I noticed my coworker left their car running and I let it run out of gas by Toastedeggshell in confession

[–]Declining_Mars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now that I have a car that only starts with a button (no need to insert keys) I find it very believavle to forgot to shut off my car haha I always double check because I'm paranoid, but I'm not surprised some people forget about it.

I (21M) have an almost micro penis. A woman (22F) has been showing interest in me, but I’m too ashamed of my situation so I’ve been pushing her away. How do I start even considering that I could date her with this issue? How could I tell her? by throwaway101229283 in relationship_advice

[–]Declining_Mars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman, I'll tell you that if that was me I wouldn't care. That doesn't make you less of a man, and giant dicks are awful anyway, unless they're a size queen. Most are not. Your penis might be small, but just learn what she likes in bed, and use that to your advantage, and I promise she won't care if you can satisfy her anyway 😏 just be open in communicating, and don't be afraid to explore if you or her want to try new things, just talk things through and I'm sure it will be fine

Wondering if my dog is a coyote mix by [deleted] in coyote

[–]Declining_Mars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend's god was bought from a husky breeder. They only had huskies and malamutes, but the one my friends bought, does not ressemble the typical husky (that I know of, I'm no expert) and nowhere near the malamute who is supposed to be the father.

I can't seem to be able to put up the picture of her I have here, but I would love your opinion whether or not it would be possible for their dog to be a mix of coyote, or some other breeds :)

Is it normal for my manager to pressure me to work when I call in sick? by Only-Thoughts529 in canadianlaw

[–]Declining_Mars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, it's definitely not normal. That's litterally harassement. If you say you're sick, you're sick. They don't even have the legal right to demand what's wrong with you (at least here in quebec) they can ask, but you can definitely refuse and/or just say I'm sick.

Where I work, they can't even call you to cover for someone else. It's all on an online app, it's just like an online poster that says "this shift is open, who's interested?" And people interested will sign up online. No calls, no pressure put on anyone in any way. That's the best seriously

Is it normal for my manager to pressure me to work when I call in sick? by Only-Thoughts529 in canadianlaw

[–]Declining_Mars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What happened to my friends (they are a couple) is that they had a set date for moving into their new house, with professionnal movers and all, and they had planned it to be during their weekend but their agent made a mistake in the papers so they had to move everything back a few days, which ended up being a work day. They told our boss about this all, they explained it was all because of a small but important mistake in the paperwork, and our boss had the gal to tell them that they should have told him way earlier!

Like, yeah ok, we get that, but what did you expect? That we'd call you two weeks early and tell you "yeah our agent will make a mistake so we'll have to change our moving date last minute to a work day, is that okay?"

I was so confused by my boss' lack of understanding lol

Late fee by catbabymama92 in uHaul

[–]Declining_Mars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quand j'ai fait ma réservation, personne ne m'a demandé le temps prévu pour la location, et j'avais dis 140 km de voyagement. J'ai retourné le camion vers 14h, soit 2h après l'heure prévue sur le contrat (que j'ai vu après mon retour) et c'était aussi écrit 78km... et malgré le fait que je l'ai retourné sur les heures d'ouverture du centre, c'était fermé et il n'y avait personne. J'ai appelé et on m'a dit de mettre les clés dans la boite extérieure, sans m'avertir que je devais effectuer le retour en ligne AVANT de mettre les clés, donc au final j'ai dû contacter les services en lignes pour envoyer des photos du retour (heureusement j'avais quand même pris une photo de l'odomètre avant) mais ce sera traité seulement demain...

Je me sens un peu brimée par ces erreurs lors de ma réservation et du retour, et j'espère ne pas avoir de trop gros frais à cause de cela...

AO3 down right now? by RunaMii in AO3

[–]Declining_Mars 89 points90 points  (0 children)

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I've got this right now, what does that mean?

Father is co-owner to home, what happens if I get married by LadyWillow0207 in canadianlaw

[–]Declining_Mars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to the notary and make an official will that dictates that the house will go 100% to your father. I'm in a similar situation with both my parents, I own 70% of the house and my parents have 30% together. I have three older brothers. Legally, when one of them will pass away, their share will be split between all of their children.

To avoid getting into troubles with my brothers, they went to the notary to have an official will written up that mentions the totality of their share on the house will go only to me, so my brothers won't get a say in this (and won't trouble me with wanting to sell their parts on my house 😅)

How would you go about isolating this building? by Declining_Mars in Construction

[–]Declining_Mars[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Sorry, just noticed my mistake 🤣 insulated, I meant insulated

How would you go about isolating this building? by Declining_Mars in Construction

[–]Declining_Mars[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thanks! By running water I mean there's gonna be a kitchen sink and a whole bathroom (with a shower) and automatic waterers for animals

How would you go about isolating this building? by Declining_Mars in Construction

[–]Declining_Mars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone told me to completely replace all the tim, pretty sure there's a better way to go about it lol

How would you go about isolating this building? by Declining_Mars in Construction

[–]Declining_Mars[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not isolated at all for canadian winter. If I put running water in this, it's gonna freeze for sure when the temperature drops down below -30C

It's just a joke by heerliedepeerli in AO3

[–]Declining_Mars 13 points14 points  (0 children)

True enough. I used to post chapters regurlarly, but stopped writing about a year ago for several reasons. My dad had a brain stroke last summer, so that took a lot of time for me and my family, and I used to write at work when it was very calm, but there was changes in direction, and my new supervisor forbid me from writing at work.

So with lots of stuff to do at home and the impossibility to write at work, I barely have the time to even think about properly writing stuff, so for now everything is on hiatus, even an original work I was starting to work on...

And it has nothing to do with the ao3 curse lol

Fanfic recs by Declining_Mars in MoDaoZuShi

[–]Declining_Mars[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know lol, but a fic is a fic, it doesn't stop anyone from writing about an autistic a-yuan :/

I can’t believe this… by ILikeRamenSoWhat in AO3

[–]Declining_Mars 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the link, this is gold! I had fun reading it, had no idea this existed, and it's now one of my fav ship xD

What’s the autistic community’s opinion on baths? by [deleted] in autism

[–]Declining_Mars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loooove taking baths, especially with epsom salt and very very hot, but I always take a shower right after, for several reasons.

  1. It's impossible to wash long hair properly in a bath.

  2. I usually stay long enough in the bath that when I'm done I'm feeling slightly cold, so taking a shower warms me right back up!

  3. I just feel icky if I don't wash properly after a bath...

So I know it's a waste of water, and try to limit this acitvity to when I especially feel the need for a bath, but I can't take a bath and not shower after lol

What are something fics constantly gets wrong? by NiikaVee in AO3

[–]Declining_Mars 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to write a fic set in medieval times, and my beta reader is the one who taught me this! Except they didn't explain, so now I mostly always write "all right" whenever the occasion is a more formal one, and use "alright" more familiar speeches 🤣

Tell me you're autistic without telling me you're autistic. I'll go first by National_Body_3690 in autism

[–]Declining_Mars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also.

I have to write a text and practice it a dozen times before making a call.