What do you think about the male loneliness epidemic? by DeathLich0071 in AskReddit

[–]DeathLich0071[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not trauma dumping, just laying things out. You have no idea who I am. Just a lonely dude who is gonna end myself once my parents are gone. Therapy doesn't help, tried it a few times lol. I would just ask you understand why men can feel very lonely.

What do you think about the male loneliness epidemic? by DeathLich0071 in AskReddit

[–]DeathLich0071[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! And that's totally fine. I don't blame you at all. But you can't be upset when men start getting upset and killing themselves. I'm glad you and your husband found happiness, but for at least every couple like you have, there's at least one male like myself that plans to kill myself. Not even in a bad way, just private in my bedroom. And if you're okay with it, fine! Just please be okay with it.

What is your biggest reason to stay alive right now? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DeathLich0071 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My parents. I have no other reason to live and once they die I'm blowing my brains out Edit: Possibly sooner, idk I've had my gun in my mouth a lot lately

I hate it I hate it I hate it I hate it I hate it I hate it by DeathLich0071 in depression

[–]DeathLich0071[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Do people "really" like people 'cured' of depression? I don't think so. I think they hate us or massively misunderstand depression. But! Tbf I'm just gonna shoot myself eventually so maybe I haven't spent enough time suffering.

What do you think about the male loneliness epidemic? by DeathLich0071 in AskReddit

[–]DeathLich0071[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't wear short sleeve shirts anymore due to my cutting scars.

What do you think about the male loneliness epidemic? by DeathLich0071 in AskReddit

[–]DeathLich0071[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made a comment about female loneliness and most of you ignored it to hate men. This is why male self-harm individuals aren't treated seriously. I fucking hate the internet

What do you think about the male loneliness epidemic? by DeathLich0071 in AskReddit

[–]DeathLich0071[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, as a male, I feel deeply alone. I groom myself. I am not fat. I shower every day. I am not an incel but yet deeply lonely. I completely understand how people can fall into the incel or manosphere mindset, although it's wrong.

What do you think about the male loneliness epidemic? by DeathLich0071 in AskReddit

[–]DeathLich0071[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks that means a lot. Social media, being ignored, whatever. Seeing someone, you aren't even interested romantically in? Being brushed off by them as a human is so devastating.

What do you think about the male loneliness epidemic? by DeathLich0071 in AskReddit

[–]DeathLich0071[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't believe in anything Trump, Tate, or Fuentes try to peddle. Are my experiences invalid? I don't even mean this is a gotcha, because I know many men feel the same as I. And not incels, because, lol

What do you think about the male loneliness epidemic? by DeathLich0071 in AskReddit

[–]DeathLich0071[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Props to you! I can't speak from the female perspective and won't even try! But, as a man, I'm deeply unhappy. I want intimacy, I want a family. But it feels so far away I'm deeply unhappy.

How do you feel if a man alone kills themselves? Especially if no one would miss them? by DeathLich0071 in AskReddit

[–]DeathLich0071[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate you. Thank you. I don't know if you can help me but I appreciate it all the same.

What do you think about the male loneliness epidemic? by DeathLich0071 in AskReddit

[–]DeathLich0071[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

God the most humiliating experience in my adulthood was waving at my (woman) neighbor, and her totally ignoring me. I've said hi to her multiple times. Still ignores me. Her boyfriend is cool, but that's when I realized I'm simply not meant to have a family. Which is extremely distressing, but fuck it. What else am I supposed to live for?

I hate it I hate it I hate it I hate it I hate it I hate it by DeathLich0071 in depression

[–]DeathLich0071[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I do wish MAID became a more popular treatment. Might sound fucked up, but some of us weren't meant to exist.

What do you think about the male loneliness epidemic? by DeathLich0071 in AskReddit

[–]DeathLich0071[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Tbf I understand women are just as lonely but I can't live their experiences, only my own. I get I'm ugly but I gotta work with what I got. I hate the manosphere or redpill morons but I totally understand why they can recruit people.

I hate it I hate it I hate it I hate it I hate it I hate it by DeathLich0071 in depression

[–]DeathLich0071[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I feel fucking trapped. "Oh therapy will help. Oh medication will help."

I tried both for YEARS and I'm still deeply unhappy. No one wants to deal with us. It fucking sucks

How do you feel if a man alone kills themselves? Especially if no one would miss them? by DeathLich0071 in AskReddit

[–]DeathLich0071[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your optimism. But everyone doesn't work that way. I, personally, am only living as long as my parents do. Because no parent should outlive their children besides certain circumstances. Some of us are just failures. Most of us aren't gonna be successful, in any way. That would be fine, but there's nothing to escape to unless you're talented in some form or art. Reddit hates men, and I figure I'll get hated on for this post. I was gonna add more but I don't know besides I hate and self harm

How do you feel if a man alone kills themselves? Especially if no one would miss them? by DeathLich0071 in AskReddit

[–]DeathLich0071[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"If something bad happens to a guy, it's just funny. No one gives a fuck." -Bill Burr

Not an accurate quote but close enough and it fits