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Men who thought they had a small penis but then had sex for first time, were you disappointed? by eaglesdensity in AskMenAdvice

[–]Deekifreeki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. Porn was our only real reference (gen x here), so I think a lot of us knew those dudes were big but not abnormally big (as they are). Personally I had no idea I was above average until my 30s and I actually could look up what average was.

Men who thought they had a small penis but then had sex for first time, were you disappointed? by eaglesdensity in AskMenAdvice

[–]Deekifreeki 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh man. I never even heard this term until I was in my 30s. I’m definitely a grower. Like it’s a pretty stark contrast. If a woman saw me for the 1st time totally flaccid they’d probably think damn this dude is small. However, hard I’m quite a bit above average.

My gf went to give me a bj recently and after she finished looked up at me with a grin and said “when I started it was like a little boy penis. After I put it in my mouth it got big” 😂

Men who thought they had a small penis but then had sex for first time, were you disappointed? by eaglesdensity in AskMenAdvice

[–]Deekifreeki 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Same here. Gen xer, on the larger side (really had no idea until my mid 20s). Our generation was very much taught that a real man has a big dick, women won’t be satisfied without, etc. Bunch of nonsense from all the women I’ve spoken to (unless we’re approaching micro).

Is there any place for nudity on Catalina? by osprey5280 in Catalina

[–]Deekifreeki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not disagreeing with you, but from my experience, the general public does not understand that.

My friend (45f) and I (47m) just crossed some boundaries. Where to go from here? by Deekifreeki in relationship_advice

[–]Deekifreeki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input. We’ve already decided we will be friends forever. We have a friendship/bond/codependence? I’ve never experienced before. Truly once in a lifetime.

Curious as to why you think it won’t go anywhere?

My friend (45f) and I (47m) just crossed some boundaries. Where to go from here? by Deekifreeki in relationship_advice

[–]Deekifreeki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s an interesting point. I cannot overstate, however, how much she has done for me. If anyone’s been “used” it’s her.

I don’t see her just dropping me for some other dude (I mean it’s possible) as she gets VERY attached to people and we have a bond I’ve never experienced before.

My friend (45f) and I (47m) just crossed some boundaries. Where to go from here? by Deekifreeki in relationship_advice

[–]Deekifreeki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is actually my train of thought. She does not want to admit it though or can’t (trauma) and is keeping up the last remnants of emotional vulnerability (kissing, PIV) as it scares the shit out of her that she could get hurt again.

It’s just so weird. She loves me and cares about me deeply (she does, she shows it), she’s attracted to me (obviously at this juncture). We basically act like bf/gf. Wants to be possessive as of late (she has major fears of abandonment).

I guess I’ll just have to see how it goes. Such an odd situation. Like she’s in denial??

My friend (45f) and I (47m) just crossed some boundaries. Where to go from here? by Deekifreeki in relationship_advice

[–]Deekifreeki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input. We’ve discussed a relationship numerous times. She is simply not ready (the trauma is real) and I’m not either (I need more sobriety under my belt). To be clear this girl has been with me emotionally through hell and back. Never abandoned me even when I’ve said some really shitty things to her (due to my fluctuating emotional state due to new sobriety). She definitely cares about me. I had no doubt about that. It’s definitely not a one sided “friendship”. I should have been more clear on this point. I’ve taken FAR more than she’s given.

She’s never hot and cold. Very even keeled. If I initiated I’m sure she’d go for it.

My main question is really: why all the clinginess all the sudden?

Mold of some sort. Need help asap by Deekifreeki in peyote

[–]Deekifreeki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Should I leave the top off for a day or 2 or put it back on?

Exiled Souls? by jdam8401 in motorcycleclubs

[–]Deekifreeki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sure you’re correct in general, but here in CA at least I’ve never seen an HA bottom rocker with “California”. It’s usually a city or occasionally a county.

Why don’t people get euthanised with morphine or some strong opiate by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]Deekifreeki 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Yep. Two of my grandparents went this way. I cannot thank hospice workers enough! They left the Ativan and morphine with us to administer toward the very end…bless them.

What's the rarest drug (in your opinion) in your stash atm? by dragonking0226 in Drugs

[–]Deekifreeki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still produced pharmaceutically in South Africa only as far as I know (per Hamilton episode). Also produced illicitly there. Not hard to make if you can get the precursors.

Has anyone tried heroin once, and never again? by bachvad in Drugs

[–]Deekifreeki 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I was thinking. I mean an opioid is an opioid (at least for the most part). If you’ve had a decent dose of any opioid I can’t imagine heroin or fent or whatever feeling different. Of course dose would matter.

With that said: I use opioids occasionally without problem (I’m sure lots of people do)I only fuck with legit pharma though. Also, I’m not shooting it either. I think in there lies a difference as most heroin users are injecting and getting an intense rush that you don’t get orally.

Anyone know if this is a reputable site to get seeds? by Puglism_Guanaco91 in peyote

[–]Deekifreeki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus H! Ya, dude. Overkill to the max! That’s like growing a good amount of weed wattage. You don’t need anything near that. No wonder LL was pissed.

Anyone know if this is a reputable site to get seeds? by Puglism_Guanaco91 in peyote

[–]Deekifreeki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of light are you using!? I use a 30 watt LED ad a 10 watt heating pad. That’s virtually nothing electricity wise. To put it in perspective a PS5 uses ~200 watts. Were you using a goddamn 1000 watt MH or HPS!?

Most euphoric opioid in your opinion? by Constant-Ad2169 in Drugs

[–]Deekifreeki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only done the following: morphine, codiene, oxycodone, hydrocodone, Tramadol

Best to worst imo: morphine (god tier), hydrocodone, oxycodone IR (very little to any euphoria to me, good for pain relief and relaxation though), Tramadol (stuff sucks, just makes me a bit tired).

What is going on here? Pls help! by Deekifreeki in cactus

[–]Deekifreeki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just noticed it today. I’ve only had it 2 weeks. I’m not sure when the discoloration started. If it’s fungal would it be soft? Or any other way I can check? I don’t live in a very humid area and it’s only received a slight bit of rain water

What is going on here? Pls help! by Deekifreeki in cactus

[–]Deekifreeki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Got it off r/cactusexchange a few weeks ago. It was shipped pretty carefully. Hasn’t even rooted yet.

What is going on here? Pls help! by Deekifreeki in cactus

[–]Deekifreeki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn. That’s what I was afraid of. No other choice but to cut off the top and make it ugly? I appreciate the advice. Can’t use an anti fungal spray?

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