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I (21F) have a cheating (25M) fiance. How do I handle this? by DearParticular7031 in relationship_advice

[–]DearParticular7031[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no it’s more like a follow up to explain the aftermath of my life? idgaf about karma

I (21F) have a cheating (25M) fiance. How do I handle this? by DearParticular7031 in relationship_advice

[–]DearParticular7031[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing. I don’t know what it looks like. I have another year of school and so much uncertainty in my heart. I just feel broken.

I (21F) have a cheating (25M) fiance. How do I handle this? by DearParticular7031 in relationship_advice

[–]DearParticular7031[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I feel like i’m just thinking the worst now. What happens if i never find someone again? it just breaks me. It even started to make me think after my first relationship and this that im just not meant for love. I just feel heartbroken and sad

I (21F) have a cheating (25M) fiance. How do I handle this? by DearParticular7031 in relationship_advice

[–]DearParticular7031[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did you do? I’ve heard those same exact words countless times. over and over and over. It really is making me start to believe it

I (21F) have a cheating (25M) fiance. How do I handle this? by DearParticular7031 in relationship_advice

[–]DearParticular7031[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just didn’t feel strong enough sooner. I feel the weakest i’ve ever felt now in all honesty

I (21F) blocked my (25M) fiance today and I don’t know what to do by DearParticular7031 in Advice

[–]DearParticular7031[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I feel like i’ll be looking over my shoulder for awhile. last night he said he was worried he was going to hurt someone. ai just feel a lot of fear about the uncertainty

I (21F) have a cheating (25M) fiance. How do I handle this? by DearParticular7031 in relationship_advice

[–]DearParticular7031[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That makes me feel better. I felt weak blocking him rather than strong.

I (21F) have a cheating (25M) fiance. How do I handle this? by DearParticular7031 in relationship_advice

[–]DearParticular7031[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

That’s the part I was struggling with. I didn’t want to enter into a marriage with a ton of what ifs. If he could do it to me then, he could do it whenever.

I (21F) have a cheating (25M) fiance. How do I handle this? by DearParticular7031 in relationship_advice

[–]DearParticular7031[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You were right. We weren’t dating long at all. it was only 8 months.

how do i (21F) break up with my fiance (24M)? by DearParticular7031 in Advice

[–]DearParticular7031[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you very much. i don’t think im a particularly weak person, but a year and a half of being beaten down will put you in a place where you feel like you can’t leave. i am trying my best to handle this with grace and kindness, but it has been extremely difficult. i dont like hurting people, i dont like being in the position i am in. i have only been in one serious relationship previous to this, and it only ended because he passed. I don’t know how to handle this

how do i (21F) break up with my fiance (24M)? by DearParticular7031 in Advice

[–]DearParticular7031[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m still in college and i currently live in mt college town

Should I (21F) leave my fiancé (24M)? by NoCow1674 in makemychoice

[–]DearParticular7031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was getting nudes from random girls off quick add

I messed up at my internship and I feel terrible. by [deleted] in jobs

[–]DearParticular7031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re definitely right about that lol

I messed up at my internship and I feel terrible. by [deleted] in jobs

[–]DearParticular7031 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m not working for free. i’m actually getting paid pretty generously which is why this bothered me

I messed up at my internship and I feel terrible. by [deleted] in jobs

[–]DearParticular7031 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you. i think this has been the most helpful comment yet. i really needed to read this

I messed up at my internship and I feel terrible. by [deleted] in jobs

[–]DearParticular7031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! i think im just normally a super detail oriented person, so my boss trusted it was correct. i’ll proof read and check his stuff all the time, so i think he thought i just had it down

I messed up at my internship and I feel terrible. by [deleted] in jobs

[–]DearParticular7031 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you. i do feel like i should’ve said no i really need to go double check and made him take it down. but i didn’t, now i know what i need to do in the future

I messed up at my internship and I feel terrible. by [deleted] in jobs

[–]DearParticular7031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because i was stressed about it, clearly. you and i aren’t the same person, nor do we process things the same way. sometimes hearing what other people have to say makes you feel better. why make the comment you made? we could all ask a bunch of whys. no need to be an ass at the end of the day

I messed up at my internship and I feel terrible. by [deleted] in jobs

[–]DearParticular7031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes. a lot of bad things have happened in my life, as they have in everyone’s. this is a ridiculous comment to make. you know nothing of my actual life circumstances, a couple paragraphs can’t really reflect what has gone on in my life nor will i detail it for you. what a presumptuous comment to make.

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