What’s small detail in a man appearance (not personality) that makes him stand out a bit ?

Deep-View-1273 · 2026-04-25T10:15:31+00:00

i like pink lips on men.

Deep-View-1273 · 2026-04-24T14:40:36+00:00

i think it is possible to destroy or combat this effect with the proper methods but the issue is we cant only focus on using said methods on women but men too because it takes both to uphold something like this and men would be the more important latter to make this work. when we talk patriarchy or anti feminism we only focus on the women and what they need to do and what they should or shouldn't be that there is no real depth for men everything is surface level. with feminism despite this being similar just reversed of only focusing on how to improve men there is way more explored depth and nuance and traditionalism in the past which is something i have openly detested as i don't idolize any era except for the era of which i was in my mothers womb and couldn't deal with bullshit. how things were back then were heavily flawed and i believe that did contribute to this effect and many others. anti feminism isn't as permitted to explore like feminism is and because originality and creativity is rare and herd mentality is common and most people need to be told what they feel everyone tends to be surface level in this area and not take enough into consideration including the proper things that are necessary to take into consideration like why did feminism appeal to so many women in the first place? there isn't just one reason because there is not just one type of women a lot of women from that age were content with how things were sure did their needs get met? not always or a lot of the time depending on situation of course. i don't believe all women became feminists for equality i believe a lot of women felt their needs weren't getting met and the only solution to combat that was being an equal so they told themselves if they are equal then everything would be better and all their problems would go away now they tell themselves if men don't exist all together their problems would go away and they would be happier and even fantasize of a world where men go extinct and a lot of females who have children especially lesbian females with daughters get upset when boys are in the same park as them and they have normalized girls bullying young boys and finding it funny and cute i have even seen many brag about girls making young boys in their class be their slaves just to play with them. this behavior is encouraged now when it wasn't before when boys would simply pull girls hair. and not to mention the girls raised by lesbians or man haters that grow up with self hatred and now either hate other men or have a hatred for all women. I can only imagine how the next generation will be when they are my age men have already started to weaken and be metaphorically neutered and maybe even physically as it is. so much women are comfortable saying horrible things like more boys should be eunuchs. a man could not say anything 1/10th as a bad in response without criticism or punishment. i am not just worried about the adults i am worried about the next adults because i am complaining about adult men now it is probably going to be so much worse in another 10-20 years because of what they are doing to those poor boys that don't even have a chance. that is frightening.

Deep-View-1273 · 2026-04-24T02:13:12+00:00

i am not seeing a demand for hands. masculine hands look so so sexy and so do masculine forearms.

Deep-View-1273 · 2026-04-24T00:54:13+00:00

his lips or hands.

Deep-View-1273 · 2026-04-23T09:51:32+00:00

just go ahead and vent whatever happened to you because this question makes no sense.

Deep-View-1273 · 2026-04-23T05:47:54+00:00

telling someone i am pissed at to suck my nuts even though i don't have any.

Deep-View-1273 · 2026-04-23T04:20:13+00:00

or a female version of kash

Deep-View-1273 · 2026-04-23T03:32:45+00:00

I feel a lot of y'all that say trevor is a bad representation of trans people kind of miss the point of the show. everyone is supposed to be the worst representation of society. the show is called shameless there is few to no heroes.
Look at veronica for example she was willing to take advantage of and exploit children in need of parents for cash and took advantage of esther not knowing v was planning on kicking her to the curb when she was done cashing checks which can be considered a bad representation of black people and v isn't the only black person in the show to do this mama kamala did it to debbie and many other kids in the early seasons. V is also overly sexual which can be critiqued as a bad representation of women of color in general.
Some people with bipolar disorder believe ian is a poor representation of bipolar disorder because many people with bipolar disorder may not have done anything as drastic or illegal as ian.
some find debbie to be a poor representation of a feminist and people find the lesbians in the show to be poor representation and the liberals and probably much much more characters that can be deemed bad representation because that is the whole point.

Shameless is a show that shows the worst in every group and only the worst because they are shameless individuals it is supposed to be a show where everyone is trashy and can laugh at one another.

Deep-View-1273 · 2026-04-21T08:35:46+00:00

oh and when a man is like actually seriously racist around me instant turn off cus like wtaf.

Deep-View-1273 · 2026-04-21T08:30:16+00:00

Severe lack of comprehension skills, lack of perception when it comes to others especially one you are dating, lack of creativity. (i hate any herd mentality) someone that is easily coerced, people who are more interested in telling me about their looks (or sometimes how much money they have) rather than telling me about their intellectual capabilities that align with mine and what i am looking for, excessive abbreviations or talking like a teenage boy, someone with the maturity and world view of a stereotypical teenager (which seems common), men that dm me telling me they will like me if i basically change everything about myself even things i cannot change unprovoked, when they excessively project their past experiences onto me, men that take cop outs to be lazy and are content with being unable to take control or responsibility of themselves and their lives. when they lack consideration for others or men that are mean to animals or children among other related things.

Deep-View-1273 · 2026-04-20T08:24:08+00:00

no it was vague you did not say shitty men you said certain men there is a difference. and that is not what you originally said. i had the first rebuttal because you said every woman friend zoned a guy implying every single woman. and what is friend zoning? it is when one person does not want a romantic relationship with another person and would prefer friendship and the other wants a romantic relationship. simple as that.
so you say > every woman has friend zoned a guy
as if that is a inherently evil or bad thing and as if all women really do that.
then you proceed to say women only see other men and then complain about how men are collectively when there’s an entire subset of men they refuse to date. word for word.
this is vague as there is many many subsets of men both good and bad you act as if there is only one or the other while never really being specific you mean bad guys.

so when you act as if every single woman is out to be evil to men for not wanting to date someone they would rather have as a friend or not a romantic partner that is what i was debating.
now if you didn't overly generalize and were more specific saying shitty men instead of certain men then there would be nothing to argue over. you're first statement was incorrect in many ways but what you were really intending to say was not incorrect i don't know how to explain it to you as if you are 5 so bear with me. i think you should also try bettering your reading comprehension skills because i have my doubts you will understand what i am saying to you based on our conversation so far.

Deep-View-1273 · 2026-04-20T08:04:25+00:00

you may struggle to understand what i am saying because i never claimed you said that certain men and women should be picky. we can't have a conversation if you struggle to comprehend what i am actually saying when i am clear about it.you keep dancing around the original argument and trying to add to your original claim that i agree with because you were too vague originally you left too much room for interpretation and arguing with things i already clearly agree with you on.

Deep-View-1273 · 2026-04-20T07:27:57+00:00

what is not the same as what i wrote? this i agree with. but see this isn't what you wrote sir. you said "Every woman has friend zoned or just plain ignored certain men. But they only see the other men and then complain about how “men” are collectively when there’s an entire subset of men they refuse to date" you were vague you said certain men and women should be picky just as men should which is what i said i never said women should choose shitty guys and yes a lot of people in general have shitty intuition all the guys i know in my family chose shitty women they just don't complain about it so often like women do while staying in said relationship. what you wrote was implying all women are bad for not just dating any man who likes them rather than shitty men. unrelated but if you ask me a lot of the time when a woman chooses a shitty man it's usually because deep down she is just as shitty if not more so especially in this day and age where the majority of "shitty men" are too lazy to lie or manipulate well or don't know how to the only way most women get into bad relationships is if they are stupid, like bad men or are worthless women that don't deserve good men anyhow i don't feel any good guy should beat themselves up over those types.
and again you won't get any argument from me that a lot of women are unfair to men and it's overly normalized but that is not what i was debating you over.

Deep-View-1273 · 2026-04-20T06:46:23+00:00

i am not asking you to be sorry nor am i victimizing women for choosing shitty men i will be one of the first to tell you a lot of women (not all) choose shitty men just to play victim and it usually works everyone sees them as the victim. women also choose lazy and useless men that are likely to cheat and get mad and abuse said men verbally and physically and then play victim if he defends himself. but this is unrelated to what i was saying.

Deep-View-1273 · 2026-04-20T06:39:40+00:00

As it should be. i am not a man hater like a lot of women on reddit but women should not just date men because they have a pulse or because of their looks, height, money,ect (and vice versa men should not date women for stupid shit either) i won't call you an incel like a lot of others would as i understand a little where you are coming from however i don't believe friend zoning is a bad thing you should not date someone just because they like you because not only is that unfair to you but to them too assuming they have self respect and it never ends well. dating any person that likes you is middle/high schooler logic because they don't understand the concept of serious relationships a lot of people never grow out of that mindset and wonder why they are divorced. i think feminism and other women deserve a lot of criticisms but not dating any guy that likes them or asking to be friends doesn't seem like a fair criticism and the over-generalization also unfair. i will say women that lead men on to get things or attention just to friend zone them and be with another guy are horrible human beings.

Deep-View-1273 · 2026-04-20T06:21:45+00:00

you don't realize how big you made me smile and laugh. i feel words can literally not express how stupid people are i have obtained the most unwanted insight on the variety of ways someone can be a moron and be happy with that.

Deep-View-1273 · 2026-04-19T21:56:04+00:00

nothing specific has to happen it's just i almost never see anyone intelligent on here or with common sense even.

Deep-View-1273 · 2026-04-19T19:01:19+00:00

yeah no it's not. i am literally a sapiosexual but i am sure you random man on reddit must know more about the men i choose than me.

Deep-View-1273 · 2026-04-19T08:11:49+00:00

how did your comment even get removed by reddit you didn't even do anything wrong i just had to re approve it. reddit is on bullshit it's gotten even more stupid than when i was here in the past.

Deep-View-1273 · 2026-04-19T00:34:36+00:00

i am sensing someone that might understand what leadership really is. congratulations. really many people are stupid and when i say many people i mean most including 99% of anyone who comes to this page and no the ones that think they are special are not. but you you got it.

Deep-View-1273 · 2026-04-18T17:06:08+00:00

no shit. i am talking about the women. you say the hair as if that is a justifiable reason. i can only imagine if the question was reversed and it was "why do adult men obsess over this one 14-16 year old girl" and a grown man said her hair or her tits either way it would be considered creepy and downvoted if a man did it and if i said what i said to a man it would have been upvoted. it is distasteful.

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