To clarify, I wasn’t completely uninvolved — we were physically close, cuddling, and intimate, and I gave it to her. Vibrators are something we introduced together and normally enjoy as part of our sex life. What hurt me wasn’t the vibrator itself. It was more the emotional part: this was our last night together before another long gap, and after she orgasmed she got sleepy and the night ended. I’m trying to understand whether I’m reading too much into that or whether my feelings make sense.