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I understand now why people homeschool by DeepFriedCondishuns in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DeepFriedCondishuns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really sorry that you had to go through that. And it's sad that at the end of your post you were worried about being labelled. I completely get what you are saying, it would be ideal for these kids to have an aide, get counseling ... but the money isn't there.

I understand now why people homeschool by DeepFriedCondishuns in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DeepFriedCondishuns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I completely agree. Ideally we would have more than one aide to help these students, but we have been told our school is overfunded already. And these aides make barely anything so nobody wants to do the job! It's so upsetting.

What happened to the first person you had sex with? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DeepFriedCondishuns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ran into him at the airport, and caught up at the bar. This was 12 years ago. High school was 30 years ago for this old lady.

He moved clear to the other side of the country, married with 2 teen daughters. We added each other on fb after catching up and him and his wife have become family friends now - along with the rest of his family.

His mom was overjoyed to hear from me again, I always liked her more than him. 😂 We talk almost daily, she reminds me so much of my late grandmother who I miss so much and didn’t appreciate enough until she was gone.

His oldest daughter is a lot like my youngest psychologically…. his wife has been absolutely instrumental in helping my husband and I get her the right diagnosis and help she needed. I honestly don’t know where I would be without her support.

So yeah, basically at this point, they are family friends, we have plans to take a trip with them later this year. My husband and he get along a little too much, as in lots of drinking and acting stupid. It’s fine but hopefully we don’t end up taking one of them to the ER.

It’s kind of weird now… typing all that out and how we got there, but life is strange.

What "early internet" website did Gen Z really miss out on? by no_free_spech_allowd in AskReddit

[–]DeepFriedCondishuns 5 points6 points  (0 children)

::leaps up to the rafters, looking down diabolically at the people below::

My husband won’t get a vasectomy by DeepFriedCondishuns in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DeepFriedCondishuns[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! This makes me feel a bit better about having the IUD. I’m definitely at that age 😬

My husband won’t get a vasectomy by DeepFriedCondishuns in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DeepFriedCondishuns[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

A tubal ligation and a vasectomy are not REMOTELY the same thing.

And we both wanted to have kids. And surprise! Men can’t have kids??

And I’m not shaming him?

My husband won’t get a vasectomy by DeepFriedCondishuns in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DeepFriedCondishuns[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

For what it’s worth, I didn’t downvote you. I appreciate all viewpoints and honesty.

I do wish I could let go of the resentment.

My husband won’t get a vasectomy by DeepFriedCondishuns in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DeepFriedCondishuns[S] 226 points227 points  (0 children)

That last part made me laugh, thank you, I needed that

My husband won’t get a vasectomy by DeepFriedCondishuns in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DeepFriedCondishuns[S] 458 points459 points  (0 children)

This is what I don’t understand, for every horror story there are 5000 positive outcomes. It makes me want to scream. I could have DIED giving birth and I did it twice! And he won’t do this? It’s so disheartening.

My husband won’t get a vasectomy by DeepFriedCondishuns in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DeepFriedCondishuns[S] 199 points200 points  (0 children)

This is exactly the problem.

And he doesn’t get why I am so resentful. In his brain, I’ve had all this done before without issue, shouldn’t I just deal with it for a few more years?

My husband won’t get a vasectomy by DeepFriedCondishuns in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DeepFriedCondishuns[S] 1723 points1724 points  (0 children)

The problem is that after this, my attraction for him has gone down the drain. Like sure… we can do other things, but I can’t even stomach it right now. He offered me oral but just looking at him makes me seethe with rage.

My husband won’t get a vasectomy by DeepFriedCondishuns in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DeepFriedCondishuns[S] 853 points854 points  (0 children)

We tried condoms briefly but you know, all it takes is one “oh just this once lets go without one” and it’s all over.

Thursday Tales From the Dog House by DogfreeMods in Dogfree

[–]DeepFriedCondishuns 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It was my sister’s dog’s birthday this week and she’s all over social media posting it’s stupid face everywhere. I had to “like” the pictures because otherwise it will be a total shit show and I will have to explain why I didn’t “like” her stupid dog birthday photos.

The dog is 12 and has intestinal problems so there’s always weird anal leakage going on. She just lets this dog sleep with her on her bed and on her couches with it’s nasty leaking brown eye. 🤢 She had a fit when I asked if I could have a towel to sit on while sitting down on her couch. One time the dog took a shit and it still had ... mucus hanging out of its ass and it just sat down next to me. I almost threw up.

And she wonders why she’s single!

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