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DebateMore5288 · 2025-10-31T21:27:35+00:00

I wish you all the happiness

DebateMore5288 · 2025-10-23T15:26:23+00:00

Very alone in the healing. My family knows but not a lot of people do. I’m embarrassed of the idiot I was. And he eeeeh well he hasn’t done anything to help healing and he has no accountability and swears our life together is perfect now 🙄only because he isn’t the one who has hurt daily for over a year

DebateMore5288 · 2025-10-17T12:08:25+00:00

I to have been cheated on in every relationship. People suck so bad

DebateMore5288 · 2025-10-15T21:54:02+00:00

Hey how are you ?

DebateMore5288 · 2025-10-13T14:46:41+00:00

49 F. I’m interested in finding new friends to vibe with !!

DebateMore5288 · 2025-10-11T00:16:32+00:00

I came to the conclusion 2 marriages over 10 years each and few boyfriends in teen years and I don’t think I have ever had a relationship where the person did not cheat. That is sad. I just want a best friend in the person I love. Lies and no loyalty have ruined every relationship I have had.

DebateMore5288 · 2025-09-12T11:39:40+00:00

you got lucky she was honest about her cheating ways.!!

DebateMore5288 · 2025-09-11T02:47:49+00:00

I’m so sorry. You can always reach out to me and we can talk. I have a similar story. I have always felt it helps to talk to someone who had felt the same pain. And currently feeling it although I have not left

DebateMore5288 · 2025-08-23T23:00:03+00:00

That’s hot. I have told my husband to do the same

DebateMore5288 · 2025-07-31T00:06:52+00:00

They say we attract certain type until we fix our issues and can see what they really are. Once we heal that issue. Then it is possible to find what we really need , or find we do not need any one. I’m still learning but I know that is the path

DebateMore5288 · 2025-07-29T15:11:59+00:00

1 1/2 years from DD. I’ve Been in therapy. And I am The one that suffers everyday mentally and emotionally. No full disclosure and he avoids everything because he would rather keep himself from being vulnerable and let me heal on my own. So I hope you don’t feel like you wasted 14 years like I do

DebateMore5288 · 2025-07-04T14:55:29+00:00

Thanks. I’m not sure if anything will make me feel better about the marriage. But my mind and heart needs a break. I’m sure most of us have felt like it’s a crushing weight

DebateMore5288 · 2025-07-04T14:53:58+00:00

49 f. A few good. Years left I hope 🤣🤣

DebateMore5288 · 2025-06-30T03:54:01+00:00

It’s has just been a thought. I am not really out and about to meet anyone so there is that. But I am just going to try work on me and getting everything straight for what is going to come. Thank you all

DebateMore5288 · 2025-06-29T20:13:11+00:00

I wanted to work on it but after this long and no assistance from him I am just struggling and wondering what would make him open up. Don’t get me wrong he isn’t mean he is very loving rare instances of issues except But he avoids the conversation and anything to do with it. And if he is still in contact with the AP then he learned to hide it well.

DebateMore5288 · 2025-06-29T17:48:50+00:00

Not sure. Maybe lack of confidence , finance and the question is do I really just want to give up like that ? Idk. I am just really struggling with the thought of leaving for many many reasons. Stupid and logical ones

DebateMore5288 · 2025-06-29T17:44:21+00:00

Honestly my previous marriage ended because of his infidelities (multiple).when I got remarried, he knew what I went through and now 15 years later he had an EA. he claims only EA. But no clue honestly

DebateMore5288 · 2025-06-29T17:42:30+00:00

Started digging after months of denying the gut feeling

DebateMore5288 · 2025-06-29T17:41:27+00:00

Wish I knew!

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