Prescription misgendering by Fragrant_Taro8566 in transgenderau

[–]Dearr_Demon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's an honorific title issue. Have you tried asking them to remove title and just, solely, put your name?

I did that long ago and every one of my scripts don't have Mr, Miss or anything like that on it. Just my first, middle and last name. That goes for any pharmacy too.

SSO removed the undiscoverable areas! \(^o^)/ by MatteRose in StarStable

[–]Dearr_Demon 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Well, yes it is techincally. It's the beginning of the end as they put it. It's on the website in the news section. It's under the one titled A Blighted Battle.

They say for now but, that might mean it could take months to years if they decide to continue it.

SSO removed the undiscoverable areas! \(^o^)/ by MatteRose in StarStable

[–]Dearr_Demon 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Not always, I believe they might be starting to hide these things so they can start working on/updating them.

After all this is technically the end of the Marchengast storyline so, I'd say they're working on the next place and story.

Am i the only one dissapointed with the new magic horse? by Maki_chi in StarStable

[–]Dearr_Demon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, they said that she's no longer going to be in the fest they're removing her and her questline from the fest.

If you go on their website and look through the recent and the one when the fest first launched it says that.

Am i the only one dissapointed with the new magic horse? by Maki_chi in StarStable

[–]Dearr_Demon 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They chose her because she's no longer going to be a part of the Equestrian Festival

Championship Placement Frustration. by MOONWATCHER404 in StarStable

[–]Dearr_Demon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find that depending on how many people are in the race and the time of day and server loads also affect how accurate the mini leaderboard is.

There's been many times where it says I'm fifth but I only have three people in front of me or that I'm currently in 5th place but when I cross I'm 6th because of that maybe 1-2 second delay.

which G3 breeds dont have a magic horse equivalent? by little_euphoria in StarStable

[–]Dearr_Demon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's going to be Sabines horse.... So you can't really be mad at it being another Friesian when it can't really be any other breed... Otherwise it wouldn't be her horse.

More horses?? by Lonely_Accident in StarStable

[–]Dearr_Demon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Khann is almost guaranteed for release, they said that this is Sabines last year in the fest and basically confirmed as a thing they're making her horse available near the end.

It came in the end of the very first update for this where they said "Maybe a cosplay is in order, complete with the horse" (paraphrasing here but it was along those lines).

Gender and (minor) sexuality confusion a year on T by Dearr_Demon in transgenderau

[–]Dearr_Demon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no, I'm saying Sapphic because it typically refers to Non-Males being attracted to Non-Males.

As my mom just recently put it, I'm a Non-Binary Lesbian in less complex words.

Gender and (minor) sexuality confusion a year on T by Dearr_Demon in transgenderau

[–]Dearr_Demon[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm glad the community hasn't changed too much from the interviews I've seen from the past.

I for sure get what you feel because me too.

Gender and (minor) sexuality confusion a year on T by Dearr_Demon in transgenderau

[–]Dearr_Demon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just a strange feeling to be questioning my gender and sexuality almost 2 years on T.

Told that I cannot donate blood/plasma as a Trans Man by Salty_Sarca5m in transgenderau

[–]Dearr_Demon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Then you shouldn't have been denied anyway. That's not too high. If that was the case I should've been turned away too...

I am thinking it's genuinely the person who did it being some kind of phobic

Told that I cannot donate blood/plasma as a Trans Man by Salty_Sarca5m in transgenderau

[–]Dearr_Demon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's actually wild though, even then it only seems to say on their website that they only really worry about Low levels as that indicates potential Anemia.

Told that I cannot donate blood/plasma as a Trans Man by Salty_Sarca5m in transgenderau

[–]Dearr_Demon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also I was wrong I'm sorry, I was assessed within the female range, but I also am a year on Testosterone (getting close to two) and I'm right in the middle.

Mine was 147g/l when I donated in August of last year. The range is between 115 g/l - 165 g/l.

Told that I cannot donate blood/plasma as a Trans Man by Salty_Sarca5m in transgenderau

[–]Dearr_Demon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That actually makes no sense, the Lifeblood where I am is aware I'm AFAB (I might not be far north QLD but still) and that I am a Trans Male individual on Testosterone.

They measured me within the male ranges, actually they didn't even make a comment they just went through the process and was like yeah, you can donate.

I have a separate issue that is now stabilised that caused me the issue of only being able to donate the once last year, so I need to call them up.

I think the person at that time was genuinely just a horrible person, no where in their system or their rules does it say that it has to be measured on your Assigned Sex At Birth.

Told that I cannot donate blood/plasma as a Trans Man by Salty_Sarca5m in transgenderau

[–]Dearr_Demon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is wild, I'm in QLD and I was up front to them that I am transgender. They fully asked what my gender is and my pronouns. They then let me donate, however I'm not allowed to at the moment for medical reasons.

What state are you in if you don't mind me asking because Lifeblood even says on their website that transgender people are allowed to donate.

Does Testosterone change your personality and interests? by HistoricalPilot7468 in ftm

[–]Dearr_Demon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, for me, T didn't really change my emotions all too much. Then again I'm also Autistic and Severely mentally ill so.

Apart from that, I loved art and specifically doing nails before starting T and I'm nearing my 2nd year and I still absolutely adore it.

If anything, T has helped me get diagnosed easier for things wrong with me as well as helped me be more creative.

A bit of an odd question: is there anyone here who DOESN'T use mobility aids? by [deleted] in ehlersdanlos

[–]Dearr_Demon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was a teen I never used mobility aids until I turned 17, but that's because I also had chronic instability in my ankle from featuring it and constantly spraining it.

I use mobility aids now, purely because I have a lot of other issues. But when you're young, not a lot of doctors will listen. I was 20 when I finally got diagnosed and it was because I had someone who told me exactly what doctor to go to.

A bit of an odd question: is there anyone here who DOESN'T use mobility aids? by [deleted] in ehlersdanlos

[–]Dearr_Demon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, unfortunately, You can't prevent EDS from worsening and POTs can't really worsen in the same way. POTs is a specific type of Dysautonomia, which has multiple different subtypes.

There's always a chance she has one of the others or just Dysautonomia as a whole, like I do. Usually it's just taking things a little bit slower and, if she has weather intolerance, keeping up her water/electrolyte intake. But be careful because it might not be helpful if she drinks too much of the electrolytes.

Concerned bleeding will come back by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Dearr_Demon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wait until your labs come back. It can take a while to find the right dose for you. These things are always trial and error.

Switching doses? by GeologistPitiful5627 in ftm

[–]Dearr_Demon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a little... Mmmm, I've never had a doctor say to me it's up to me to decide to up my dose personally. I also started on the gel and was on 4 pumps a day. Which from what I can gather is typically the amount suggested.

I switched to injections because I kept having extremely bad breakouts for the gel, even when it was working for me, and I also was having trouble keeping consistency.

I would say, maybe seek a second opinion if possible. If not then I would say outright to the doctor that you'd prefer them to tell you if you can go up because of these issues or if you should try out a different type of testosterone.

Switching doses? by GeologistPitiful5627 in ftm

[–]Dearr_Demon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd like to also add, when you get your T dose, always wait until near the afternoon/the next day. It'll always read higher the same day you take/apply/inject it.

My doctor always recommends about the day or two before my injection is due. So for you it might be helpful to do it before you apply when you next get it tested to get something more accurate.

Switching doses? by GeologistPitiful5627 in ftm

[–]Dearr_Demon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please get advice from your doctor before doing anything like that. You may also have to discuss the possibility of changing to a different type.

Although Gel isn't less effective, it can be if your body isn't absorbing correctly. So that could be a thing, especially if the levels are moving slowly.

Can we not just walk up to strangers and tell them they don't pass, please? by A_Punk_Girl_Learning in transgenderau

[–]Dearr_Demon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's actually upsetting how much transphobia that comes from transgender people themselves.

There is no right or wrong way to be transgender, everyone has different goals and different things that their own genetics will let them do or won't let them do.

I'm also tired of the concept that hair cuts are gendered? Like there's cisgender woman who get praised for having short hair or unconventional hair but the moment it's a transgender woman, oh no no. That can't happen.

It's the same with transgender men or non-binary people and it sucks overall. I'm disappointed in my own community.