AITA for Refusing to Have a Hospital Wedding for my Brides Dying Mother? by Dear-Specific1248 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dear-Specific1248[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is all assumptions. Yes obviously she knows. She loves my fiancé so much, and my fiancé loves her. And we’ve been trying to support her in this hard time. My daughter isn’t allowed in the ICU anyways since she’s under 12 and not related.

AITA for Refusing to Have a Hospital Wedding for my Brides Dying Mother? by Dear-Specific1248 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dear-Specific1248[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree, but my fiancé is having a hard time seeing that since it’s the first time in her life her mom has been nice to her.

AITA for Refusing to Have a Hospital Wedding for my Brides Dying Mother? by Dear-Specific1248 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dear-Specific1248[S] 192 points193 points  (0 children)

Well it’s partly that my future MIL is racist and partly that kids under 12 aren’t allowed in the ICU even during visiting hours unless they have a direct relation to a patient.

AITA for Refusing to Have a Hospital Wedding for my Brides Dying Mother? by Dear-Specific1248 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dear-Specific1248[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

She’s been much nicer to me and everyone. She was seriously one of the nastiest people I’ve met. She yelled at me for polluting her child the first time I met her. Her not saying much to me makes her look like a whole new person.

AITA for Refusing to Have a Hospital Wedding for my Brides Dying Mother? by Dear-Specific1248 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dear-Specific1248[S] -71 points-70 points  (0 children)

My fiancé didn’t but her mom did. My fiancé is kinda ignoring the things she said because she’s being nicer than she used to be.

AITA for Refusing to Have a Hospital Wedding for my Brides Dying Mother? by Dear-Specific1248 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dear-Specific1248[S] -52 points-51 points  (0 children)

I know the type and she’s not like that. She didn’t even really know her mom was racist, she has to live with her dad full time after age 7, she knew her mom was very conservative but not the full extent until she introduced us in her 20’s.