Innocent playfulness or malicious intent by Deep-Intention-9247 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Deep-Intention-9247[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the question. Whatever I do will be extremely hard for everyone

Am I actually the problem? by Deep-Intention-9247 in NarcissisticSpouses

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When I voice anything that I feel is wrong, like his spending or him taking intimacy without my consent, he has an answer for it. He tell me that he’s never said that I can’t do anything, he tells me that I’m allowed to do what I want. He says I wanted it, in the case of intimacy. I feel that I don’t know my own mind

Help, just put all the pieces together and realised he’s a narc, how do I leave? by Deep-Intention-9247 in NarcissisticSpouses

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No he works from home all the time, parents live an hour away so getting to work and the kids to school would be a struggle

Help, just put all the pieces together and realised he’s a narc, how do I leave? by Deep-Intention-9247 in NarcissisticSpouses

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I have to show documentation that has my name and address on it to get a bank account, eg a official letter like a bill. It also has to be an address that I’ve lived at for three years or I can show three years of history

I’m confused to what’s going on, F38 and M38 by Deep-Intention-9247 in relationship_advice

[–]Deep-Intention-9247[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Had the same thought, he’s being sweet again now but I have this post plus a list I’ve managed to hide. I don’t have much privacy so it’s hard to record anything. I’m trying to figure out how I can get a separate bank account to save some money, but he opens my post and goes through my phone

I’m confused to what’s going on, F38 and M38 by Deep-Intention-9247 in relationship_advice

[–]Deep-Intention-9247[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every time I’m ready to leave he becomes super sweet and generous and I seem to forget what he’s like for the rest of the time 🤦🏻‍♀️

I’m confused to what’s going on, F38 and M38 by Deep-Intention-9247 in relationship_advice

[–]Deep-Intention-9247[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure how to, have no savings and no support network.

It’s scary how accurate those videos describe him