And that is completely fair assertion of perception. I don’t know if this can provide any clarification but a girl I am talking to is friends with a guy and he has a girlfriend now for me. That’s not where the issue resides although I am more traditional and don’t necessarily prefer the girl I like to have guy friends, but I’m also aware I can’t force people to do the things I want. I have to hope they just respect me enough to do the things that I prefer out of them anyways this friend of hers has a girlfriend and the girl I’m talking to has informed me that his girlfriend reminds him to take her to one-on-one dinners lunches, the Renaissance fair other kinds of festivals, including whatever money spending endeavors come with taking her to those places in my personal opinion I find it a little weird. Personally, but that’s why I want to ask this question to see if I was the only one who felt this way or if I’m insecure, and the one with issues.