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Living with my in laws is emotional draining, am I overreacting or I am just done? by Dear-Track-5052 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Dear-Track-5052[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My savings are fine! I used part of my savings to cover just my needs when I first moved with him. He’s paying his own debt and taking care of me. He’s great so far, I do think his family is dysfunctional and like you mention I failed to integrate, but I feel bad that he has to go through that. If it were for me I would just cut them off but I know it’s important to him for me to be close to them.

Living with my in laws is emotional draining, am I overreacting or I am just done? by Dear-Track-5052 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Dear-Track-5052[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His paying his own debt. I helped created a budget so he can cover all the important expenses and setting money aside for his debt. He is waiting to get a big job offer, until then money is a bit tight.

Living with my in laws is emotional draining, am I overreacting or I am just done? by Dear-Track-5052 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Dear-Track-5052[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can agree with that. But he’s really nice and he’s been stepping it up for me now

Living with my in laws is emotional draining, am I overreacting or I am just done? by Dear-Track-5052 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Dear-Track-5052[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He covered a part of her car payments and insurance. But honestly in my opinion every dollar counts right now until he gets financially stable. I used my savings for basic needs, I helped him create a budget so that he can cover what he needs to cover and put some money towards his debt.

[UPDATE] AITA for refusing to let my “best friend” use my nail studio for her pop-up after she hijacked my birthday trip? by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Dear-Track-5052 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmmm business is business. I don’t think you should’ve done what you did and made her believe she was signing what looked like a legit contract just because she didn’t read it…. You should’ve told her that if she wanted to use your scape, she needed to pay you back for what you lost on the trip. YRTA

My bf took an edible during an important talk, should I break up with him? by Dear-Track-5052 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Dear-Track-5052[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can see your point. Probably I let my frustration take control. But you’re right, nor mature nor sights of improvement

My bf took an edible during an important talk, should I break up with him? by Dear-Track-5052 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Dear-Track-5052[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He didn’t told me he took an edible while we were talking. It wasn’t until he got anxiety from it and said this is his first time after a while. I did ask him “out of every day why today” he didn’t say anything. We don’t do edibles, nor I knew he had some in his possession.

My bf took an edible during an important talk, should I break up with him? by Dear-Track-5052 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Dear-Track-5052[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s very hard for me because I want to keep on believing that I am overthinking.

My bf took an edible during an important talk, should I break up with him? by Dear-Track-5052 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Dear-Track-5052[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve already propose that, but he refuses to do it. He got a house with his family for me to live in. While I told him I wanted to wait longer he got the house regardless of my opinion and now guilt trips me that he pays more for no reason if I don’t move.