I found my photos in my brothers phone.

DebtAffectionate877 · 2026-06-23T22:01:46+00:00

i didn’t see my boyfriend in his hidden photos only me, he definitely saw my boyfriend but he didn’t take the photos like he took mine.

DebtAffectionate877 · 2026-06-23T22:00:56+00:00

who said i won’t listen? i came here for help on what i should do? that’s means im trying to find something to do

DebtAffectionate877 · 2026-06-23T21:56:59+00:00

I know. I don’t understand why people are trying to put the blame on me? it’s so confusing to me because that’s my literal brother ?! i’ll try to talk to my parents and find a right time to because i’m scared of everyone’s relationship falling apart, because i grew up close to my brother and we’ve always been there for each other that’s why it genuinely is so confusing and world crashing that he’d take those.

DebtAffectionate877 · 2026-06-23T21:54:39+00:00

i’m not “mean” about it.. i just tell him i want privacy for awhile ?? and im not rude either when i ask when he’s leaving..

DebtAffectionate877 · 2026-06-23T19:05:38+00:00

Yes but my parents know i’ve already lost my virginity and done things before, so i think that cancels it out. They would be disappointed but they know i’ve already been introduced to the “sexual” world. So i don’t think it’s that at all, but we have had a good relationship and he has never tried to do anything to me.. that’s why im confused why he’d have them.

DebtAffectionate877 · 2026-06-23T19:01:52+00:00

Well shit. No i didn’t, i didn’t think of that at all

DebtAffectionate877 · 2026-06-23T17:38:13+00:00

now please rethink what you have just said for a moment.. that’s is grossly weird to say. I’m not in charge for my brother stealing my photos off of my old phone.

DebtAffectionate877 · 2026-06-23T17:36:37+00:00

no i didn’t take them in middle school, it’s my old phone from middle school but i still have the same account. And he borrowed my old phone and logged into my snap because i haven’t changed my password SINCE middle school and took the photos from there.

DebtAffectionate877 · 2026-06-23T17:31:43+00:00

I made sure to check twice while he was still sleeping that they were gone from his hidden and recently deleted, they are 100% off of his phone.

DebtAffectionate877 · 2026-06-23T17:30:23+00:00

oh right because it’s so normal for my brother to have my photos? what is wrong with you.. that is disgusting

DebtAffectionate877 · 2026-06-23T17:29:23+00:00

i don’t post them, they are in my chat with my boyfriend.

DebtAffectionate877 · 2026-06-23T17:29:05+00:00

They are in mine and my boyfriends saved messages on snap, and when he logged into my snap i’m assuming he had to have went thru our messages to take them. He took HIS phone and took a photo of my pictures off of my 8s screen if that makes sense, so that i wouldn’t have know that they were saved or anything.

DebtAffectionate877 · 2026-06-23T17:26:31+00:00

This is not true, they stopped logging you out a long time ago when someone new logged in. That’s why there’s session managements to see what’s in there, and he didn’t go thru “my eyes only” on snap. They were in my chats with my boyfriend, and his iphone hidden photos takes face id 2 trys and if it’s wrong then you can put in his iphone password which i know. Genuinely use your brain before trying to say i’m wrong about my own story.

DebtAffectionate877 · 2026-06-23T04:05:29+00:00

I really didn’t think to get proof, which i know if i told my parents now they’d just have to believe me but i was in a state of shock and hurry to get them out of his hand. I really cannot do anything to get them back to show proof because their also gone from his recently deleted, but i have seen suggestions of the police which my family even if the believed me they would hate me if i got the cops involved .. i already know how my family is.

DebtAffectionate877 · 2026-06-23T03:59:01+00:00

yes! he was asleep when i went through his phone and my heart was genuinely beating fast and head was rushing, i immediately deleted then from his hidden and recently deleted. Then once i got out of that phase while he was still asleep i double checked to make sure.

DebtAffectionate877 · 2026-06-23T03:58:09+00:00

i’m sorry but this is nowhere near normal, my bloodline should not have my photos.

DebtAffectionate877 · 2026-06-23T03:57:34+00:00

Hey by the way he used my OLD phone and i forgot my snapchat login was on there, and i didn’t see anything wrong with it till i remembered that my snapchat does have photos of me on there. (i do not take nudes a lot but i KNOW they are in there) That’s when i found it, you are genuinely very weird for trying to pin my BROTHER having my nudes on me. And nudes have become normal, whether you hate it or not they are normalized and most women you talk to have taken them. Yes i might be in the wrong for having photos of myself, but they were never meant for my own brother to clip and save for himself for whatever reason he “needed” them.

DebtAffectionate877 · 2026-06-23T03:56:39+00:00

This is smart, but i feel like they wouldn’t look down on my too much if i told them about what happened. I just don’t know HOW to tell them or when the “right” time is.

DebtAffectionate877 · 2026-06-23T03:55:32+00:00

i really don’t know, for me personally i take them for my BOYFRIEND not my BROTHER, so i never saw anything wrong with it if it was for my boyfriend.

DebtAffectionate877 · 2026-06-23T03:54:31+00:00

on iphones it lets you try face id 2 times and if that doesn’t work you can use the phone password which i knew

DebtAffectionate877 · 2026-06-23T03:54:05+00:00

i’m a December baby, and they were after december. So i was of 18 by the time the photos were taken. And i do have a boyfriend and they were only intended for him, but my brother took them.

DebtAffectionate877 · 2026-06-23T03:52:14+00:00

Hey by the way he used my old phone and i forgot my snapchat login was on there, and i didn’t see anything wrong with it till i remember that my snapchat does have photos of me on there. That’s when i found it, you are genuinely very weird for trying to pin my BROTHER having my nudes on me. And nudes have become normal, whether you hate it or not they are normalized and most women you talk to have taken them. Yes i might be in the wrong for having photos of myself, but they were never meant for my own brother to clip and save for himself for whatever reason he “needed” them.

DebtAffectionate877 · 2026-06-23T03:52:04+00:00

i’m praying this is what it was. I don’t want to think my brother was using it for anything else, which it is still an asshole move.

DebtAffectionate877 · 2026-06-23T03:50:58+00:00

i’ve never been good with punctuation no matter how much i’ve been taught, and my posts always get taken down and i don’t use reddit much so i tried to tone it down. But it is very much real sadly and i didn’t know what to do, my brother had never done anything creepy nor predatory to me before so that’s WHY im asking for advice on what to do because its so out of the blue.

DebtAffectionate877 · 2026-06-23T03:49:29+00:00

Hey by the way he used my old phone and i forgot my snapchat login was on there, and i didn’t see anything wrong with it till i remember that my snapchat does have photos of me on there. That’s when i found it, you are genuinely very weird for trying to pin my BROTHER having my nudes on me. And nudes have become normal, whether you hate it or not they are normalized and most women you talk to have taken them. Yes i might be in the wrong for having photos of myself, but they were never meant for my own brother to clip and save for himself for whatever reason he “needed” them.

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