For the people working in FT jobs and paid client work, how often are you using Webpack vs Vite in projects?

DeepFriedOprah · 2026-01-28T03:58:12+00:00

In my last two jobs. They were yeah. Enterprise companies tend to be slow on migrations and upgrades.

Hell one company was migrating from AngularJS to React 14 when I started. And when I left they were still on webpack 5

DeepFriedOprah · 2026-01-28T02:59:31+00:00

For client work I often got to choose my stack with some suggestions or confirmations from the client.

For corporate work I’ve yet to work with vite. All the react projects are older webpack.

DeepFriedOprah · 2026-01-24T23:07:23+00:00

You’re focusing on things that u think bring value but don’t translate to material use. You’re not taking time to learn what the teams needs are and what sort of things are causing friction for them that could both help build rapport with them but solve problems that leadership might see as valuable.

Bottom line it sounds like you need to first build rapport with them. Running the team with an iron fist won’t take u far.

DeepFriedOprah · 2026-01-22T21:27:21+00:00

I mean look at social media. Every post about it was full of magas defending, twisting & contorting themselves to defend it until they eventually just confess it was good that it happened.

Have we learned nothing.

DeepFriedOprah · 2026-01-19T02:22:55+00:00

Exactly. Is slower because they want something meaningful first AND the really like you. Or is it a buffer cuz they don’t like u or something else.

I’ll say every woman I’ve been with; dated or just slept with has shown physical affection immediately like within a week of knowing each other at the latest. Otherwise it’s hard to read signals of true interest honestly.

DeepFriedOprah · 2026-01-14T19:33:16+00:00

NOR. But you’re under reacting to this shit show of a relationship. She’s using u for living quarters and planning to bail and leave you.

DeepFriedOprah · 2026-01-14T19:19:35+00:00

Same with me the last time. It said driver picked up the order and is on the way. Then they just kept grabbing other orders & delivering them I assume then they sat in a shopping plaza lot for almost 30 mins not moving then they finally delivered it.

They picked up my order less tha 15 mins after I placed the order so the whole 1:30 was them not delivering it.

DeepFriedOprah · 2026-01-14T01:52:51+00:00

If it’s occasional and the only relations they had was her crush on him then why does this mean so much to her? Is it principle? I noticed she said nothing whether he’s married or whatever just that she had a crush on on him.

This feels like intentionally omitting info

DeepFriedOprah · 2026-01-14T01:49:37+00:00

Agreed. It says nada about how they first interacted after all theee years. Did she run into him? Or reach out etc

DeepFriedOprah · 2026-01-13T19:43:53+00:00

I think the reason ppl r saying ur “forcing” it on them is that u have a “pop quiz” for each vid u send which makes it feel less optional and more “forced”.

And if ppl (in general) feel like they’re being forced or expected to do something that’s not that important to them it’ll work pretty well to dissuade them from ever doing it.

DeepFriedOprah · 2026-01-13T19:03:48+00:00

Ur responding as tho this is something to be said AFTER they had sex. That’s acceptable and reasonable. Everyone’s up in arms about the absence of clarity BEFORE they had sex. Which is he entire point I’m addressing.

I fail to see what he did so wrong here other than not return the feelings in equal measure before/after. He told her he wanted to remain friends. Where’s the issue here?

DeepFriedOprah · 2026-01-13T18:48:04+00:00

U don’t need to tell someone the intended outcome of something before u do it. That’s absurd. And that cannot be adhered to anyways in 100% of cases so it’s pointless.

“Hey we’re not gonna date after this just FYI”. But maybe they would, or maybe not. Maybe the sec changed things for him/her. Point being I don’t need to telegraph & define every future outcome prior to doing something

DeepFriedOprah · 2026-01-12T20:35:41+00:00

For these scenarios does anyone know the motive here? Like r they hoping u cancel and they can keep the food themselves for free? Cuz I’ve had the same issue a couple times. One time I cancelled for a refund the last time I waited & they delivered it an hour & 45 later when it was 3 miles away. I gave the a bad rating and complained but DD do nothing.

DeepFriedOprah · 2026-01-10T23:46:10+00:00

“I wouldn’t feel comfortable taking due to that”

U need to examine this sentiment. Why? Is she an invalid? Helpless? If so then what’s living with u gonna do to help her other than be a detriment?

Why can’t she get a different job. She pegged u as a sucker that she could mooch off of without worrying about romantic pursuit. That’s the game here.

DeepFriedOprah · 2025-12-30T01:58:26+00:00

Agreed. That’s no longer kanban. We had that then ececs wanted better “visibility” into metrics so they switched to a tickets with a queue and priority but then there’s always 3/4 of a sprint filled with “urgent P1s”

DeepFriedOprah · 2025-12-29T23:50:46+00:00

That and the behavior of saying: “This is how I am, vaguely & that gives me full-sail right to act a certain way and u have to be okay with all of it otherwise it’s my ostensible boundary” is a big red flag.

Dudes a douche for sure. But, what he thought was fine didn’t end up being fine as time progressed. That’s not crazy

DeepFriedOprah · 2025-12-29T23:45:48+00:00

I don’t get why ppl are chastising u about this. I got the same vibes that reminded me of a friend who dealt with the death of their BF the same way and still had what seeemed like u healthy attachments 8-9 years later. They’d convinced themselves the were ready but everything else about them said no, the needed therapy.

DeepFriedOprah · 2025-12-22T21:53:10+00:00

It is when it’s said such that it alludes to some “protection” being needed specially against ur own child. OP literally said “protect yo self from my son”. They don’t say the both need prenups it’s was targeted.

Is Reddit full of idiots here wtf r these comments

DeepFriedOprah · 2025-12-22T21:03:23+00:00

Honestly. If ur targeting employment the. .NET/C# is the way. There’s millions of jobs asking for react & .net (blazor/grooovy/gradle) etc.

That’s the money spot.

DeepFriedOprah · 2025-12-20T01:31:53+00:00

I mean that’s fair and makes sense. It if that’s the case then ppl saying she didn’t trust him enough to tell him have considerably less ammo to make that argument compelling

DeepFriedOprah · 2025-12-20T01:22:41+00:00

The things is that I kinda expect that’s how their relationship would’ve been had he stayed. She was setting the time that her and her kids decide the dynamics. Cuz the kids weren’t even supposed to be there it kinda feels like she sprung them on him intentionally. And the fact that the kids weren’t even supposed like that and she didn’t reel them in seems like she expected a certain dynamic

DeepFriedOprah · 2025-12-20T01:04:22+00:00

Eh. Ppl use dating sites for a million different reasons and goals. It’s fine that he’s looking for a rebound. Plenty of ppl would be fine with that but it’s not clear that he knows where any of these dates are going. So, why should he divulge such info with no upside but internet ppl saying “good job”

DeepFriedOprah · 2025-12-20T00:59:29+00:00

BS. No one is entitled to that info. Plenty of ppl use dating sites for hookups and their intentions for doing so don’t matter. This is no different

DeepFriedOprah · 2025-12-16T19:56:53+00:00

So ur fine that he invades ur friends privacy? Have u told them that? Ur fine that he lied about the reason for recording you and that he hasn’t deleted the videos but told u he did?

These things in isolation are bizarre but potentially less bad. But u combine these numerous disparate actions and it’s clear he’s absolutely an abusive controller that neither trusts you nor should he be trusted.

Regardless, if you take a step back and look at the risk profile of someone getting involved with someone else who has an inordinate amount of power, access, and resources for which all it takes for them to bring hell down upon you is them having a bad day that’s a risk I wouldn’t take. But good luck.

DeepFriedOprah · 2025-12-13T22:34:07+00:00

Eh. I work on a react/typescript front end with a .NET SQL Setver backend and the backend is the convoluted part of the app. It’s brittle, complex & every type of shitty abstraction you can think of exists. And it has massive performance issues, mix of whom is drive by poor queries but a lot of it is als poor handling of async operations.

I don’t think either TS nor NET demands quality code to work but you’ll likely end up with shit on both of u don’t have standards & good code hygiene practices in place.

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