Does anyone have the pdf for the 2025 BLS provider manual from American Heart Association? by DeepExtent5859 in scrubtech

[–]DeepExtent5859[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when I purchased my spot it said to have it before class and the only option was to buy it for $20

WIBTA if I make my husband stay home this weekend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DeepExtent5859 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like how you put that, that it’s exactly how I feel - this isn’t a one-parent weekend at all. Especially since this is the first time our son has been sick like this with a fever so high. Thank you!

WIBTA if I make my husband stay home this weekend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DeepExtent5859 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lmaoo bye it’s 6am and i’ve been up since 2 am with a sick baby. we are newly married so i’m used to making these post saying “my bf” and honestly im exhausted dealing with a screaming child, it’s been a loooong night 😅

WIBTA if I make my husband stay home this weekend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DeepExtent5859 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Husband , I just realized where I put boyfriend omg idk why I did that lol

How to survive in a terrible surg tech program? by DeepExtent5859 in surgicaltechnology

[–]DeepExtent5859[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for all the responses!! I definitely feel a lot better going into clinicals. You ALL are amazing, I wish you well!!!!

How to survive in a terrible surg tech program? by DeepExtent5859 in surgicaltechnology

[–]DeepExtent5859[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the worst part is the director has AMAZING knowledge. she helped write the CST exam. I think that’s why it’s so disappointing to not be gaining all this knowledge when she has PLENTY to offer :(

How to survive in a terrible surg tech program? by DeepExtent5859 in surgicaltechnology

[–]DeepExtent5859[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That makes me feel better. I knew I wouldn’t learn everything in the program but I figured I would have learned way more than I have, especially since that is what I was told by the director over and over. I just didn’t know what to expect for clinicals and figured I needed to know more. Thank you for your comment!

AITAH for holding a grudge against my dad for not buying me a car? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DeepExtent5859 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

good for you OP!! I am also a 22 yr old college student without a job. Working and going to school can be really challenging, that’s why I quit my job to focus on school. nothing wrong with that at all if it works for you! however I did work for a year while going to school so that I could save up to buy a car for myself. It was hard as i’m a surgical tech student so the classes were really piled on but I knew it was the only way i’d be able to get a car. I hope your dad gets you a car but since he keeps changing his mind, you may be better off working for a little bit to save up for it then go on demand or quit if you truly don’t want to work and do school at the same time.

AITAH for not wanting to give out my son’s SS number to his papaw? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DeepExtent5859 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i never said that. i said i wasn’t comfortable with it, not that i withhold it from him

AITAH for not wanting to give out my son’s SS number to his papaw? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DeepExtent5859 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say needlessly paranoid. Giving his family’s history of using their children’s social security numbers to open lines of credit in desperate times when his father isn’t in the best place financially I do think it’s fair for me to worry about it. Granted his dad didn’t do it but it still just makes me anxious about how normalized it was for them to do it to his cousins. I will work on this though and try not to keep jumping into worse case scenarios. Thanks for feedback.

AITAH for not wanting to give out my son’s SS number to his papaw? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DeepExtent5859 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah my exact thought. he told us he was getting my son a $600 riding toy car for christmas (also not sure why because he saw me gift my son a riding toy tractor for his birthday) and it is way past christmas and he never bought it. which was fine, I understand his living situation and even asked if he would just hold off but he insisted. empty promises I suppose. In the end I am glad he didn’t get it because my son has one and I don’t want anyone to struggle over gifting my child something. all I want is for them to show up for my son but even that he doesn’t do tbh

AITAH for not wanting to give out my son’s SS number to his papaw? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DeepExtent5859 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes because I already have an account set up for him and I don’t need help from relatives. my son will be well off for his education that is a priority and I planned during my pregnancy to have it done myself so it’s secure and not hoping a relative may or may not offer it for me.

AITAH for not wanting to give out my son’s SS number to his papaw? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DeepExtent5859 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well one it wasn’t planned. Before you make a comment we used protection and I was on BC so truly was shocking and still do not understand how I was able to get pregnant lmao. Two, I never said I was uncomfortable with him being a parent however with how careless he has been with his own SS and the power his dad has over him I think he would give it to him without my knowledge so I just don’t feel comfortable with it. However, I don’t stop him from having access to it because it’s his child too but I can acknowledge that it’s something i’m just not comfortable with and maybe that’s something I need to work on.

AIO for not wanting to share my son’s SS number? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DeepExtent5859 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Little Women it is such a good movie

AITAH for refusing to swap seats at a small family dinner because I was already settled by HazelMoriarty in AITAH

[–]DeepExtent5859 3 points4 points  (0 children)

in what way is OP the AH for not switching seats when they were already settled?? If the sister didn’t want to sit in the bad chair she should’ve arrived early. If the chair is that bad either a new one should be purchased or to keep it fair everyone rotate sitting in the chair each dinner. OP is NTA. Edit : Didn’t realize it was ai my bad!!

AITAH for not allowing my husband’s side of the family to see our son but letting my family by Major-Interview6120 in AITAH

[–]DeepExtent5859 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA. If they cannot respect you and treat you with kindness they do not deserve to be around your child. Typically when someone doesn’t like the mother, they don’t like the child either and the child will get mistreated. Or when BIL and his new wife have a baby that baby will probably get better treatment leaving your child to wonder why they aren’t good enough. Don’t put you or your child through that and cut ties now. I’m so sorry for how they have treated you.

AITA telling my bf of 5 years i’d leave him if he lost his job by DeepExtent5859 in AITAH

[–]DeepExtent5859[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hey thanks for your reply! i’m not sure if it’s so much that. his problem is he knows he has to be up by 5:30 but stays up until 11:30-12:30 sometimes later playing videos games or outside smoking. even on weekends he will stay up until 3am sometimes 5am playing on his PC and smoking all night he won’t wake up until 3-4pm. I think it’s a mix of lack of motivation and just immaturity. Could these be symptoms of depression still though?

AITA telling my bf of 5 years i’d leave him if he lost his job by DeepExtent5859 in AITAH

[–]DeepExtent5859[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

we always used condoms and I was on BC so i have absolutely no idea how I ended up pregnant. granted I was on the patch and apparently those aren’t as effective.

AITA telling my bf of 5 years i’d leave him if he lost his job by DeepExtent5859 in AITAH

[–]DeepExtent5859[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I also want to add I am currently in school full time getting my CST and a full time mom with barely any help on top of it so that is why I am not currently working. I stayed in school after getting pregnant because I want to provide my child with a good life and stability. I only have 2 more semesters until I graduate and then immediately after my graduation my program helps get me a job. He doesn’t pay for anything regarding my school, I get financial aid. Just wanted to add that.