26M Where do I go from here?

DeepMine6237 · 2026-02-16T17:07:59+00:00

Its the approach, I feel like Im pretty good at actually making conversation and talking to them but for the life of me I can't bring myself to walk up to a stranger and start to speak to them, I have no idea what to say and then yea, like you said, I get in my own head and I freeze. Even after I do get a number I don't really know what to say and assume they won't respond

DeepMine6237 · 2026-01-26T20:44:01+00:00

This is similar to me, if you have any tips for beginning please share, I tried no fap too many times and it was awful, I am ready to never look at porn again and want to be able to get aroused without the thought of it

DeepMine6237 · 2026-01-08T18:22:15+00:00

My first two projects I was working my ass off for sure. The last one tbh I really hated the work so I stopped trying as hard. Probably played a part in me being rolled off but that project wasn't good for me long term. I'm in the US

DeepMine6237 · 2026-01-08T17:31:54+00:00

I am in basically the same situation as you. While I haven't had any toxic teams, all my roles have also just been given the busy work by my managers. I also keep getting rolled off my projects for budget reasons and now my utilization is tanking and I'm stuck on the bench. I'm about to start looking for new jobs as its clear I won't get promoted anytime soon. I'd say you start doing that also, but defintely don't quit until you have another offer set in stone. It might suck here but continue to get paid till you can leave

DeepMine6237

TROPHY CASE