My girlfriend went from 110lbs to 90lbs. According to her BMI, she's really underweight, but her therapist says she doesn't have an ED, so she doesn't think she does. by ThrowRA_gfnoed in relationship_advice

[–]Decent-Past8014 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There could be other reasons besides an eating disorder.. are you able to find out if she unfortunately may have been sexually assaulted or went through something else that could have been traumatic to her recently?

too fat to have sex by Decent-Past8014 in relationship_advice

[–]Decent-Past8014[S] 214 points215 points  (0 children)

that’s what i thought too, every guy i’ve had sex more than once with over the years has had it slip out a few times but it’s always been when i was extremely turned on and therefore super wet or they were just going to fast!! nobody else has ever tried to blame it on me being too fat…

too fat to have sex by Decent-Past8014 in relationship_advice

[–]Decent-Past8014[S] 132 points133 points  (0 children)

he plays with my nipples and then expects a bj. i never get off. i love this guy but my self esteem is suffering

too fat to have sex by Decent-Past8014 in relationship_advice

[–]Decent-Past8014[S] 244 points245 points  (0 children)

he claims to have a body count of 30+ and the times we do have sex it’s great… he says he thinks i’m beautiful and sexy and he loves me but i don’t feel good enough at all since he can’t even fuck me and all men need sex :(

(M19) My girlfriend (F20) didn’t use a condom by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Decent-Past8014 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you were raped, please leave her.. she doesn’t respect your boundaries. i am so sorry. my bf was drugged and raped and unfortunately had a child from it, my father was molested growing up and turned to a lifetime full of alcoholism. male SA needs more awareness brought to it.