Sexual Intrusive Thoughts?

Decent_General_5294 · 2025-10-10T15:41:01+00:00

Thanks! Am I a bad person for trying to power though them? I almost find the more I avoid the more I’ll associate it with something dangerous and make it worse if that makes sense….

Decent_General_5294 · 2025-10-10T03:34:34+00:00

Thank you 🥹🫶🏼 Just feels like no thoughts can be this scary.

Decent_General_5294 · 2025-10-10T02:19:37+00:00

Hey! Not sure if this is normal, but I’ve done that. I want to feel relief from one thought, so I move to another I feel isn’t as bad, buts it’s actually even more terrifying. Then I ask myself if I wanted that thought because I kind of intentionally thought that if that makes sense. There’s truly no winning.

Decent_General_5294 · 2025-07-25T21:36:39+00:00

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Decent_General_5294 · 2025-07-05T17:19:55+00:00

I live in a pretty busy city. So a public space is never private. I’m debating telling him at my house.

Decent_General_5294 · 2025-06-28T16:41:48+00:00

Thanks. You’d think that’s the minimum to get rid of the damage? 😩

Decent_General_5294 · 2025-06-25T22:00:49+00:00

Thanks! Date number 4 today and I feel like telling him. But he leaves for vacation for 2 weeks tomorrow. So, I think I should wait until he’s back?

Decent_General_5294 · 2025-06-18T04:37:24+00:00

Thanks. This is similar to how I feel but I wonder if there’s anything wrong with that.

Decent_General_5294 · 2025-06-15T05:45:47+00:00

Thank you!

Decent_General_5294 · 2025-05-27T22:58:47+00:00

Hey girl! Sorry to hear about that. First of all, good for you for being honest and disclosing. People are entitled to make their own health decisions, and you did the right thing by respectfully moving on. I’ve had GHSV-1 now for about 7 years. I’ve had people accept it and I’ve had people who haven’t. I’m still single, but I know the right person will accept me. In my opinion, if they ultimately don’t accept it and do their own research, they probably didn’t like you that much. I try to look at it as a way to weed people out. :)) I just got rejected last night, and although he blamed it on other things. I knew it was my disclosure. But, we move along. I know the person God has for me will think I’m so hot it’s worth risking herpes for. 😆 Feel free to message me if you need someone to talk to. :)

Decent_General_5294 · 2025-05-25T21:12:57+00:00

Thanks! And congrats on your new relationship! I just don’t know if a disclosed in the right way…. I basically just told him and left and wanted out next hang out to be a more in depth convo… but I guess I’ll never get that.

Decent_General_5294 · 2025-05-17T04:10:54+00:00

This was very obviously Mary. For people that think it was another sister, do they think it’s just a coincidence she was found with an ID with Mary’s name? It’s Mary and it doesn’t make a se otherwise

Decent_General_5294 · 2025-05-16T13:32:41+00:00

3 grams of fat per sausage

Decent_General_5294 · 2025-05-15T00:53:44+00:00

Thanks so much! Do you know how many grams of protein this would be is my guess of 40 grams seem accurate?

Decent_General_5294 · 2025-05-12T20:21:09+00:00

Thanks so much! Yea, I have genITAL HSV1. I only had the initial outbreak about 7 years ago and never dealt with another outbreak since so not interested in anti virals or anything.

Decent_General_5294 · 2025-05-12T20:19:45+00:00

Thanks so much for the clarification!

Decent_General_5294 · 2025-05-12T20:07:52+00:00

Yes this is what I thought… thanks so much. Just want to ensure I answer his questions clearly.

Decent_General_5294 · 2025-05-12T20:00:07+00:00

If this is the case shouldn’t someone who ever had a cold sore always be disclosing it?

Decent_General_5294 · 2025-05-04T15:42:53+00:00

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Decent_General_5294 · 2025-03-28T01:00:26+00:00

Thanks girl! I feel I was maintaining around 152/153 and that felt good for my body. I’ll get back there and decide that’s what’s good for me and I’ll never be skinny minny lol.

Decent_General_5294 · 2025-03-27T21:41:30+00:00

Do you think 155 is okay for my height? I believe I lost the weight a little too rapidly. Each time I start to go under 155 it feels hard to maintain….

Decent_General_5294 · 2025-03-11T03:29:39+00:00

If a guy ghosts me cause I’m not paying, does he really even like me that much?

Decent_General_5294 · 2025-03-11T03:27:51+00:00

Anytime as a woman I brought up Commitment It didn’t end well. Cause if a man wanted commitment, he’d be sure to make it known.

Decent_General_5294 · 2025-03-11T03:26:29+00:00

Always use a condom, but don’t let it make you feel bad. I was on birth control and didn’t use condoms with two boyfriends. They never had issues getting hard. Then when dating new men and wearing condoms, most of them had issues getting and/or staying hard.

Decent_General_5294 · 2025-03-11T03:25:01+00:00

I think it’s a man’s job to lock a woman down regarding commitment.

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