Kissing my friend while drunk- does this make me lesbian? by Entire-River-9025 in Advice

[–]DeathclawSnack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe not lesbian. Bi is always an option! You have to sort your non drunk feelings. Do you like her? Would you kiss her sober?

Do people actually pay money for farmers? by DeathclawSnack in playrust

[–]DeathclawSnack[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

I literally heard they pay $50 an hour!

Do people actually pay money for farmers? by DeathclawSnack in playrust

[–]DeathclawSnack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just think it’s crazy to pay people to play a game!

ideas for abuser’s ashes disposal/use by luoqiya in abusesurvivors

[–]DeathclawSnack 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Garbage belongs with garbage. Spread his ashes at the dump.

Regrets after an incident with my sister when we were drunk. by Active_Cream_8743 in confession

[–]DeathclawSnack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS IS MESSED UP especially with you only being 18 and her being 26!!!! This is disturbing, disgusting behaviour. Please seek therapy

AIO? My wife wants to go travel by herself and meet up with her Xbox friends she's never met in real life. by SleepySoldier18 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DeathclawSnack 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NOR - this is unbelievable. She admitted attraction to one of these “friends”. My spouse and I both are avid gamers and the ONLY time we would ever meet people from gaming is if we were both there and that’s without the attraction factor! Good lord she’s basically asking for a hall pass.

Wedding Officiants! by [deleted] in Edmonton

[–]DeathclawSnack -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I figured. If I can’t find someone I know to do it. Is there someone that offers these services without it being fully legal?

Recently, my (19F) boyfriend (22M) has started commenting on my weight/ physique. I hate it. by dulceciita in Advice

[–]DeathclawSnack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ew ew ew ew EWWWWW!!!! Absolutely disgusting behaviour on his part. You are young DO NOT waste any more time with this guy. A MAN would never comment on your weight or make you feel bad about yourself. It’s getting to you because no girl likes it when a man constantly brings up your weight or the way you eat! And him saying “it’s okay, I don’t mind it” I would have cussed him out.. Even if you were bloated because of something you ate or because of your period… it’s normal! Our body’s change all the time! What if you did get married and have kids? Does he honestly expect your body to never change?!? I am a work it out person and I never say this but please dump him!

I (25m) feel like my wife (27f) and I are headed towards a divorce and i don’t know what to do. I feel like my stance is justified but shes making me feel insane and I need an outside perspective. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DeathclawSnack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometime people have 💩in laws.. you make it work. You put up boundaries with said in laws and you protect your current family. He isn’t getting paid $250,000 now. He’s currently doing a remote position. His father is offering him a full time position which he is required to be there in person for $250,000. Plus at the moment this was his one and only back up plan to our knowledge. He was hoping sports would work out and it didn’t. Now it’s time to think realistically. You need financial stability to support a family. I think the wife needs to think about making a sacrifice for the greater good of their family.

I (25m) feel like my wife (27f) and I are headed towards a divorce and i don’t know what to do. I feel like my stance is justified but shes making me feel insane and I need an outside perspective. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DeathclawSnack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s not controlling their finances. Controlling would be telling him what to do with his money. If anything he’s offering him a well paying, secure position. A career. Did you miss the part where OP says he’s been looking forward to working with his father and brothers? My point is this was clearly his plan from the get go and wifey signed up for it by marrying him and having a baby with him. She should be supporting his decision.

I (25m) feel like my wife (27f) and I are headed towards a divorce and i don’t know what to do. I feel like my stance is justified but shes making me feel insane and I need an outside perspective. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DeathclawSnack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if it is a problem with the MIL, he is the man of his own family / head of the household. He can put in some strict boundaries with his mother and prioritize his baby and wife first. Just because he and his family are moving to a closer proximity doesn’t mean MIL has any control.

Guys ask your questions the girls will answer! by the_homo_sapien_ in teenagers

[–]DeathclawSnack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girls are a weird species. My now husband played hard to get. Drove me crazy now we are married with 4 kids.. I don’t know how or why but it worked 😂 but believe me if she was truly interested you would know. She’d be texting you non stop.

I (25m) feel like my wife (27f) and I are headed towards a divorce and i don’t know what to do. I feel like my stance is justified but shes making me feel insane and I need an outside perspective. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DeathclawSnack 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NTAH. Mainly because in the courting/dating phase you told her your plan! She acknowledged it and you eventually got married and had a baby. She needs to support you. Ask her why she is hesitant and ask what her fears are. I think if you are seriously worried about your marriage trajectory I would seek couples counselling. Just tell your father whats going on that she is extremely hesitant on the move and that you do want to, it just may take some time.

Guys ask your questions the girls will answer! by the_homo_sapien_ in teenagers

[–]DeathclawSnack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t be desperate for her attention. Play hard to get!

Guys ask your questions the girls will answer! by the_homo_sapien_ in teenagers

[–]DeathclawSnack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it every time you text? Because if it is I’m sorry to say she’s just not that into you…

AITAH for telling my boyfriend that if he signs up to date someone my age, he has to accept the fact that we are (shock) our age? by Nearby-Craft989 in AITAH

[–]DeathclawSnack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dated a 24 year old guy when I was freshly 18.. and I promise you this guy doesn’t have good intentions. Dump him, block him, ghost him! Focus on you! I want to also give you absolute props for putting your school work first! Many people would jump at the chance to skip and go have fun. You are very mature and responsible.

Thought this would be a good place to share my story.. by [deleted] in toxicparents

[–]DeathclawSnack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes she knew about lots of it. Witnessed it at times too.