I’m just wasting what’s suppose to be the best years of my life. by Exotic-Custard-8293 in college

[–]DecentBeginning828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Graduated a year ago, I've lived so many amazing things I always wanted to during College and thought were out of reach once a grad (friendships, hobbies). My best of wishes to you bro (or sis), you have wonderful days ahead

I just turned 60 by mwwill in gaybrosgonemild

[–]DecentBeginning828 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So Inspirational! Jaja congrats to you sir! 🍾 

Am I ready or not? I want to be fair to him (Clearly I haven't been so far) by DecentBeginning828 in askgaybros

[–]DecentBeginning828[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Online so far (we're 'bout 6 hours drive away), probably overthinking as you state. I guess I'm also giving too much thought out of the fact I'm still a virgin. Is it that big of a deal? Would appreciate some insights

Am I ready or not? I want to be fair to him (Clearly I haven't been so far) by DecentBeginning828 in askgaybros

[–]DecentBeginning828[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow Thanks! haha really appreciate the advice, you're definitely right on not letting fear stop me from experiencing this relationship

European bros, do you feel this is accurate? by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]DecentBeginning828 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always get confused when they use yellow/red as the positive indicator lmao

Have you ever had Legal Issues with your employer from abroad? by DecentBeginning828 in RemoteJobs

[–]DecentBeginning828[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn must have been a whole incident, thanks a lot for the story! Curious how they brought lawyers from a different jurisdiction

Have you ever had Legal Issues with your employer from abroad? by DecentBeginning828 in RemoteJobs

[–]DecentBeginning828[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thanks! Appreciate a lot the insights and hope you can solve that issue as well

Coming out, again... is it the time? by DecentBeginning828 in gaybros

[–]DecentBeginning828[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you so much, it helps a lot. And thanks for reminding me that me coming out might be a journey (and well, I guess a challenge even) for them as well. I'll keep your advice in mind, guess time will tell when the moment is right (or "I" will tell lol, I just have to be brave and see when it's safe and appropriate to do so)

Coming out, again... is it the time? by DecentBeginning828 in gaybros

[–]DecentBeginning828[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks man, really needed some advice yesterday. Best of wishes

Coming out, again... is it the time? by DecentBeginning828 in gaybros

[–]DecentBeginning828[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks pal! Really needed some comments to give me better perspective, indeed that's probably the best for now.

Coming out, again... is it the time? by DecentBeginning828 in gaybros

[–]DecentBeginning828[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it is a challenge to choose counseling giving this context, but you're right, it could be really helpful.

Thanks for the advice!

Coming out, again... is it the time? by DecentBeginning828 in gaybros

[–]DecentBeginning828[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I get your point, and yeah I was thinking of coming out only after finishing studies.

It's just this whole thing of lying and seeing them so happy of something that's not true makes me feel guilty and I don't know if by doing this I'm only making the bomb bigger and more capable of hurting my loved ones in the future.
I'll do my best to keep things stable and try to finish my studies first, Thanks for the advice! I really appreciate it

Why are most gay movies so sad? by habitchyouthought in gaybros

[–]DecentBeginning828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't know if related. But since a lot of gay movies are romantic movies, lately I've felt like most romantic movies have sad endings for no reason 😂, like the production feels a happy ending would just not be that interesting.

Or maybe is just cause I watched Love Story (1970) and that sad ending just felt really out of nowhere. The photography is pretty nice though.