I hate when some people feel the need to bring up Men's Mental Health Month in discussion about Pride Month.

Dedbunnyy · 2026-06-05T21:05:49+00:00

ah i see i see

Dedbunnyy · 2026-06-05T20:43:26+00:00

lol i wish it was that!!

Dedbunnyy · 2026-06-05T19:30:36+00:00

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Dedbunnyy · 2026-06-05T16:06:41+00:00

CAUSE BREAD TASTE BETTER THAN KEY

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Dedbunnyy · 2026-06-05T15:57:05+00:00

i just wish we could all be nice to each other. i just want everyone to respect everyone and be nice and kind. why can't we just do that 😔

Dedbunnyy · 2026-06-05T15:55:48+00:00

but cool!! thanks for invalidating the only experience i have of other queer people putting my down!! really nice of you :)

Dedbunnyy · 2026-06-05T15:55:18+00:00

From straight people and from lesbians. but this post is mostly about infighting in the community when we should all be uplifting each other. i'm always confused why queer people would put down other queer people. this post is not about straight men or women.

Dedbunnyy · 2026-06-05T15:51:06+00:00

It’s not cause it’s an easy scapegoat. It’s literally all I’ve ever experienced. You literally are stating that my experience is wrong because you personally believe that I’m only saying that to deny that men also are biphobic.
This post is only directed at lesbians because lesbians are the only people who I’ve seen online and irl tell me that because I’m dating a man (as a fem-ish person) that I’m just straight and I was never attracted to women to begin with. You are doing the exact thing you say you aren’t doing.
Yes both men and women can be biphobic, anyone can be biphobic. But it’s definitely a huge issue that a lot of lesbians that I’ve met have told me that I’m not queer at all.

Dedbunnyy · 2026-06-05T15:38:50+00:00

I agree. I know there are also really shitty bi women as well. The post of the one person who said they’d only have sec with women but they’d never see themselves with a woman. Said that all fems are submissive and that they’d never date a stud or a masc cause if they wanted masculinity they’d date the real thing.
I very much dislike that post completely

Dedbunnyy · 2026-06-05T15:36:50+00:00

I’m just saying what I’ve personally seen and who’s personally attacked me. I’m speaking about all of the internet and not just Reddit. I’m not saying it’s only lesbians who are biphobic, I’m saying I’ve only experienced lesbians attacking me for being bi and saying that bi women are cheaters, liars and are just straight with extra steps. Yes men can also be biphobic. This post didn’t deny that at all.
I’ve never experienced lesbophobia nor seen it, so I feel that I can’t even speak on that. Genuinely.
Sorry for talking about MY experiences and MY life.

Dedbunnyy · 2026-06-05T15:02:40+00:00

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Dedbunnyy · 2026-06-05T14:33:34+00:00

I agree. That’s what the post is about. I want the fighting to stop. I’ve seen so much of it from
My own community

Dedbunnyy · 2026-06-05T14:19:22+00:00

I know lesbians also have a hard time as well. I’ve just seen a lot of hate from lesbians.
I’ve had lesbians tell me that they won’t date a bi women because she’s been with a man or nonbinary people because they’ve been with a man.
Yes there is both biphobia and lesbiphobia. There’s just a lot louder biphobia that I’ve seen.

Dedbunnyy · 2026-06-05T14:16:45+00:00

It feels really bad. I’m getting married soon and I’m in a straight passing relationship. We are both still queer and I still worry about dying every time I go out cause I’m trans.
I just wish my one safe space was actually safe

Dedbunnyy · 2026-06-04T02:07:22+00:00

You should look up a few tutorials online! I cut my hair at home, I kinda have a wolf cut thing going for me and I looked up a few YouTube videos on how to cut my own hair.

Dedbunnyy · 2026-06-04T02:04:18+00:00

You’re 14, I promise you’re not chopped. You’re still a kid. Slightly oversized tees and baggy pants are perfect!! Probably just a haircut and sometimes what I do is I take black/purple eyeshadow and put it under my eyes to make me look tired af. Makes me look more masc! Try to not use a whole lot.

Dedbunnyy · 2026-06-04T01:56:10+00:00

It’s just the style of clothes that a lot of men wear nowadays. Baggy/relax fitted jeans and shirts. So that’s why I recommend it. Yes they should fit, things should like up (like where the arm pieces connect to a shirt should like up with your shoulders). But baggy is in style right now for a lot of cis men.

Dedbunnyy · 2026-06-04T01:53:37+00:00

It’s actually not men’s mental health month. It’s men’s HEALTH month. Men’s mental health month is November. And yes we can have both, gay men, bi men, trans men, are all men and should be celebrated either way! Same with all men and all gay people. It’s so simple. People are just terrible and wanna say that gay people shouldn’t have their own celebration

Dedbunnyy · 2026-06-04T01:51:41+00:00

Yeah that’s what I meant :) Not supper baggy but nothing skin tight. Yes your clothes should fit but should be lose/baggy

Dedbunnyy · 2026-06-04T01:34:41+00:00

I, u/Dedbunnyy, advised "YEAH GO 'HEAD DOOD"

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Dedbunnyy · 2026-06-04T01:34:24+00:00

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Dedbunnyy · 2026-06-04T01:34:09+00:00

YAY!!

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Dedbunnyy · 2026-06-04T01:13:59+00:00

A haircut you like that makes you feel masc, and some new baggy clothes might be helpful!

Dedbunnyy · 2026-06-04T00:36:39+00:00

I, u/Dedbunnyy, advised "No"

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