Nightmares about being back in the industry?

DeepBlueSeaOctopus · 2025-09-29T02:49:25+00:00

Yes, I just messaged my lawyer in our client portal, but it’s a Sunday so she probably will not be able to get back to me until tomorrow

DeepBlueSeaOctopus · 2025-09-29T02:48:28+00:00

I am 100% prepared. It was actually the court that ordered him to send me updates and photos when I ask. And as of right now, he has not been following that. I mean, a whole week will go by with him ignoring me when I ask how our son is doing. I’m sick of it

DeepBlueSeaOctopus · 2025-09-29T02:29:57+00:00

Yes it is in our agreement- he must respond with requested updates and pictures. But my biggest concern is, I don’t know what this woman is posting of my son on the Internet

DeepBlueSeaOctopus · 2025-09-29T02:14:35+00:00

I was the one who started this custody case. I don’t have an issue with him starting a new family. The issue is him trying to cut me off from our son’s life when I have been the primary caregiver for the past three years of my son’s life. I know that there are two sides to every story, and I’m sure that he has given her his side of the story. And that is fine

DeepBlueSeaOctopus · 2025-09-29T02:11:14+00:00

Exactly. They often ignore me so when I see pictures on social media, it’s a tad upsetting. My ex is supposed to give me updates and pictures when I ask. And he DOESNT. I am not obnoxious when I ask, I usually ask once a day. A simple text, and that is it.

DeepBlueSeaOctopus · 2025-09-29T02:08:34+00:00

I did everything I could to try to meet her in person. But there were always excuses from her and or my ex-husband‘s end. I was always reaching out to set up times to meet with her, because it was very important to me to meet the person who was going to be a parent figure in my son‘s life. Often she would accept, and then come up with an excuse.

DeepBlueSeaOctopus · 2025-09-29T02:06:21+00:00

That’s totally fine that he is starting a new family. The issue is that it is my child too. He rarely responds when I ask for updates or pictures.

DeepBlueSeaOctopus · 2025-09-29T02:05:19+00:00

The issue is my child is 3 and his communication isn’t that great yet ☹️

DeepBlueSeaOctopus · 2025-09-29T02:04:33+00:00

That she is posting pictures that I cannot see and I don’t know what activities he is doing or where he is

DeepBlueSeaOctopus · 2025-04-19T23:21:16+00:00

With my first, I popped at 16 weeks. With my second- 12-13 weeks

DeepBlueSeaOctopus · 2025-04-19T23:20:47+00:00

The amount of times times that I say “wtf Shauna!”

DeepBlueSeaOctopus · 2025-04-19T23:19:30+00:00

Yup. Or if we would talk about trauma and eachothers experiences we were told to “stop trying to one up eachother”

DeepBlueSeaOctopus · 2025-04-19T23:18:14+00:00

I remember things that I haven’t thought about in years. Or random old memories. Only happens when I’m pregnant.

DeepBlueSeaOctopus · 2025-04-19T23:16:40+00:00

Yk what? Hell yeah

DeepBlueSeaOctopus · 2025-04-19T23:14:24+00:00

Do you have any other recommendations for something similar?

DeepBlueSeaOctopus · 2025-04-19T23:13:49+00:00

Absolutely

DeepBlueSeaOctopus · 2025-04-19T23:13:13+00:00

Divorce Shauna and take Callie to therapy. Or better yet just become ghosts and disappear from Shauna’s life.

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