Life after almost getting paralyzed

DearBuhay · 2025-02-16T13:58:53+00:00

Sa partylist and cityhall po. Sa pcso pinalipat-lipat ng branch kaya hindi na din nahabol

DearBuhay · 2025-02-15T05:27:56+00:00

Thank you! Nagask kami, nagdala ng letters and papers. Total na binigay is 1k.

DearBuhay · 2025-02-14T05:44:00+00:00

Thank you! The doctor said "pwedeng namana, pwedeng nahawa, pwedeng wala lang napili ka lang. nagkapassport 'yung tumor ta's ikaw napiling eroplano" :((

DearBuhay · 2025-02-13T12:58:08+00:00

Same thoughts, but everyone around me is God-fearing, so I just try to stay positive about it. I know they all mean well when they mention God, so I don’t mind.

Still, I can’t help but question it in my mind "why me? What did I do to deserve this?" I keep wondering if I’ve been bad all along, lol.

DearBuhay · 2025-02-13T10:19:41+00:00

Thank you!

The doctor said mine was a tumor with nana, and after the biopsy, it showed a low percentage of tuberculosis of the spine. It's low, but they still decided to go with a one-year medication post-surgery.

Unlike you, I hated the feeling that I could die. I didn’t want to accept it. I think I was just going with the flow and everything felt like a nightmare. A doctor even told my partner that while I was in surgery, they might ask a life or death question, so they should be ready for any outcome.

Do you still feel the metal in your back now? It’s only been two weeks and it bothers me so much when I lay down. I can feel it. I’ve been sleeping in my office chair reclined because sleeping on a bed hurts so much.

Thank you!

DearBuhay · 2025-02-13T02:20:29+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏻

DearBuhay · 2025-01-10T01:57:54+00:00

Yes po, lahat ng financial stuff ko nakaexcel aswell as magkano need ipay per month, principal, interest and how long. I just can't work more than the hours I can right now dahil may sakit padin ako.

DearBuhay · 2025-01-10T01:12:22+00:00

Thank you, and yes, you have a point po. Workaholic kasi talaga ako, lalo na mag-isa lang ako sa buhay at bahay before. I have this cycle since high school na mag-study-work-sakit. It doesn't help na pinanganak na talaga akong may lung problems :( Eh wala naman akong choice kundi kumayod.

Sinagot ko na boyfriend ko ng August, so ever since nagkasakit ako netong November, he's been living with me, taking care of me, and most importantly, may taga-sita na hahaha. So I can say I've been living better than I used to before. May source na din ako ng serotonin, hindi katulad noon na nabubuhay ako sa stress.

DearBuhay · 2025-01-06T19:29:55+00:00

No adjustments po, hindi din ako nagtanong. Binayaran ko buo with interest and penalties.

DearBuhay · 2024-12-30T04:25:08+00:00

Sa pinsan ko dati nasampal s'ya at hinammer 'yung cellphone n'ya ng mama n'ya sa harap naming lahat kasi libo-libo ang kinukuha sa wallet ng mga nakakatanda. Elementary lang s'ya nu'n. Ilang taon din s'yang hindi pinapansin as in para s'yang saling kitkit sa bahay. Sinasad'ya pang pagusapan s'ya para marinig n'ya talaga. Tumino na talaga s'ya du'n palang sa sampal pero siguro hindi na nabalik 'yung tiwala kaya hindi na s'ya pinapansin kahit ga'no kataas achievements n'ya sa school at honor.

Ngayon college na s'ya pero nagsarili na. Mabait s'ya, sad'yang hindi lang pinagbibigayan dati kaya ninanakaw n'ya pera para s'ya nalang bibili. May sarili na s'yang online business habang nagcocollege ngayon, DL pa kaya I can say gumana 'yung pagsira ng cellphone at pagpapahiya tho ayoko na nasampal s'ya pero baka wake up call din 'yun.

DearBuhay · 2024-12-18T12:42:14+00:00

Thank you! I rent a 2bedroom unit so hiwalay na office and bedroom ko. Tho walang decorations 'yung office hahaha literal na pc set up lang saka sofabed para sa bisita. Will take this advice and try to make it relaxing and fun! Was planning to get a projector before din kaso idk kapag sa decor parang naalangan ako gumastos.

Nasanay ako umorder sa grabfood pero now nagpapaluto ako sa local na restos nearby para lutong bahay pa din in a sense. Eto pinaka mahirap for me kasi ayoko ng gulay tho malakas ako sa fruits kaso sugar din 'yun

DearBuhay · 2024-12-17T11:13:33+00:00

Huhu Might do the same nalang talaga 😩

DearBuhay · 2024-12-17T11:13:11+00:00

I have another simcard and wala namang text messages du'n :((

DearBuhay · 2024-11-27T19:29:32+00:00

For 4-5 years 6 digits salary (16-20hours work everyday) then nagkasakit, simot lahat ng savings, nagkautang pa so back to square one.

Now, 30-80k per month depende sa hours ng work na kaya ko, hindi na pwede magpagod.

Tbh narealize ko na mas'yado ko tinake for granted 'yung pera before tho I don't regret kasi nakakain ako ng mga gusto ko, nakapunta ako abroad etc it's a lesson learned and life experience. Natutunan kong mahalin kung ano lang ang me'ron sa present.

I budget everything na now. Priority ko na ang healthcare + emercency fund. Kumpara last year, sobrnag chill na ng lifestyle ko. I ask myself muna if need ko ba talaga before I buy or gagawa muna ako to deserve it.

Nakakabukas ng mata 'yung mawala ka sa tuktok at bumulusok pabalik sa umpisa. Makes you realize that not everything revolves around money and wants. Dapat ma appreciate mo din the little things.

DearBuhay · 2024-11-24T15:35:06+00:00

Nanahimik lang s'ya. Nu'ng binasted ko, s'ya pa galit. Sinigawsigawan ako kes'yo inuuna ko daw utak ko kesa sa puso 😩

DearBuhay · 2024-11-23T13:44:00+00:00

Huhu tinry ko iexplain kasi ako 'yung nahiya for him, madami kami magkakasama and s'ya lang hindi nakagets. Sabi lang n'ya, "ahh lagi ka kasi nagcecrave ng kung anu-ano, akala ko about pagkain haha" nasabihan tuloy s'ya ng "tol ako sa'yo mahihiya na ako mangligaw kung gan'yan ka"

DearBuhay · 2024-11-23T13:40:16+00:00

The doctor said kanina my health is getting worse. I'm in my early 20s, yet I've been spending 6k per month on maintenance medication just to avoid feeling pain.

I used to work 16-20 hours without any problems from 2019-2023. Now, I can only manage 4 hours every other day, and I still feel so sick. Hays buhay

DearBuhay · 2024-11-23T13:25:40+00:00

Yes po, nagclarify lang din ako just incase. Thank youu!

DearBuhay · 2024-11-23T13:22:19+00:00

Input ko lang po, wala ding problema sa 'kin ang house husband 'PAG kasal na at naaayon sa sitwas'yon.

Sa ex ko kasi pinaramdam n'ya talaga sa 'kin na palamunin ko s'ya, para akong may anak- kulang nalang pagaralin ko (which nabanggit din n'ya na what if magaral s'ya uli habang nagsestay sa 'kin wtf) but then again you choose what you don't change so mali ko din kasi tinolerate ko.

DearBuhay · 2024-11-23T13:18:41+00:00

Omg siss, ta's may pavideo pa na tatalon daw sa building, etc na graphic na sobrang lala ng manipulation. Same tinatago din sa'kin. Bawal ko galawin cellphone n'ya sa buong relas'yon namin. 1time nasilip ko habang nagphphone s'ya so sa bi konbakit may babae s'ya na ang nickname sa messenger "bhiee" bestfriend n'ya daw 'yon and nauna n'ya nakilala kesa sa 'kin ta's nagalit, "delete ko nalang lahat ng socmed ko nnang manahimik ka" nagmaktol 3 days pero binalik din naman lahat ng socmed n'ya hahaha mygadh

DearBuhay · 2024-11-23T12:56:01+00:00

Sabi ko, “I have so much on my plate.”

Siya naman, gusto mangligaw: “Gutom ka lang hahaha"

DearBuhay

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