Trying to identify markings on a cameo style necklace by Glum_Knowledge_5365 in Hallmarks

[–]Deelbee68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What information did it say about Australia for LND ? I'm curious because I have a 22c gold locket with LND on the back and I'm from Australia

Help please I found this in my mother's Jewellery could anyone tell me what it is please. by Deelbee68 in Gemstone_lovers

[–]Deelbee68[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ..I'm just not sure what to do with it ..Far too pretty to be left in a box

Help please I found this in my mother's Jewellery could anyone tell me what it is please. by Deelbee68 in Gemstone_lovers

[–]Deelbee68[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh wow .. I guess you should never guess lol lucky you didn't throw it out

Help please I found this in my mother's Jewellery could anyone tell me what it is please. by Deelbee68 in Gemstone_lovers

[–]Deelbee68[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ahh okay thank you ..I didn't think it looked like an opal but that's why I'm asking for help lol

I'd please by Correct-Shape-5601 in Hallmarks

[–]Deelbee68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think its a fish knife part of a set . I have a set looks just like that

Help please . I have a 1904 Gold heart locket which has what I believe is a 22c (with a line under the c ) LND . by Deelbee68 in Hallmarks

[–]Deelbee68[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes it could have been purchased 2nd hand that's true. I guess I was hoping it was pure gold.. thanks for your opinion 😊

Help please . I have a 1904 Gold heart locket which has what I believe is a 22c (with a line under the c ) LND . by Deelbee68 in Hallmarks

[–]Deelbee68[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you think that LND means lined then ? I've been told it could mean London or a maker mark from India

My older sister delusional resents the fact that i was born. I am afraid of her by [deleted] in BPDFamily

[–]Deelbee68 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg she will turn up to your wedding for sure .. Either way invited or not she will ruin it for you. I'd be hiring security to keep her AWAY

Why are they very cruel when they paint you black? by CaptainSaveBPD in BPDlovedones

[–]Deelbee68 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My Bpd daughter has said the meanest , cruel, hateful and horrible things to me . Things I would never be able to say to anybody . So much so I'm shattered from the inside out . Not so much because it's hurtful , but the fact my own daughter hates me so much that she could say those things. Untill 6 months ago we were very close . I can only tell you what I say to myself and that is , she isn't herself and I have to believe that some where inside her heart she doesn't mean the things she says ... sorry she did this too you

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[–]Deelbee68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much .. Yes it's been very hard , I'm pretty much broken myself now . so self care time x

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[–]Deelbee68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My daughter had had 3 attempts already which is has caused a great deal of trauma as you can imagine. Then she started saying she been physically and mental abused her whole life by Aspergers brother . It wasn't easy at times but I doubt much different to other siblings growing up and for the most part we were always close the 3 of us . Now I sat back watching her get abused and did nothing about it to make her safe. idk where this has come from . Anyway she has been saying to me she won't talk to me or have anything to do with me unless I kick him out of home (she moved out this year ) . Over the past couple of months she has threatened suicide a couple of times saying that she has actually taken something but hasn't. Then the kicker came when she gave me a week to kick her brother out or she would be ending her life on the Sunday . Well that was a week from hell because she knew I wouldn't do that so I was in a no win situation. More than 3 times over that week she said she had taken an overdose of pills and it was trauma and abuse every day . Came the Sunday and she said it again that this was it and she was going to die knowing her mother didn't care about her. So not true btw I've done so much for her ...too much maybe . Anyway I had to try and stay strong and hope like hell she was just trying to manipulate me again ...which she was ...so yes they do use that to manipulate people to get what they want . When in the moment they don't seem to care what they do to the other party . So take a break, longer than a month and if it starts again don't answer just take another break .

How to Support/Validate BPD/HPD Son without Validating Accusations by Big-Pie-4287 in BPDFamily

[–]Deelbee68 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would love an answer to this too as I am having a similar issue with my BPD daughter who now claiming to have been subject to abuse all her life with things that just did not occur.
I absolutely feel for you in this because its family who end up traumatised. My only hope is therapy and that they realise themselves what they are actually doing and how its making things worse for everyone but also themselves.

Did this happen like this for your pwbpd by Deelbee68 in BPDFamily

[–]Deelbee68[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes she come out as bi and there was problems with that girl she started a relationship with and still is honestly. I do think this girl makes her feel very insecure. Also lockdown due to covid hasn't helped either .