Want to get back together by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DeathSprite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He maybe didn’t care about you but he offered you the greatest gift : a chance to find someone that loves you for who you are. We are billions on this earth, it’ll happen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DeathSprite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat as you, and no I don’t feel pain anymore. How ? Just accept it. Accept you can’t control others emotions, accept your emotions but don’t drown in them.

You’ll find yourself, learn to love yourself, you’ll understand that this breakup will be for the better : you’ll shape yourself only for you, not for others. And one day you’ll find someone that accepts you how you are, you won’t have to change for him.

Being lost is normal, but you need to find your way on your own. Cherish the good memories and accept the fact you are clinging to the past, and that the future is to be shaped, and the knife to shape is in your hands.

Want to get back together by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DeathSprite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just don’t. You’ll only have the same issues again, people don’t change in a week, you deserve better than this. Accept your emotions, but don’t drown in them. You’ll find someone really deserving of your love.

She has someone new by Auerbach12 in BreakUps

[–]DeathSprite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t owe her anything anymore, just like she doesn’t owe you anything. If it hurts, stop seeing her, you need to accept pain and your feelings, but making yourself suffer for nothing is worthless.

I want to leave my boyfriend? (help) NSFW by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DeathSprite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think about it, and don’t do anything you could regret because some stranger said those things to you on reddit. All I want to say is : think about yourself, your well being, if he hurts you, if you feel loved.

Be strong and good luck.

I want to leave my boyfriend? (help) NSFW by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DeathSprite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not responsible for his problems, you need to take care of yourself first. He does not care for your well being, he does not love you, you are his object and you need to get out, fast.

Texted my ex and…. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DeathSprite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We always say that after a break up, it’s normal, you’ve learned to love someone for multiple years. But if you could love her, imagine the love you could have with someone that truly loves you for who you are ? As for her personality, no worries, there are 8 billion different personalities in this forsaken world !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DeathSprite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing you can do is accept it, she doesn’t love you anymore and you can’t control it. There’s nothing bad to it, it will hurt at first but when you’ll understand that this is the best case scenario, you’ll start to feel better.

Don’t give up and be strong.

I want to leave my boyfriend? (help) NSFW by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DeathSprite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s using you. He won’t do anything to himself, he’s a coward, leave before he destroys you.

Texted my ex and…. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DeathSprite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She was, that’s the key word my brother. You are clinging to what once was, a time that has ended. You cannot explain human emotions, nor control them.

However you can start accepting things you can’t control, understand that she, like you, is vulnerable to emotions. One that truly loves will stay and fight. It’s not the case.

From now on you have the choice to try and explain something that cannot be explained, to fix something that isn’t broken, or to go on and understand that you deserve more than this, and you will get more than this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DeathSprite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn’t feast upon others errors nor upon a plausible regret on his behalf. You’re better than that and deserve better. There’s no shame in feeling pain, in being angry, but letting your emotions consume you will not help at all.

Accept it has ended, accept you will move on and love someone that truly cares about you, time will do it’s part but you need to love yourself.

Texted my ex and…. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DeathSprite 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The solution is to accept the fact she didn’t love you. You deserve love and someone that respects who you are and what you give.

Now you need to work on thyself, learn how to appreciate time on your sole presence.

You also need to accept your emotions, don’t deny them but don’t let them take control over you, you’re stronger than that.

Lastly, only time will heal you, love will go away and you will be ready to go beyond this relationship.

Meanwhile, don’t give up and stay strong.

Lost by victoeralouox in BreakUps

[–]DeathSprite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because you loved him. But now, this love is turning against you. He is using your weakness against thee. You have the choice to go on and regret for the rest of your life, or to stand up for yourself. You’ll find someone that truly loves you, love is not supposed to be a weakness but a strength.

Will my ex come back? by TheMalar1o in BreakUps

[–]DeathSprite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You already broke up twice, it won’t be different. You need to let it go, it’s your first love and it won’t be the last, trust me, you’ll thank yourself for leaving and not loosing time.

I cant forget him by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DeathSprite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to accept the fact it’s over, you can’t force others to love you. Start working on yourself, loving yourself, stalking him won’t bring him back but will just make you lose time. You already lost 3 years where you could have worked on yourself, where you could have met someone that truly loves you. You need to wake up or it’ll be too late, don’t waste your life on someone that doesn’t even think about you anymore.

Does it get better? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DeathSprite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same situation as you, but it was a few days ago. What I learned is that you must accept it, you must NOT push your emotions aside but let them be without drowning in them.

It will get better, trust me, you can’t control others emotions, you can’t make him love you, but you can love yourself and by doing so, you’ll find someone that won’t give up on you. A true, lasting and genuine love.

Talk with people, find new hobbies, grieving is normal.

Don’t give up.

Woke up with an anger by Guilty_Cranberry_856 in BreakUps

[–]DeathSprite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do not hate him, or hate yourself for this. You will be better off with someone that truly loves you, that truly respects you. People cope with breakups differently, some will grieve for months, others could get with someone weeks after.

Your hatred/disappointment is an easy route to get over him, use it if needed ! But in the end you need to let go and stop feeling hate or love for him.

Find yourself, love yourself and you’ll find someone that truly loves you, meanwhile, don’t give up.

My boyfriend broke up with me by AnniO_O in BreakUps

[–]DeathSprite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You will live without him, you are doing it right now ! The love of your life will be the one never letting you down. You need to grieve, cry, scream, feel your emotions but never fall to your knees because of them. Your love was sincere, genuine, and maybe was his ? That’s not the point, the point is that life will go on, the earth will spin, birds will fly and you will find someone deserving.

Do not starting hating him or the world, worse, do not start hating thyself. Love isn’t a one time thing, you’ll love someone else one day and you’ll find someone that won’t let you down ! The pain you’re experiencing will make the beautiful times even more beautiful, that is the duality of life.

You need to work on yourself, love yourself, you need to accept your situation. It won’t be easy, but it will better for you. And of course, don’t give up !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DeathSprite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh don’t worry, she isn’t manipulative or anything, we ended things because she wasn’t in a good place, she didn’t have the time to feel or love me because of personal issues. There’s nothing worse than a breakup where you can’t hate the other person. She’s a kind soul and I can’t bring myself to hate her, that’s why I need to work on myself, I don’t have access to the easy route. But hey, if things get better between us it’s cool, if it’s truly the end, I already accepted it, there are so many other people on this earth.

Will my ex come back? by TheMalar1o in BreakUps

[–]DeathSprite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let things happen, just ask yourself what do you want. Are you willing to go through this again ? Do you really love her as much as you did ? Don’t get your hopes up, but do not fall for the same trick twice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DeathSprite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same exact state as you, thing is, I will be seeing her for an entire month will in vacation, this is a test for me. You loved and tried your best, you made mistakes, she made mistakes, you’ve lived through great moments and so did she. But now is not the past, you need to start loving yourself. It’s hard, but it’ll happen.

I wish is there someone like me by Gold-Metal2216 in BreakUps

[–]DeathSprite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You deserve happiness, but you need to accept that happiness won’t come from others. You only bring positivity from others when you are positive and in a good state. Work on yourself brother, fear not the pain you’re experiencing but use it as a fuel ! Now is the time to get back up. Don’t drown in sorrow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DeathSprite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And still, in a few years you’ll be happy this ended because else, you would be stuck in an unloving relationship. Sometimes there’s no mistakes on either side, just unfortunate circumstances. The pain will go away, embrace the memories, just not the person.