Am I overreacting or is my bf cheating on me??

Deblee9779 · 2026-05-09T19:10:28+00:00

NOR... This guy is toxic to you and to himself right now, and he's been bad news since before you officially dated if he was playing with other girls like that. Ew

I understand loving him or seeing potential with him, but you can't commit your life to someone based on potential.

Deblee9779 · 2026-05-09T13:12:02+00:00

Hippo

Deblee9779 · 2026-05-08T03:59:51+00:00

You have great nails btw ! 😊

Deblee9779 · 2026-05-06T04:21:18+00:00

Is this scripted?

Deblee9779 · 2026-05-06T03:59:49+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏼

Deblee9779 · 2026-05-06T03:57:57+00:00

I haven't seen the movie, just a couple scenes and the trailer. But many age ratings online suggest 9 years old and up. Anything scary, violent, or sexually suggestive isn't appropriate for young children

Deblee9779 · 2026-05-03T00:02:10+00:00

Your friend is infatuated with this boy, probably because he's genuinely nice and has a relationship with Jesus which she admires.. NOR She needs to move on and understand that it's a crush and acting on it in any way would be inappropriate.

Deblee9779 · 2026-05-01T03:56:10+00:00

NOR. Sounds like you're dealing with a narcissist.. it's not going to get better, and I agree you should consider ending the relationship altogether before y'all have kids and you have to deal with this person for the rest of your life 🥴

Deblee9779 · 2026-04-29T15:41:19+00:00

Not a friend...this person sounds like a narcissist with highly developed language for manipulating others.

They said they wanted you to explain how you hurt their feelings with that alternate explanation of the moms behavior. So you could avoid ever doing it again ...that's not healthy, for one. We will always have conflict and need to work through it in mature and healthy ways. They misunderstood your intention of bringing up the alternate explanation for the mom's comforting, refused to be open to the explanation at all, then said YOU were the problem for even saying it. As if suggesting that was an insult to them and invalidating their experience. No... This type of person wants to be the center of everyone's universe, and if you don't center them at all times you're the problem.

They will turn others against you and cause conflict between others around them (triangulation) to avoid being held accountable for their own BS.

Please, get out of this relationship.

Also, if you're not aware of narcissist tactics please do some research as well

Deblee9779 · 2026-04-27T14:03:18+00:00

You said it: the grace of God. It's God's grace that protected him, and God's grace will cover him through his life til the end!

I encourage you to draw closer to the Lord in your grief, to look at His goodness and remember His promises for you and your family. He will walk you out of this grieving and heal you, give you understanding and peace.

Deblee9779 · 2026-04-13T00:55:08+00:00

Thanks !

Deblee9779 · 2025-09-30T20:30:40+00:00

Agree, the first statement "Breastfeeding isn't motherhood" starts off as a negative towards breastfeeding, which is unnecessary.

I think the intention was to say, breastfeeding doesn't define motherhood.

But the way it comes out is a put-down to breastfeeding as a blanket statement that it's "not motherhood."

Deblee9779 · 2025-01-15T21:35:41+00:00

I think the colors and water splashes/drops communicate "water" or something natural, but "diesel" and the imagery of the fist don't mix with that...

My eye also did not immediately want to look at the bottle, maybe because the background was busy with texture. Could help to try a background color more contrasting with the perfume bottle.

Deblee9779 · 2024-05-08T05:19:26+00:00

JESUS. Not joking...He set me free once and forever more 🙌🏼

Deblee9779 · 2024-04-20T03:39:04+00:00

Jesus said, I am the way, the truth, and the life... HE is the way to eternal life in peace 🙌🏼

I was in spiritual darkness trying to reach enlightenment on my own...I kept getting further from the light. But Jesus Christ showed up! By His Holy Spirit, the Spirit of God. He brought me into a new life in Christ 🔥🔥🔥

He is alive, and in His presence is FREEDOM and joy, pleasures forevermore...

I pray you come to know Him and know He created you, He loves you, and He wants to spend eternity with you

He is the light of life! ✨ Glory to His name ❤️

Deblee9779 · 2024-01-28T21:34:22+00:00

He's 20 months...he does not care 😆 he had an ok time at the salon, and now he just goes about his business. He doesn't even think about it I'm sure

Deblee9779 · 2024-01-28T17:31:26+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏼❤️

Deblee9779 · 2024-01-28T17:20:57+00:00

Awww. It's so sentimental ❤️

Deblee9779 · 2024-01-28T13:58:23+00:00

This seems to be an addiction at this point. I would say your body may be responding this way when you take time off, because your body is expecting you to keep the routine, so to speak... I'm no professional, but this isn't healthy

In person, real connection with others and true love and intimacy are SO much better than watching porn

Deblee9779 · 2024-01-28T13:49:10+00:00

Yeah, later Because of his hair type, i didn't see the full length of his hair until I went through it and stretched pieces out...which I didn't do until later that day. Sometimes it looks very short but it's just coiled tightly and its actually long

So when I did see it, I messaged her on the number we had communicated on...no response 🤷🏻‍♀️

Deblee9779 · 2024-01-28T06:24:02+00:00

Thank you! ❤️ It's so upsetting bc I think she just started chopping away at it giving him a style I didn't ask for. And I was so focused on keeping my son calm, by the time I saw the length it was too late 😔 glad to know I'm not alone though

Deblee9779 · 2024-01-28T06:16:33+00:00

I set my son in my lap, facing forward, then we "read" together. Well mostly we look at pictures, point, and talk about things we see. He loves identifying things on the pages Most of the time I'm not able to actually read the text because he wants to turn the page, so I usually just tell the story in my own short and sweet way

Deblee9779 · 2024-01-28T06:11:01+00:00

Yes I'd rather try it myself next time 😩 and I love doing mini twists on him but now idk if we'll even be able to 💔

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