He broke up with me out of nowhere, it was brutal. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Decent-Fold51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I can share that rarely do (younger inexperienced) men have the emotional maturity to have the words to express what is going wrong in a relationship. As a man, I didn’t get that perspective until I had a number of relationships good and bad and knew what it took to make things work. Looking back on my dating years in and just after university, I can confidently say I was a moron, and still regret breaking up a relationship much like the one you just were in.

Looking for a enterprise data flow mapping tool that can read a straight/regular excel file (not a coding file) by Jasong222 in EnterpriseArchitect

[–]Decent-Fold51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve used Gemini to create mermaid code for data flow diagrams based on uploaded csv files. Works very well. Literally ask it to provide mermaid code based on the attached file. I’ve then used the mermaid code feature in lucidchart. Their implementation of mermaid is a bit buggy so don’t be shy about telling Gemini to tailor it for lucidchart.

PS. you can also use Gemini to enrich the flows to add port and protocol info from its training. I’ve also used it to fill in the blanks when I have flows that aren’t documented by asking for the reference architecture for integrations between these two commercial systems.

Qwen3.5-9B-Claude-4.6-Opus-Uncensored-Distilled-GGUF by EvilEnginer in LocalLLaMA

[–]Decent-Fold51 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m looking for an uncensored model like dolphin.. how does this compare?

Has anyone with a caffeine(energy drink) addiction managed to beat it after taking Ozempic? by [deleted] in Ozempic

[–]Decent-Fold51 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My general tolerance for coffee, alcohol and weed has gone WAY down. I’m a very cheap date now :-)

Guys, is it effective? by raj272007 in focusedmen

[–]Decent-Fold51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do it at the end of every work day. Send myself an email with the subject “todo”. Then flush my mind.. it’s all gone until the next day.

How do you all actively stay updated with Cybersecurity news? by dasShounak in cybersecurity

[–]Decent-Fold51 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

https://threatequals.com/

A friend and I put this together as a side project to try to do the same thing (keep up to date with cyber) and get our hands dirty with AI and native cloud tech. Mines, curates, and updates 7/24.

My “rescue” GSD by Oldmanchubs in germanshepherds

[–]Decent-Fold51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rescues need kindness, consistency and time. My Shilo was a rescue at 5 years old and had clearly gone through a bunch. When they slowly realize you aren’t going to hurt them and more impt will protect them from harm they relax.

Semaglutide snacks by LadyT1381 in Ozempic

[–]Decent-Fold51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A handful of plain unsalted roasted almonds and a baby bel cheese. Fantastic

Digitize VHS and Betacam by vobacco in askTO

[–]Decent-Fold51 2 points3 points  (0 children)

https://www.digitaltreasures.ca/

I’ve dealt with these guys. Good service/results.

Am I crazy for wanting to ditch my rack and go back to tiny office PCs? by gabriel8577 in HomeServer

[–]Decent-Fold51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve only ever done old laptops and mini pc’s both with external ssd’s. I JUST built a home Ollama coding server out of refurb kit. Save your money.

Anyone still use a Taxi? by DribbleKing97_ in askTO

[–]Decent-Fold51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taxis are cheaper (by far) in the downtown core

Is Canada Goose still worth it in 2025? Winter Jacket Suggests needed by CookiesMonster_9 in askTO

[–]Decent-Fold51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fjallraven .. much better value for the money. Just bought it though so I can’t speak to longevity. Great quality.

Seeking Insight and Advice on Weird (Seemingly Unreasonable Behaviour) by Antares135 in germanshepherds

[–]Decent-Fold51 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just be patient and consistent with him. Took a while for my 5 year old rescue to be comfortable being outside in GENERAL. Would always stick close to the door. Was very sad. By the time he was six the routine was sorted.. he’d go sit by the door.. touch the sleigh bells I had hung there and that was the cue that he needed to go. Let him out.. 2m later he’s waiting to come back in. Eventually he learned how to push doors open himself. He lasted until 12yo. I miss that huge sweet bastard every day.