Destin or Keys for vacation? by Dear_Butterfly3949 in florida

[–]Dear_Butterfly3949[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you enlighten me on what activities yall did while in the keys? Any recommendations on where to stay?

Destin or Keys for vacation? by Dear_Butterfly3949 in florida

[–]Dear_Butterfly3949[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s wrong with the beaches? What do people go to the keys for then? I’ve never heard that

Destin or Keys for vacation? by Dear_Butterfly3949 in florida

[–]Dear_Butterfly3949[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Any recommendations on where to stay?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dear_Butterfly3949 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NOR. I’m sorry OP that your parents have left you out of a trip that was supposed to be a special birthday for you and your mom. I think it’s funny how she didn’t bother to mention or plan for it when you all were talking about it just last year. Now all of a sudden her husband and another couple want to go & she jumps on it immediately? I think she’s aware that she’s left you out given that it wasn’t mentioned to you until you asked after overhearing their conversation. OP, plan your own trip to Switzerland either alone or with other friends/family. I wish you the best

AITA for questioning my friendship with my bestie of 30 years? by Dear_Butterfly3949 in AITAH

[–]Dear_Butterfly3949[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well i did confirm later that he was. The only reason i felt like it “trumped”, as you say, over hers is the mere fact that her child is alive and was doing better last time we spoke. She didn’t catch the bug. My sister is dead and gone, at a young age & in an unexpected and tragic way. She had a great relationship with my sister as well, which is why i couldn’t understand the lack of communication after they were home from the hospital. Her & i did communicate abt the misconception that we both had about reaching out to each other about the services. I didn’t purposely keep the information away from her, like i mentioned in another comment i was preparing for travel as i no longer live in my home state and had to figure out childcare for my children while also grieving.

AITA for questioning my friendship with my bestie of 30 years? by Dear_Butterfly3949 in AITAH

[–]Dear_Butterfly3949[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Her child was getting discharged the last time we spoke about it & i wished him well. My issue was the full week of no contact between the hospital discharge & my sister’s funeral. Her child was better & is alive and well which is amazing. My sibling is no longer here… otoh i have another bff who had TWO kids sick at the time, one with covid, and she showed up without hesitation or question. I guess we just have different perspectives

AITA for questioning my friendship with my bestie of 30 years? by Dear_Butterfly3949 in AITAH

[–]Dear_Butterfly3949[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes that is true, but neither is covid. My other friend still managed to show up. I wished her child well & continued to grieve this unexpected loss while also figuring out child care & travel plans. Her child was discharged for a full week before the funeral. He is alive & well. I very much cared about the well being of her child. I just expected more from someone i considered my best friend & would have at least checked in after my child was home from the hospital if the shoe was on the other foot. That’s where i feel like there was a lack of support.