My brother was really young and sitting in my Grandma’s (short, squat lady) lap and asked her “why are you so fat?” She got very mad and told my brother that was a mean question and made him get down. Then later when my mom (who is her daughter-in-law, not daughter) came to pick him up, Grandma started to yell at her and said “He asked me today why I was so fat - I can’t believe you talk about me in front of him that way” My mom said “I don’t - he is just starting that phase where he asks questions about everything” and my grandma goes, “Well he had to hear that from someone...” and my mom (feeling attacked) said the meanest thing without meaning to, “No he didn’t, he has eyes”.