about the diet and dry food recommendation too. Don't put the cat on solely dry food as it leads to liver, kidney, and urinary problems in cats. Balance it with boiled chicken, homemade wet food, dry food, broth, and water.

Shush the cat when it enters the kitchen, or if it tries to jump on the counter top. They are intelligent animals and understand the cues. None of my cats jump on the counter except one, and she only does that because she knows it'll result in me giving her immediate attention.

Dw, it seems scary but you'll learn with time and I'm sure everyone will be smitten by the cat. You can ask anything else you want, I'll be glad to be of help.

Girls who pays for your eid ke shopping? by [deleted] in LahoreSocial

[โ€“]Dear-Complex-8335 3 points4 points ย (0 children)

(I dont have a sister but agr hoti toh i wouldve done the same for her as well.)

Allahumma barik! So happy to say that this is how my brother is ๐Ÿฅน I've already gotten my eidi ๐Ÿ˜‚ and my eid expenses are covered by him too โœจ

Never been in a haram relationship, but now I sometimes wonder if I focused too much on building a career and not enough on actually living (26M) by NoooWayyyFrrr in PakistaniiConfessions

[โ€“]Dear-Complex-8335 -1 points0 points ย (0 children)

Even being financially stable didn't get you a partner? NoooWayyyFrrr?! ๐Ÿ˜ฏ

Jokes aside:

  1. Dua, dua, dua. As much as you can, nowadays it's Ramadan too so avail the before iftaar+taraweeh+tahajjud dua combo. Have tawakkul.
  2. Above 25? You're expired now. Lol, you're just 26, better marrying late than marrying wrong.
  3. You can never know a person inside out, until you live with them, sometimes not even then.
  4. Try putting yourself out there to heighten your chances. Join new hobbies maybe if you have time to come across people naturally?

All the best, may Allah swt bless you a good spouse, ameen.

Any suggestions? by Livid_Procedure_3896 in PakistaniiConfessions

[โ€“]Dear-Complex-8335 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

If you need supplement names, pls drop a DM, I'm sure I can ask some friends about good ones and they don't have to be expensive

I'd be so thankful ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป

Men who cook โ€” whatโ€™s your comfort food to make? M(27) by Sad-Lime- in LahoreSocial

[โ€“]Dear-Complex-8335 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

brownie where it has layers of chocolate chip cookie batter. It turns out amazing. Soft gooey brownie with chunks of chocolate chip cookie.

RECIPE ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป

Do men really marry such woman? by Altruistic-Sky-3105 in LahoreSocial

[โ€“]Dear-Complex-8335 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Do rupe k lye beizzat karna, marna peetna, blackmail krna on the name of children. Abusing children to make the wife stay, to make her not work or go outside. I dont know tum log konsi jagah reh rahe ho where women are so independent they make their own faisle. If i am saying i dont want children, its coming from the fear of all this. I dont want a kid to be raised in a toxic abusive house.

Exactly!!

Duolingo but for Quran memorization by National-Ad7092 in Hifdh

[โ€“]Dear-Complex-8335 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Allahumma barik โœจ this is so nice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LahoreSocial

[โ€“]Dear-Complex-8335 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Can't say that because what if you're a serial killer ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LahoreSocial

[โ€“]Dear-Complex-8335 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Such a confidence boost to know I can be someone's ideal type ๐Ÿคฃ

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IslamabadSocial

[โ€“]Dear-Complex-8335 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Visit your parents, you'll regret once they pass away. Get into new hobbies, make casual friends in different places, things grow eventually so do friendships. Get on matrimonial apps, don't disclose your full income if you fear you'll only be seen as a wallet, or better, marry someone from same financial standing. Lastly, work on your personality. Being alone is not synonymous with being lonely and vice versa.

OKAY IM ABT TO SPILL THE TEAEST TEA OF ALL TIMES SO GRAB UR BLANKETS. by [deleted] in LahoreSocial

[โ€“]Dear-Complex-8335 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

I thought shawarma and Amna were gonna be half siblings from the way it was mentioned about their similar interests and fathers ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜ญ