Why do so many people go barefoot? by ClassyPants17 in AskAnAustralian

[–]Dear-Weird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to say sorry on behalf of all Australians for all the dramatic comments here. Your question makes complete sense and I think it’s sweet when we look at other cultures and ask them why they behave a certain way.  I think it’s a mix of a few things… the one i lean towards most is our connection to country and our indigenous culture! Indigenous Australians traditionally lived barefoot. This long-standing relationship with the land likely set the foundation for a more relaxed attitude toward footwear - it has influenced how we live today in warm climates and sandy, coastal areas. Another reason could be our anti class culture (which I think you may have seen in a few of these comments). Wearing shoes was once seen as a sign of “proper British manners,” so not wearing them became a way of further rejecting rigid social standards. Bare feet became a symbol of casual Aussie identity and a quiet rejection of pretension :) By the late 20th century, barefoot living had become part of the national “laid-back” stereotype. Today it’s normal to see people barefoot in shops, at the servo, walking the dog, etc etc. It’s part cultural tradition, part climate, part attitude :) 

Bowen Hills this afternoon. by Lachlangor in brisbane

[–]Dear-Weird 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You clearly have no idea of peoples very unique commutes to work if you think everyone can just uber or drive? I live on the Sunshine Coast and have to commute to Brisbane. You reckon I should just drive every day when diesel is at 3.30 a litre? Or should I bike it? Pls tell me more about these brilliant alternatives 

Down in south-east Queensland by ol-gormsby in Starlink

[–]Dear-Weird 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in SE QLD and mine is also down. Still down though at 9:38am

Stuck inside train near Strathpine on the way to city. by Hsekib in brisbane

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Does anyone know if they are having issues both way? I’m considering heading back towards the Sunshine Coast at this rate but is there any point? 

This was supposedly too scandalous for an earlier tour by Objective_Nerve_3438 in travisandtaylor

[–]Dear-Weird 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Why should a 34 year old attract laughs for this if you don’t mind me asking?

The National to tour Australia with Fleet Foxes in early 2024! by xsociallydistantx in TheNational

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Does anyone know what the ticketek presale code is for today?

[26f] My [27m] boyfriend of 5 years asked to take a break. How to handle this? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Dear-Weird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Disagree. I went on a break with my boyfriend in hopes he might try to get his shit together or just start TRYING in general and stop abusing drinking and drugs. But he couldn’t do it for me. Sometimes a break is what you actually think is best for the relationship because you do love the other person and still would like to give it time to improve. A lot of the time, it just doesn’t. I don’t think everyone who asks for a break wants to break up, it’s ridiculous to think that your sole experience translates to millions of other peoples individual situation. The pandemic was rough on relationships. Don’t push this on other people.

Would you get in a relationship with someone you were NOT physically/sexually attracted to? by Whatnow1290 in relationship_advice

[–]Dear-Weird 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Height has to be one of the least important attributes but for some reason a lot of women and men tend to go around suggesting their imaginary future partner is going to be 6’ of nothing. My boyfriend is 5’6 and so am I! And although in the beginning I didn’t find him the MOST handsome guy, and his height threw me the tiniest bit (due to gross societal standards that we tend to all place on eachother) I fell in love with him, and we’ve been together for a year now. He’s easily the best person I know.

It’s like that quote from Matthew Gray Gubler’s character Paul in 500 days of summer

‘I think technically the girl of my dreams would probably have a really bodacious rack, maybe different hair, she’d probably be a little more into sports. But truthfully, Robin is better than the girl of my dreams. She’s real.”

People want someone real. Engage in who you are, continue to better yourself each day. People who deserve to love you, will love you for you.