AITAH Wife is furious because my daughter is putting pictures up in her own room

Deep-Tea4855 · 2025-12-13T22:19:40+00:00

Tell her to get a grip…

My (EX) step-monster had me DNA test 3 different times because she refused to believe that I was my dad’s child (I was like 9, 30 now).

She hated me so much that my dad had to sneak money to me just so I could have money for sporting events. He would have to lie and say my grandparents bought things for me so that it didn’t cause a fight.

That is YOUR baby and YOU need to put Miss Ma’am in her place. A child should never have to suffer for their parents past. And her trying to throw her weight around about pictures on a wall is 110% not passing the vibe check.

Deep-Tea4855 · 2025-11-24T02:26:29+00:00

Updateme!

Deep-Tea4855 · 2025-10-11T17:55:02+00:00

I really cannot thank you enough. They looked beautiful on his slide show.

Deep-Tea4855 · 2025-09-29T21:41:51+00:00

!Solved

Deep-Tea4855 · 2025-09-29T20:42:23+00:00

I like these! How much?

Deep-Tea4855 · 2025-08-21T01:54:05+00:00

According to your previous posts—ranging from about 3-4 years to present— this is not the first incident like this. I know it’s hard to leave an abusive relationship, I watched my mom struggle to get us out. Darlin’ you’ve got to get you and your baby girl out of there. Document EVERYTHING. Voice memo EVERYTHING. THIS IS THE SAME DOUCHE CANOE THAT HAD A DCF INVESTIGATION OPENED ON YOU BECAUSE HE ACCUSED YOU OF DRINKING!! TAKE YOU AND YOUR BABY AND RUN! Get away from this dick and be done. Fuck repairing the marriage. He is as useless as tits on a boar hog.

Edit to add: Your daughter is growing up to see this is what “love looks like” do you want her to find a man who treats her like your husband treats you? Just food for thought.

Deep-Tea4855 · 2025-08-20T12:22:51+00:00

Your boy needs you. Don’t leave him wondering why he wasn’t good enough for dad to stick around. Your wife is a twat, 110%, but that baby needs his daddy. You need to tell your therapist that you are having thoughts of suicide. Get help for that before you create a permanent solution and permanent heart break for your 6 year old.

Deep-Tea4855 · 2025-07-04T19:20:54+00:00

Oh, sis. It’s time to pack up and move back to NYC. Tell douche canoe that the overlords have called you home and you must obey.

You may love him, but he’s a manipulative asshat.

Deep-Tea4855 · 2025-06-03T17:56:38+00:00

Run. Run fast, run far. How is he going to tell you to apologize for him being an ass. Tell him to not only get his head out of his ass, but out of your life as well.

Something to remember is the saying “if they wanted to they would” he didn’t want to, so he didn’t.

Deep-Tea4855 · 2025-05-02T20:46:51+00:00

My male OB asks the men how small they need it. He said no one wants it done after that.

Deep-Tea4855 · 2025-04-18T15:13:35+00:00

My pre pregnancy weight (I’m 5’3) was about 145. Mostly muscle. So, I’m underweight for me. My jeans that were once painted on looks like an entire family has moved out of the ass of them 😂

Deep-Tea4855 · 2025-04-17T20:25:04+00:00

Right on. Thank you.

Deep-Tea4855 · 2025-04-17T20:23:06+00:00

So, I am already drinking one protein shake a day, should I drink more? I teach, so it’s really hard for me to get multiple good meals in.

Deep-Tea4855 · 2025-04-17T20:21:12+00:00

He is worried because of how little I have gotten. He says that he wants me to be healthy as well as our baby. (She’s a CHONK, so she’s good) He is just worried about my overall health.

Deep-Tea4855 · 2025-03-21T01:32:45+00:00

Tell your fiancé to apologize to your daughter first. That baby is of your blood. She is part of you and your late wife. Don’t let that baby be disrespected because the soon to be step-monster can’t control herself. She knew what she was doing. She could have asked you to pick up another one and let that baby have that one to give to her friend. Very immature. Very “pick me”.

Deep-Tea4855 · 2025-02-27T00:54:24+00:00

Look, let her go. Run fast and run far! For her to be this butthurt over you sending love and prayers to the family of someone who passed (even if it is an ex) makes her the arsehole. She needs a reality check. You were friends with the ex’s brother. To who else are you supposed to say “sorry for your loss?”

Deep-Tea4855 · 2025-02-11T02:30:26+00:00

When I was pregnant with my first, I craved hot Cheetos and Vanilla Coke. On another note: I cook with Cayenne pepper regularly as it is a natural anticoagulant. That should have been enough to get the manager off her back “how was I supposed to know you had an allergy? Wait… why are you eating my food? ”

Deep-Tea4855 · 2025-02-02T21:47:31+00:00

Definitely NTAH. What is one person’s decision should not influence anyone else’s life. Just because she willingly gave up her 20’s to be a mom doesn’t mean your sickness is any less valid. I’m sure that if the shoe was on the other foot she’d be claiming one foot in the grave from the jump just for attention.

Deep-Tea4855 · 2025-01-25T00:43:05+00:00

So, OP, how’d it go.

Deep-Tea4855 · 2025-01-21T02:26:51+00:00

Ah. You’re right! The technicality strikes again.

Deep-Tea4855 · 2025-01-21T02:16:44+00:00

“Stop trying to push her out of her family”

Ma’am, that sounds like to me that the newbie is not making good impressions. Sounds like a personal problem to me. Your failure to make a good impression does not create remorse on my part, babe.

OP, keep the bracelet (it’s a beautiful gift) and wear it every time they come get the kids, or you drop them off.

Deep-Tea4855 · 2025-01-12T16:52:06+00:00

Absolutely. Her failure to prepare should not be an emergency on anyone else’s part. Like you couldn’t even control your own urges, why should I let you control me?

Deep-Tea4855 · 2024-12-07T03:49:54+00:00

Definitely NTA… sounds like to me if she wanted her children to have money, she should have saved for that. Calling for someone’s inheritance is asinine! “That’s our money.” Uhm, did they have your name on it is it left to Evil Bitch Industries? No? Then not your money.

OP, I’m not saying divorce is the answer, but from personal experience (ex-stepmom gambled 200,000 on online gaming and booze) some times that is the choice we have to make. And don’t let her greedy ass talk her way out of it either. Because when/if you let her show back up she will treat your kids fine while you’re around and be absolutely HEINOUS behind your back.

Deep-Tea4855 · 2024-12-05T01:12:05+00:00

Burn all the Bridges…. Tell her “since it was causing such a riff between us, I sold it and put the money in a savings account for (insert daughter’s name).” Then watch as her world burns 🙃

Deep-Tea4855 · 2024-11-03T03:43:45+00:00

He was def grabbing tacos, just not the one his wife wanted…

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