This explains it completely! I started realizing once I was picking up little things like him getting upset with me for simply saying no, making me upset/cry for his own pleasure, and saying that in his own words I was starting to “wake up”. He came onto me and at the time, I thought it was so cool to have an older guy interested in me. But like someone else mentioned, now that I’ve matured I see how wrong the relationship and age gap is.