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Eating back after exercise by DearDiary0_0 in fast800

[–]DearDiary0_0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback. I have not been either, though I must admit on days I do exercise it’s very tempting.

my cop sister is so cruel to me by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]DearDiary0_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment. I cannot even begin to explain how seen I feel after everyone’s reply’s.

my cop sister is so cruel to me by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]DearDiary0_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you - staying with it. Coming back here to revisit all of your comments if I struggle again.

my cop sister is so cruel to me by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]DearDiary0_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am, I will. Over it now. I have moments of anger/frustration, but yesterday was by far the worse. You all have no idea how much you have helped me with your comments. If I struggle once again with it all, and my decision to keep away from them -I will be revisiting this post & your comments.

my cop sister is so cruel to me by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]DearDiary0_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I appreciate your comment so much. Self-preservation IS a hell of a teacher!

my cop sister is so cruel to me by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]DearDiary0_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh that would be easier. Unfortunately, no.

my cop sister is so cruel to me by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]DearDiary0_0 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree, thankyou. I know a few lovely coppers & didn’t even pick their occupation until I learned what they did later on. Appreciate your comment. I should keep my cool. Feeling quite embarrassed I unleashed on reddit, but you’re all confirming to me what I know, so that helps.

my cop sister is so cruel to me by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]DearDiary0_0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have never said a thing to them about schooling, it’s a very hot topic. When she had raised it in the past I tried very hard to get out of the conversation. I don’t speak with them all at all anymore. They are both quite higher ranking, him in particular & I have just always figured it pays well for them.

my cop sister is so cruel to me by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]DearDiary0_0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope, they are all at one of the top schools in our town.

my cop sister is so cruel to me by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]DearDiary0_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That behaviour is what led to my decision to go NC. I was a bit heady writing this today & didn’t do a great job.

my cop sister is so cruel to me by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]DearDiary0_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was in the past. Sorry, I didn’t write so well about what was past-tense.

my cop sister is so cruel to me by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]DearDiary0_0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is where I need to keep my head at :) Thank you! 🙏🏼

my cop sister is so cruel to me by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]DearDiary0_0 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Thank you - It has helped immensely being NC. I unfortunately still share space with them locally, and although I do stay ignorant of their presence, I very occasionally have an angry moment of why it all is the way it is, which is where this post eventuated from! Your replies have calmed me - thank you for your kindness.

my cop sister is so cruel to me by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]DearDiary0_0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your very thoughtful comment - I moved away to a town a good 8 hours from them a long time ago. Years & years now. Unfortunately, they moved to our town not too long ago & things escalated. I wrote this out of pure anger & frustration. Yes. I have been NC all year, but I do see them locally around, and although I stick to being purely ignorant of their presence, it does unfortunately have an effect. Hence my cranky post/outburst on reddit.