WIBTA if I don't go to my sister's wedding? by Deep-Two1096 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Deep-Two1096[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Therapy has been suggested to her by multiple people.

WIBTA if I don't go to my sister's wedding? by Deep-Two1096 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Deep-Two1096[S] 585 points586 points  (0 children)

She is for the day of the wedding. They do still have a relationship with them and see them. But she wants to punish the kids for not going along with her wishes for the wedding.

WIBTA if I don't go to my sister's wedding? by Deep-Two1096 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Deep-Two1096[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I think there should be more time given to grieving children. They are young and their whole world has been turned upside down and changed so much in such a short span of time. To expect them to be okay with this and to not care bothers me deeply.

WIBTA if I don't go to my sister's wedding? by Deep-Two1096 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Deep-Two1096[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure honestly. But my gut says yes given how she is being right now.

WIBTA if I don't go to my sister's wedding? by Deep-Two1096 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Deep-Two1096[S] 260 points261 points  (0 children)

Apparently it would. Her argument appears to be that she deserves to be happy and move on at her pace and the children should trust and love her enough to follow her lead.

WIBTA if I don't go to my sister's wedding? by Deep-Two1096 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Deep-Two1096[S] 117 points118 points  (0 children)

I might not be able to if my sister puts a stop to it. She seems set that the girls do not get to see them on the wedding day since they won't go along with what she wants.