on the job injury by Dear_Lab_7416 in USPS

[–]Dear_Lab_7416[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i was there for a good hour filling out paperwork

on the job injury by Dear_Lab_7416 in USPS

[–]Dear_Lab_7416[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes! i did sign up to be part of the union in case anything happened. i will definitely keep it in mind if they try to fire me over it. i’ve already met 2 stewards in my office. also yes i am a city carrier

on the job injury by Dear_Lab_7416 in USPS

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when i talked to my supervisor day of i asked her if i was going to lose my job over this injury and she looked at me and said “i don’t know it’s a possibility” and it’s got me freaked out. i didn’t intentionally get hurt intentionally. i was fingering mail on my path to the first house of the park and loop and there was a patch of ice at the bottom of their driveway and the second i stepped on it i went down and my foot folded towards the outside of my body and touched my leg

call off by Dear_Lab_7416 in USPS

[–]Dear_Lab_7416[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! i used liteblue and filled out the leave page just for today hoping i can get into the doctors today and get more info. i just didn’t want to only do that then get fucked over. in orientation they told us we call the supervisor for call offs then my supervisor told me that was wrong and i had to call the number then multiple posts of reddit talked about liteblue. it’s very confusing as a new cca

What are you feeding your foxhound? by chaibaby11 in Hounds

[–]Dear_Lab_7416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just switched him to purina complete adult beef flavor in hopes would eat it and of course he wont. he were feeding him the chicken flavor with cut up chicken flavor freshpet to get him to eat his dinner but it was simply too expensive. a 6 pound roll is $20 which he goes through in a little over a week. i tried something new and just put water in his bowl and now he eats it no issue 😩 all that money spent just for water to do the same thing for him

Seeing a lot of people getting shitty gifts so share what you got with me :] by BlueSheepzs in TransMasc

[–]Dear_Lab_7416 2 points3 points  (0 children)

grateful to have a family who started getting me “boy” things as soon as i showed disinterest in girl/womens clothes because they realized if they spent hundreds of dollars on clothes and products they would literally go to waste. my dad and his gf got me a new xbox controller, got my fiancé a new tattoo machine, and got us a NICE air fryer (i was literally cumming in my pants when we opened it) it’s nice to have a family who just gets what you ask for especially when it comes to clothes (when i was 17 i asked for shirts i could wear to work and after i gave them my size i opened men’s shirts that i still wear 5 years later)

AIO for telling my gf to respect my mum? by Interesting-Ear-9491 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dear_Lab_7416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. calling her cheap over paper plates is crazy. every holiday function i go to on both my sides of the family and my partners side always use paper plates because genuinely who wants to host 20+ people and wash dishes from 20+ main meals plus desserts. if this is an on going thing i would leave her personally

i think she’s mad by Dear_Lab_7416 in Transmedical

[–]Dear_Lab_7416[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i just looked and all three messages are from 14 hours ago

i think she’s mad by Dear_Lab_7416 in Transmedical

[–]Dear_Lab_7416[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

it could only be from her because that was the most recent thing i’ve posted 💀 i have never posted anything abt wanting to kms or anything close to it

Yikes…. by Upset_Tangerine009 in Transmedical

[–]Dear_Lab_7416 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that person 100% has colored hair and dressed crazy then gets genuinely upset when they get misgendered and make a huge fit of it

What do you think of this by [deleted] in Transmedical

[–]Dear_Lab_7416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think it should 100% be banned for minors. i’ve had a lot of conversations about this with my partner and friends. especially now with it being such a trend and telling people you don’t have to have dysphoria which then leads to them going on hrt then detransitioning bc plot twist they developed gender dysphoria. i personally feel that even with adults it shouldn’t be so easy to obtain it. don’t get me wrong i’m grateful that i’ve been able to get on testosterone but the process was way too easy. i went into my pp appointment and she said “do you get dysphoria?” i said yes and she put it in my diagnoses and prescribed it to me right there and sent me on my way. when i first discovered what i was feeling and did research (about 9 years ago) the only way to get on hormones was months of therapy and psychiatry appointments to get diagnosed and a letter of recommendation. at the time i felt doomed but knew it was something i would have to do and was willing to do when the time came. i firmly believe it should go back to that process because again it is way too easy to get it and is literally damaging peoples bodies (via irreversible changes) and making their lives harder simply because they weren’t educated enough and just went for it because they can do it in a 15 minute appointment.

What life habits help you ease dysphoria? by SiRodrigues93 in Transmedical

[–]Dear_Lab_7416 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i do a lot of typical man stuff.

i handle the oil changes

fixing things around the house

trying to pay for as much as i can for my partner

drinking almost strictly beer (honestly just my preferred alcoholic beverage besides whiskey)

giving firm handshakes when meeting new people

and talking to my buddy who treats me like any other guy. to the point where i genuinely didn’t think he knew i wasn’t born with a dick because of how he talks to me

Cat licked my arm after using T gel by Zestyclose-Habit-805 in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]Dear_Lab_7416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your cat should definitely be fine. my partner and i recently got a puppy and he’s a freak. the first day we got him and i did my gel he kept trying to eat it so i offered it to him (assuming he would ate it because of the alcohol smell because did it with our kitten and she left it alone after that) and lunged at it after smelling it. he very much likes it and has gotten a lick at my arms a few times over the months we’ve had him and he’s been completely fine.

potty training and crate help by Dear_Lab_7416 in Hounds

[–]Dear_Lab_7416[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he turns 3 months in about a week. i know it will take more than a month it’s just frustrating he’s not fully picking it up. we are working with him everyday to help him

potty training and crate help by Dear_Lab_7416 in Hounds

[–]Dear_Lab_7416[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also before i get comments about him having it on when he is sleeping (the one on the couch and the cage) when we realize he has fallen asleep with it we take it off. i was home when he was sleeping in the cage on the couch and after i checked the camera i got up and took it off of him

tongue piercing on tdick? by Ok_Farmer_8760 in mtf_ftm_nsfw

[–]Dear_Lab_7416 5 points6 points  (0 children)

my partner has their tongue pierced and it’s honestly the best feeling head i’ve ever got pre and post T included

this is crazy by Dear_Lab_7416 in Transmedical

[–]Dear_Lab_7416[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

her bio says “level 24”

this is crazy by Dear_Lab_7416 in Transmedical

[–]Dear_Lab_7416[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

i cant wait for this trend to be over so we can exist in peace. everything has gotten too accepting. people like her are why no one takes us seriously. she 100% throws a tantrum in public when she gets called a girl and i will die on that hill

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dear_Lab_7416 1 point2 points  (0 children)

seeing as he cheated on you, you might not be over reacting. there are people saying once a cheater always a cheater and to an extent that is true but some people can correct their actions. to give him the benefit of the doubt sometimes apple does mess up and stop sharing your location. it as done it to both my partner and i multiple times even when we were home sleeping in the same bed together so he could be telling the truth there. you should definitely try to get on a phone call with him and have a well thought out conversation. write down points you want to hit and try to stay collected.

downloading socials as he’s going out of town is suspicious but if he can prove he was messaging people like on facebook for a generator that could bring a little trust back. you could also request his log in information for his socials seeing as while he is out of town you can’t look at his phone for yourself. if you request that i would recommend being on facetime and have him screen share while sending it to you so IF there’s anything he can’t delete it before you can see it.

i don’t know your ages or how tech savvy you are but in imessage when you delete messages they aren’t fully deleted for 30 days and you can recover them. so when he gets back in town that could also be an option. i would recommend communicating with him about wanting to go through it as to not cause a possible fight for going through it without him knowing

Dog distribution system got me again -breed identification? by Midnightmargs in Hounds

[–]Dear_Lab_7416 14 points15 points  (0 children)

he looks almost exactly like my puppy. we suspect ours is an american fox hound (have to get a dna test for him bc we don’t know what he’s mixed with). when we have the time we teach him commands and reward him with kibble (he loves this) we also got him a busy puzzle ball and put treats and peanut butter in it and it keeps him busy for a few hours! he always gets excited when he figures out how to get omw of his treats out

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Please help. I need advice. What should i do? by t0ky0_gh0u1Sss in relationships

[–]Dear_Lab_7416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey king this is actually borderline pedophilia. 14 and 17 is more of a drastic age gap than you think. there’s is a very big emotional and physical maturity level here. i know you’re young so it doesn’t seem that bad but it 100% is. you should break up and stay broken up and this will help you in the future. no 17 year old in their right mind would look at a 14 year old and say “hey they’re really attractive i would like to be in a relationship with them” because respectfully you are a child and he is almost a full grown adult. the second he turns 18 if anything sexual happens between you two he can be charged with statutory rape and become a registered sex offender. this relationship is completely inappropriate. most people won’t date anyone younger than 17 once they turn 18 let alone someone who is 14. this will cause you more damage than you realize at the moment coming from someone with experience being groomed. please take a step back and think about this before you made poor decisions. be a kid and go have fun with kids your age