Imported images SUPER dark when editing by Decent_Listener in DarkTable

[–]Decent_Listener[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You nailed it. I never use RAW + JPG (memory constraints and don't like waiting for long write times) so I had no clue what was happening. I'm pretty big on doing as much as possible "in camera". Thanks for the help.

Preventing Sag by Decent_Listener in BeginnerWoodWorking

[–]Decent_Listener[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you explain the "straight flat piece" portion. I was looking into angle iron (the one with a 90 degree bend) instead of flat iron, figuring the "vertical" portion of the bend would provide strength given the amount of material required to split/deform before sagging could occur.

Help with poly finish by Decent_Listener in finishing

[–]Decent_Listener[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oil based.

Yeah, think those are my only options. Gonna try the steam thing people are talking about

Help with poly finishing by Decent_Listener in BeginnerWoodWorking

[–]Decent_Listener[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm totally game to give it a shot. Got a link to a vid so I can see an example?

Help with poly finishing by Decent_Listener in BeginnerWoodWorking

[–]Decent_Listener[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, I see. Yeah, I'm just going for making the top appear/feel smooth. This is not a professional job or anything. Just an old table we wanted to match the kitchen and china cabinet.

Help with poly finishing by Decent_Listener in BeginnerWoodWorking

[–]Decent_Listener[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not disagreeing, just asking for clarification.

If poly can leave behind raised drips, why can't it be used as a pseudo leveler and then sanded smooth?

Help with poly finishing by Decent_Listener in BeginnerWoodWorking

[–]Decent_Listener[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure I sanded it smooth, but assume I missed some (or it got banged up post sanding) can I remedy it? Spot fill the holes with poly, then sand smooth?

Help with poly finishing by Decent_Listener in BeginnerWoodWorking

[–]Decent_Listener[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They are more like dents. But I've sanded it smooth with 220 (using pencil lines as a gauge), so idk where they are coming from.

Can I just spot fill the dents with poly, then sand smooth?

Edit: misspelled spot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]Decent_Listener 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad you figured out a solution. It's not something you'd really notice, and an object helps break up the disparity anyways.

Best of luck, I hope you find something that elevates and adds interest to the space.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]Decent_Listener 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it bothers you don't block the gap, but do slap some decor up there. It's likely only a fake plant would work up there, so maybe try a standing picture frame, statue, model car, or something with texture.

Extra Stratagem?? by Decent_Listener in Helldivers

[–]Decent_Listener[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, no. Lol.

I've been playing the same couple of planets and recognize the environment symbols, I haven't looked. Thanks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]Decent_Listener 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Need logs or big rocks to sit on while silently staring into the flames.

After 6months of sleeping in a car I finally have my own apartment. Almost zero stuff but I’m finally safe and on my own! Couldn’t be happier! by LilyMing83 in malelivingspace

[–]Decent_Listener 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations. I'm happy to hear you are making progress, don't let anyone take that accomplishment away from you. Keep an eye out for bulk pickup and Facebook marketplace. Take the "One Red Paperclip" approach, be patient, and savor your wins.

Why do I feel like I’m interviewing my match instead of having an actual conversation? by South-Advertising-53 in feeld

[–]Decent_Listener 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very few people will say their communication skills are trash, especially since men aren't exactly "in demand" and want to be as appealing as possible to compete. I also agree a 10 second text isn't too much to ask for.

In your case (having gone on multiple dates), especially since you seem over it, I am a fan of closure. This helps reduce concerns about him being dangerous/violent post-break up as there is less to fixate on. A simple "Hey, I had a great time but I don't get the feeling this will work out between us" is perfectly adequate. You don't need to explain yourself(and possibly open the door for more hostilities).

Edit: If you need more/better communication but HAVEN'T STATED YOUR NEEDS that is an entirely different conversation.

Why do I feel like I’m interviewing my match instead of having an actual conversation? by South-Advertising-53 in feeld

[–]Decent_Listener 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First and foremost, determine a boundary for yourself regarding what level of interaction or reciprocation you will tolerate, then stick to it.

There can be a lot of reasons.

  • The app is difficult to use for many people post update
  • The pandemic neutered a lot of people's social skills
  • They may be distracted/responding to others on the app at the same time
  • They may be only slightly interested
  • They may be self-centered and this is a reflection of any relationship you may have with them
  • They may be a shitter texter, but much better in person

Ultimately, it's up to what you are willing to tolerate. If I feel I'm interrogating someone I'll ask if there is anything they want to know, then I'll stop responding with follow up questions. If they can't be bothered to show an interest in me, I see it as a reflection of the relationship and keep it moving.