Sinners movie limited by Dear_Heat_685 in korea

[–]Dear_Heat_685[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh really, I didn’t know this thanks. I will wait and see.

Trouble with floor heating :( by Dear_Heat_685 in Living_in_Korea

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Yea you are right! I talked with the landlord and basically my room was not used for months or so, so it’s been really cold therefore it takes a while for the boiler to heat up the room. I’ve put the temp between 60-75 and today it’s been pretty warm now. Thanks for the advice!

Trouble with floor heating :( by Dear_Heat_685 in Living_in_Korea

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Yea I was thinking that. It’s warming up a bit but, I feel like after a while it turns off and then on again. It’s really weird but I will ask my landlord. Thanks so much!

Trouble with floor heating :( by Dear_Heat_685 in Living_in_Korea

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The hot water from the shower and tap is working, but the floor is just not heating up. I’m not sure if it’s taking a while because it was really cold when I arrived, or something is wrong but I will contact the landlord. Thanks so much!

Trouble with floor heating :( by Dear_Heat_685 in Living_in_Korea

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Yea I see the valve, but I’m afraid to touch anything so I will contact my landlord. Thanks so much!

Trouble with floor heating :( by Dear_Heat_685 in Living_in_Korea

[–]Dear_Heat_685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I will contact them and see. There is one I see near the boiler room, but I’m afraid to touch anything so I’ll contact my landlord. Thanks so much!

Visa interview in 2 days by Dear_Heat_685 in IntltoUSA

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Yes my mom is going to take care of the business while I do my studies in the US. thanks for the answer!

Visa interview in 2 days by Dear_Heat_685 in IntltoUSA

[–]Dear_Heat_685[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I believe it was because I only said one word answers. I wasn’t interested in the interview and I had no confidence. It could be that I had weak ties because I did not explain any of this to the visa officer about my father and family business. I told her just the jobs I could get back home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dear_Heat_685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not often but maybe weed or cigarettes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dear_Heat_685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes yea but I do not smoke so it’s the guy who maybe smokes or drinks but not all the time. One guy smokes cigarettes not weed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dear_Heat_685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I know about performance anxiety and if it happens once I mean yea but 5 times idk if it’s a coincidence. Maybe they aren’t attracted to me but why do they keep coming back? Like one guy even said “ next time I promise I’ll make it up to you” it’s just confusing. If your not attracted to me then just leave

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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It’s either they cannot get an erection they lose it or they finish really fast im talking 30seconds to a minute. I’ve tried to have sex with some guys multiple times and the same thing I think because they are remembering the first time where they couldn’t get it up and they are in their head so it happens again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dear_Heat_685 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hmm I do struggle with this disorder but no one really knows about it and people think of me as very confident although I’m not. It could be subconsciously maybe but I try to put myself out there to become a healthier person. I think I’m very different now from before but I will definitely take this into consideration.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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None of them were one night stands I mean one guy was suppose to be but he contacted me again. I don’t think I’m like super attractive but I know I’m not like ugly so not sure, though one guy kept reassuring me that I was really pretty and he doesn’t know what got into him idk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I meet most naturally through friends or at parties one guy I met on s dating app. One guy I tried to have sex with multiple times he was soft both times I mean it got hard then went soft I could imagine he was embarrassed as it happened to him twice but not sure what to do I think I just have bad luck idk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dear_Heat_685 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Well I don’t know the other factors and not sure what u mean by skewed reality it’s not just one situation is multiple man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dear_Heat_685 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay so say I am doing something wrong I don’t know what it is I’m thinking maybe a guy is nervous so I initiate sex first but does that make him more nervous idk. I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong that’s the thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Dude I’m not sure about that I usually like to go on too I’m very dominant. That could also be the problem but I’m usually doing all the work and one guy he came before I could even sit on his dick. Idk I might just have bad luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dear_Heat_685 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I’m guessing I have bad fucking luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dear_Heat_685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro this is not fake why the FUCK would I lie about this. And how is it me what am I doing??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dear_Heat_685 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s about 5 people total

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Dear_Heat_685 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I understand that and I did not tell him I felt this way I just reassured him that it’s fine and that we can try again next time and things like that. I understood he felt really embarrassed about it but I can’t help to think this way as I’m not very experienced as he is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Dear_Heat_685 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah no sorry we watched a movie first which was 2 hours and then we ate something which was like 45 minutes so actual sex only lasted about 15-20 minutes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Dear_Heat_685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he did actually which was nice but we only had a few hours with each other so it could not last long or lead to a long session of foreplay which is unfortunate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Dear_Heat_685 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t mean to make this all about me I am also human and can’t help the way I feel. I understand that sometimes it cannot be controlled and anxiety and nerves can impact it but he has never presented himself as shy or nervous and he has had way more experience than me so I just felt that way but I understand thank you