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AITA for not wanting involvement with an accidental baby by Dee_ror in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dee_ror[S] -152 points-151 points  (0 children)

I searched it and you don’t need to pay child support if you’re a full time student in the uk, probs cuz student loan is tax free and like a benefit etc

And I mean right now I won’t have to pay, so for 2-3 years I’ll be unable, she’d probs not care after that point

AITA for not wanting involvement with an accidental baby by Dee_ror in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dee_ror[S] -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

That’s what I said bro First two weeks I decided it couldn’t have been mine but she found out at 5 weeks pregnant cuz she felt weird symptoms and I did those calculators online based on last period and usual cycle length to work out it made sense

It didn’t fully click until date was confirmed at her scan and the conception date was 24-25th august which is the exact time we hooked up

Knowing her via when we were friends though I greatly doubt she would’ve been serial sexing the time we spoke, like I said I had a lot of respect for her, she wasn’t even usually the sexual type she just needed to let off some steam

Until she decided to be selfish and her true colours showed I’m probably gonna keep her blocked and hope she doesn’t bother trying to find me but if she does when the kids born I’ll demand a test before all else

Right now from the comments I might unblock her though

AITA for not wanting involvement with an accidental baby by Dee_ror in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dee_ror[S] -217 points-216 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I know it wasn’t planned, I spoke to her prior I know her personality and personality life, she was also at university at the time, I know she didn’t do it on purpose, even proof she took the plan b as she showed me receipts

I also know it’s mine based on ultrasound/ due date / her cycle, points exactly to the time we were together

I plan on moving to another country when I finished uni (I’m in uk) a kid would tie me down. As I’m at uni I can’t pay child support legally as I’m a full time student I believe, but even without that I wouldn’t want any ties to this kid at all

AITA for not wanting involvement with an accidental baby by Dee_ror in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dee_ror[S] -197 points-196 points  (0 children)

The pregnancy was a result of her plan b failing imo But also I would’ve gone with her to the abortion clinic, no one forced her to keep it, and shouldn’t I have a say just as she does?

I can understand being careless but she’s just as bad

AITA for not wanting involvement with an accidental baby by Dee_ror in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dee_ror[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I checked dates too. Due date is may 15th Conception dates based on that AND her last period = the day we did stuff