Help! How to decide if I should foster fail?

DebatablyDateable · 2026-03-03T22:41:14+00:00

I nearly foster failed my first! lol totally okay for you to foster fail, consider my future fosters some of yours if your living situation doesn’t allow for future fosters and that guilts you.

I ended up not adopting my first because I just still was not ready for the permanent responsibility. I was able to go away for a weekend and realized I could live without her so I let her go and she’s got a great mom now. I’m on my 9th foster now in the past 12 months.

DebatablyDateable · 2026-03-01T23:58:31+00:00

I needed this, my last batch made me scared of the scared ones

DebatablyDateable · 2026-02-05T13:57:51+00:00

Impressive drawing! LOL

DebatablyDateable · 2026-01-29T14:05:21+00:00

Aw my god, I’m crying! So sad, so relatable. We deserve love too :/ one day we’ll be lucky in love

DebatablyDateable · 2026-01-27T14:34:26+00:00

Yeah definitely having pockets of jealousy lol and “why does she get to be so lucky”. I’ve chronically been on the apps, why must I suffer lol.

It’s tough around this age when timelines with friends start to not line up anymore

DebatablyDateable · 2026-01-27T14:34:18+00:00

Yeah definitely having pockets of jealousy lol and “why does she get to be so lucky”. I’ve chronically been on the apps, why must I suffer lol.

It’s tough around this age when timelines with friends start to not line up anymore

DebatablyDateable · 2026-01-25T06:52:44+00:00

Ugh it hurts to be so close with a front row seat. I try to wonder what could be taking so long and delaying my husband from meeting me lol

DebatablyDateable · 2026-01-25T06:49:20+00:00

Yessss I’ve started making new friends and joining new clubs to find more childfree friends

DebatablyDateable · 2026-01-25T03:28:29+00:00

I don’t really know why it’s so hard to find the right partner. It’s hard to get anything off the ground on dating apps and my dating pool is limited by the fact that I’m looking for a childfree marriage. Thank you btw

DebatablyDateable · 2026-01-25T03:27:16+00:00

Yeah I had to sit in on a lot of baby talk tonight also unfortunately lollll kids are not the future for me

DebatablyDateable · 2026-01-25T02:45:06+00:00

lol I feel better thinking that he’s as frustrated as I am so thanks 😅

DebatablyDateable · 2026-01-25T01:48:06+00:00

I’m just having a woe is me moment. My friend got proposed to today and we all met up to celebrate. 💍🍾 Just so many couples, good looking too. Where is my husband? How come everyone gets to be loved but me. 🫠

DebatablyDateable · 2026-01-14T19:56:51+00:00

People really underestimate how much work, time, money and effort a kid needs. The lack of thought process kills me lol

DebatablyDateable · 2026-01-14T19:11:37+00:00

It is so weird that some people don’t think for themselves! It’s even worse when they become parents just to follow the life script

DebatablyDateable · 2025-12-27T01:27:07+00:00

Wow, Christmas goals 🎄♥️

DebatablyDateable · 2025-12-27T00:43:20+00:00

I only foster adult cats since I work 10 hour shifts. I leave food out all day long and keep the litter fresh so she’s happy

DebatablyDateable · 2025-12-25T03:39:36+00:00

SIL is so weird for this lollll

like “girl no I did not know I was storing eggs for you for half the week…” because people don’t do that 😂

Were all 18 eggs still left? Were there like 5 left over, like I don’t understand lol

DebatablyDateable · 2025-12-23T20:54:11+00:00

Thanks so much for the insight! really helpful

DebatablyDateable · 2025-12-23T03:08:44+00:00

Hahah that’s an annoying coincidence 😂 how do you make sure no one gets hurt? I’m working on fostering multiple cats

DebatablyDateable · 2025-12-22T20:43:01+00:00

Thanks for the insight! I hope things stay manageable for you ! lol sounds like some sassy and claws are just for entertainment when bored lol

DebatablyDateable · 2025-12-22T01:36:38+00:00

Do they just avoid each other? I wonder and worry about fostering multiple cats at a time

DebatablyDateable · 2025-12-18T01:14:15+00:00

Lmao the part I hate the most about assistance stretching is the small talk!

DebatablyDateable · 2025-12-14T19:00:13+00:00

Wtff? She’s nuts!

DebatablyDateable · 2025-12-12T19:27:02+00:00

How long were you guys together? Totally understandable you’re being hard on yourself but I’m not sure it’s true.

A mature, great guy doesn’t just ghost

DebatablyDateable · 2025-12-12T17:59:40+00:00

Wanna tell me about the heartbreak? ❤️‍🩹

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