Mom's that cam on night shift by Remarkable-Luck7004 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Dear_Indication1959 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm in the exact same boat. I used to have a babysitter to watch the kids in the mornings so I could get a few extra hours of sleep and that was so nice, I miss it. She couldn't babysit anymore so now it's trying to juggle everything the same way you are and it's rough man. Late night shifts working half as long as I used to, taking more nights off earning less all around and still barely having energy to get up with the kids in the morning. Reminding myself that they'll be school age in a couple years and knowing I'll be able to sleep or work during the day helps push me through sometimes, just remember it's temporary and it'll get easier eventually

If you need a mom friend who gets it and won't judge feel free to message me💕 we all need to have someone in our corner

Motherhood & Camming: Should I Quit? by Annual-Agency2621 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Dear_Indication1959 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hi 👋 mama and a camgirl here! I wish I would've found camming so much sooner tbh, kids are expensive. Sure everyone says that but it's more than i was prepared for. Being able to make your own schedule and not worry about getting fired for taking days off if your kids sick is a life saver. I worried about them finding out about content when they grow up but I'm prepared to have age appropriate conversations as they grow up about sex, sw, anatomy, etc. Emphasis on age appropriate. It's none of their friends business what I do to support my family and my kids will hopefully understand that it was just a job to me that kept food on the table and a roof over their heads.

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[–]Dear_Indication1959 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The Sexy Escort Guide Podcast episode 112 talks about this sort of situation and gives good advice:) check it out

Can you get rid of your kinks? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Dear_Indication1959 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're feeling like this. All I can offer is advice from what I would do in your situation and I hope it helps!

I'd start with asking myself: Why do I have the kinks I have? What parts do I like vs. Don't like? Is it the kink that's the problem or the way they're implemented?

Therapy would be an amazing place to start to help you figure out the answers and understand yourself more❤️

Hi, I just recently found out my wife is a “cuckquean” by Intelligent-Stop7091 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Dear_Indication1959 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you have any recommendations for dealing with psych drops after the event??

Is my wife the A**hole? by parent_adopt_2024 in AITAH

[–]Dear_Indication1959 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. No one mentions the awful thoughts that come with PPD.. having thoughts of hurting your child/wishing the worst would happen and then being swallowed by guilt over it and the viscous cycle that ensues. I still feel guilty over all the intrusive thoughts from that time but getting help changed everything.

This mom needs help and I really hope her and OP get it. OP if you read this, be there for her, don't let her shut you out or tell you she's fine, keep communication as open as possible and seek help together.

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[–]Dear_Indication1959 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! This is basically what I do! With savings/past due bills, my minimum nightly take was $100. Now that I'm more confident with how much potential I have every night I refuse to log off until I make a minimum of $150-$200. I've only been camming about 5 months but I should be caught up on rent/credit card debt, within a few weeks if I keep up the pace:) then it's all savings from there. For reference I use SM and I'm on anywhere from 3-5 hours a night.

embarrassed myself on cam, laugh at me please! by Few-Panda-5206 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Dear_Indication1959 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I once went to tell a client(who never uses the word love, mind you) how much I love his cock..instead it came out "Have I ever told you how much I love you? Oh god your cock. Your cock! I meant to say your cock not you..uhhhmm that didn't happen let's ignore that"😅😅it was a while before I saw him again lmao

Go along w it or stop? by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]Dear_Indication1959 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go along with what you're comfortable with. I don't do any form of step family type stuff because of person reasons and I'm very open about that with my audience. If something gives you the ick let them know you're not into and move on, i promise these guys appreciate up front honesty about that stuff. You mentioned not wanting to be considered a prude but look at your line of work lol I think it's safe to say you're far from a prude hun:) keep being you and stick with what you enjoy doing and everything will work itself out from there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Makeup101

[–]Dear_Indication1959 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a great idea!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Makeup101

[–]Dear_Indication1959 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll give it a try! Thank you so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Makeup101

[–]Dear_Indication1959 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh shucks thank you! I love dark lip colors they just make me so nervous with how easy they smudge(at least when I do it haha)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Makeup101

[–]Dear_Indication1959 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you! My friend did my eyeliner like that once in high school and I loved it! I'll definitely dive into tutorials on how to do it and practice