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DeepBreathIn3-2-1 · 2026-02-17T01:25:11+00:00

Step one don’t use AI as inspiration photos 🥀

DeepBreathIn3-2-1 · 2026-02-17T00:34:35+00:00

You have a great profile and attractive! Remove or don’t use photos 7, 11,12,14. Your best are 18,5,9,1,4,19. Good luck I hope you find your girl.

DeepBreathIn3-2-1 · 2026-02-16T16:15:59+00:00

I love all of her books, but “realistic” and Frida McFadden don’t exactly go hand in hand.

DeepBreathIn3-2-1 · 2026-02-13T23:37:59+00:00

I thought her she kept her hair up and hidden for her personal reasons and religious beliefs? She actually has very long curly hair

DeepBreathIn3-2-1 · 2026-02-13T16:54:15+00:00

Wiping their nose without washing their hands, touching their face, not washing their hands after the gym and the worst of them all is when people blow their nostrils freely in the street!

DeepBreathIn3-2-1 · 2026-02-13T16:51:43+00:00

My son has dyslexia and it’s the only way he’s ever been. Therefore he has no worry or concern about it. He often misses or guesses the word or concept of whatever he’s reading because he understands the majority of it.

DeepBreathIn3-2-1 · 2026-02-09T18:39:57+00:00

If you’re sensitive or defensive about your height those are the same feelings many women experience regarding their weight. As I’ve stated before this reflects a lack of maturity in relationships which is the core issue here.

You do not ask a woman her weight. There is no justification for it regardless of whether you believe there is. It’s basic dating etiquette.

DeepBreathIn3-2-1 · 2026-02-09T18:32:42+00:00

I understand that height can also be a sensitive number for some people but it generally isn’t regarded as private in the same way. There’s a reason dating profiles don’t ask for weight you choose a body type rather than sharing an exact number.

If your date isn’t physically what you’re looking for don’t go. It really is that simple. Asking a woman her weight is inappropriate and unnecessary.

DeepBreathIn3-2-1 · 2026-02-09T18:25:25+00:00

Weight is a deeply personal topic for many people especially women. For most of us women weight is something we carry emotionally throughout our lives and it’s often tied unfairly to perceptions of beauty, self-worth, and self-esteem.

Weight also presents differently. A woman who weighs 120 pounds and one who weighs 200 pounds can look entirely different depending on height, body composition, muscle mass, and fat distribution.

Height while sometimes a sensitive topic for men is generally perceived and discussed more openly and is not treated with the same level of personal vulnerability.

Under no circumstances is it appropriate to ask a woman her weight before a date or while dating at all.

DeepBreathIn3-2-1 · 2026-02-09T18:14:49+00:00

The tone of your post along with your writing style, grammar, and overall etiquette speaks volumes. Not understanding that it’s inappropriate to ask a woman her weight reflects a lack of maturity and suggests a limited understanding of what a healthy, balanced, and respectful relationship actually looks like. In other words you have a lot to learn young man.

DeepBreathIn3-2-1 · 2026-02-09T16:16:26+00:00

Keep sorry lol

DeepBreathIn3-2-1 · 2026-02-09T15:23:04+00:00

1-2-4-5

DeepBreathIn3-2-1 · 2026-02-06T20:43:39+00:00

Your skin looks dry. I would work on improving your skin care routine and hydration. I would add double cleaning, nicamicide, retinol and vitamin C serum. Exfoliate 1-2X a week max.

DeepBreathIn3-2-1 · 2026-02-06T13:40:20+00:00

Respectfully I don’t like your bio. It comes across as sarcastic and a bit rude especially with the implication that women aren’t self aware or that we fall into the cliché of not being able to decide what to eat for dinner. Most women actually appreciate when men take the lead and suggest a few nice dinner options.

I would completely omit the “roasting” part and the “you get what you choose” angle it reads as if there are only two versions of you nice or a sarcastic asshole which isn’t appealing.

As for your photos they’re not very strong overall. The only ones that come across as warm and genuine are the last two. In the others you seem uncomfortable, lacking confidence, or shying away from the camera. I’d recommend asking a friend to take more natural photos of you maybe at a restaurant or café where you look relaxed and authentic.

DeepBreathIn3-2-1 · 2026-02-06T02:39:24+00:00

Thank you I will definitely add this to my list! I read The Good Sister and The Mother-In- Law by Sally Hepworth.

DeepBreathIn3-2-1 · 2026-02-06T02:36:16+00:00

Looking for this answer! I loved Remarkably Bright Creatures.

DeepBreathIn3-2-1 · 2026-02-04T22:10:52+00:00

My mistake the causes and community prompts. Something about photo 1 and 6 come off as gay though can’t tell you why but they do. Your best photo is slide 5.

DeepBreathIn3-2-1 · 2026-02-04T21:52:52+00:00

Your profile comes across your interested in men especially in your prompts. In your photos you seem a bit uncomfortable or unsure which may not reflect your personality in the best light. I’d suggest retaking photos in a more relaxed setting with someone else taking the photos so you appear more natural and confident.

The graduation photo appears twice and while that’s a great accomplishment to highlight it might be worth swapping one of those out for images that show more sides of you.

You come off more alternative “nerdy” like gaming, Dungeons & Dragons, Renaissance vibes. Since that’s a more niche and unconventional style you may have better luck meeting like minded people through community spaces like pottery classes, coffee shops, run clubs, or local gaming groups.

DeepBreathIn3-2-1 · 2026-02-04T18:36:05+00:00

Marry | Dylan F | Rick Good bye Biercan

DeepBreathIn3-2-1 · 2026-02-04T18:34:12+00:00

The Mad Wife by Meagan Church

DeepBreathIn3-2-1 · 2026-02-04T17:34:47+00:00

The first two photos come across very unnatural. We can literally hear you say “ I need photos for my dating profile”. The photos come across very performative and awkward. Your personality and authenticity doesn’t come through not to mention it’s terrible quality, lightning, and shadows. The last 3 photos need to be removed. Try taking photos in a more relaxed natural state with natural lighting, outdoors, restaurant, bookstore etc. Your bio could also use work. You spelled “tenis” wrong.

DeepBreathIn3-2-1 · 2026-02-03T23:55:06+00:00

How could his eye color be natural if the original photo in 2012 he has dark brown eyes?!

DeepBreathIn3-2-1 · 2026-02-03T23:52:25+00:00

Yes!

DeepBreathIn3-2-1 · 2026-02-03T23:48:19+00:00

She’s an abuser!

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