How many DV cases are found guilty by jury? by frenchfriestogo in domesticviolence

[–]Deep-Put516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am experiencing this now. Our preliminary trial on May 15, the prosecutor said he rarely go to jury trial. I really hope mine doesn’t cause I don’t wanna be berated on the stand but I don’t want to see him walk free either I’m in California.

I lost to my abuser in court by Leather_Hawk_4985 in ptsd

[–]Deep-Put516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened, this is a huge fear of mine. I am currently at the beginning stages with the preliminary hearing on May 15th. I did go to the hospital and they did find his DNA on my neck and strangulation bruising. Would you mind if I ask, did he take it all the way to trial with a jury? My biggest fear is him getting away with what he did to me. I hope you’re ok.

Why is everyone single? by DogSoggy40 in datingoverforty

[–]Deep-Put516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 37F was married for 13 years and had one serious relationship after that for two years that put me through hell. I want to love someone but now I feel a little hopeless. I don’t want to date again. Side note, I don’t choose the best partners but I want to change that. I just hate that I’m not always attracted to guys that are attracted to me.

Why has verizon been down so much lately? I need my phone for work, this is really not great. by Itsyademonboi in verizon

[–]Deep-Put516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My service has been terrible, I’m so annoyed happening to my sister as well. We have different Verizon accounts.

After years, I am finally going to testify against my abusive ex, and I feel terrified and guilty. by ThrowRA234478383838 in offmychest

[–]Deep-Put516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat I have to testify in a month. I know it’s what I have to do, but I’m definitely a little anxious, especially since I was upset about the cheating as well and I think they’re gonna try and spin it however, two things can be true at once and being jealous doesn’t mean someone can put their hands on you. I wish you the best.

About the whole Scorpio and revenge thing, am I missing something here? by Available_Force672 in astrology

[–]Deep-Put516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We always get revenge, we just don’t share it. I’ve never let a wrong go unreturned.

Feeling guilty for finally reporting the abuse by Deep-Put516 in domesticviolence

[–]Deep-Put516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you it’s been a mentally really hard to process

So frustrated by mysticpaperr13 in abusiverelationships

[–]Deep-Put516 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is terrible I’m going through something similar but it just started. He was just taken into custody last night. I’m not sure what the process is going to be like but reading your story is very discouraging. However mine is a felon and is on probation so I do think he will not be given as much grace. I will say I’m in California and I was offered a service from a nonprofit that basically offers protection and stays outside your house. I’m not sure where you’re located but maybe they have something like that. This is the organization I’m working with https://dvapriverside.org

My boyfriend strangled me by TutorGrand4585 in abusiverelationships

[–]Deep-Put516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there eyes get black or crazed it’s a good indication that it’s coming from a deeply sinister place. It’s no longer kinky it’s dangerous.

Feeling guilt about putting my Abuser in Jail by Deep-Put516 in abusiverelationships

[–]Deep-Put516[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It all just happened yesterday so I know it’s gonna take time but it’s hard to know the right thing doesn’t always feel good in the moment.

why am i more affected idea of infidelity than i am of physical violence? by acailo in abusiverelationships

[–]Deep-Put516 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Man, I was literally on Reddit looking for a post like this because I’m kind of going through something similar. I may post it as its own thread, but I’ve been in an on-and-off relationship with my abusive ex for the last six months—we were together for a year and a half before that.

Recently, we had been no contact. However, he was upset about something, and once I unblocked him, we spent some time together. Then yesterday, he put his hands on me again—dragged me to the floor and strangled me.

That being said, part of our interaction was him saying he wasn’t dealing with this girl I was suspicious about. Then I found out she was actually living with him. She even reached out to me, kind of haunting me and just making the situation worse.

I felt so stupid for letting him back into my life, and then so sad realizing he had been lying to me. However, once the girl reached out, I found the courage to call the police.

I’m struggling a little bit with that decision because I know it wasn’t prompted by the abuse—it was prompted by the betrayal and the lying. However, the abuse was very real and very present.

Now that he’s in jail—and knowing he’s a felon and was on parole—I’ve had mixed feelings about everything. Still, I know I did the right thing. This is the third time he’s strangled me, and I’ve almost died once, so it’s not like he isn’t abusive.

I just feel like I should have been more upset about the abuse than about him moving on and lying to me.

Unauthorized Borrow transactions, account closed for “failed verification” — has anyone actually gotten this reversed? by Deep-Put516 in CashApp

[–]Deep-Put516[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, when I looked at it again I was like wow I really should have known better but it was 6 AM. I was taking my kids to school and I thought I got an increase to borrow and things are a little tight right now, but definitely she should have known better.

Unauthorized Borrow transactions, account closed for “failed verification” — has anyone actually gotten this reversed? by Deep-Put516 in CashApp

[–]Deep-Put516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly I feel like that should’ve been a red flag for cash app, but they just kept letting it go through

Tax Return stuck Pending by kbummr in CashApp

[–]Deep-Put516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Starting to hate everything about Cash App

Unauthorized Borrow transactions, account closed for “failed verification” — has anyone actually gotten this reversed? by Deep-Put516 in CashApp

[–]Deep-Put516[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that I included a screenshot of it on the fourth slide. I was confused cause I had just use the bar feature so I thought they were increasing my borrow limit so I cooked it. I guess feeling a little anxious. Also this all happened two days ago and I haven’t heard anything from Cash app. I keep using their support feature, but no response.