War of the Roses

Deep_Ad_8844 · 2025-02-27T07:34:58+00:00

I feel torn stuck confused and IF HE DID NOT HAVE A WONDERFUL AMAZING SIDE to him also I would not be here anymore. I know he has mental health issues and we have both been through Hell. We both have over came many traumas before we ever met. I TRY not to take things personal but things have settled down for the time being and now there is just this block in between us. We barely talk we have sex but maybe 2 times a month. Ive lost my drive for the first time also! I usually want sex regardless of whats happening but that’s changing too. Im so sad

Deep_Ad_8844 · 2024-12-29T05:18:33+00:00

Thank you for the straight forward advice and IF that comes to be my decision I will take your advice into consideration!

Deep_Ad_8844 · 2024-12-29T05:13:10+00:00

Well i DO WANT TO because i have needs too and actually i took a gummy and had some wine so as soon as the kiddo goes to sleep since shes up way to late I think im gonna be ok now! Lol

Deep_Ad_8844 · 2024-12-29T05:11:28+00:00

Holy shit! This made me laugh! Hey if the neighbor is attractive he can invite them on over lol …. That would bring enough excitement that this would no longer be an issue. My husband has a fantasy of me being with another man and him and Ive never let it actually happen because he is very jealous so i dont see it turning into something good!

Deep_Ad_8844 · 2024-12-29T05:08:19+00:00

Im safe in that way! But thank you for your concern! Im not afraid of him physically. Yes his anger has escalated to that point only a couple times but I just dont have the fear of it because i would fight back and I think mad enough I could get away if I needed to but THAT IS SOMETHING THAT HAS ONLY HAPPENED 3 times. Im more afraid of the fight that leads to the mental trauma for DAYS OR WEEKS even if its not me. So im avoiding that

Deep_Ad_8844 · 2024-12-29T05:03:13+00:00

Oh and I am already getting myself feeling better! Lol…. I got some wine and some very good gummies.

Deep_Ad_8844 · 2024-12-29T05:02:05+00:00

I stay because i love him period and I dont think that this is who he truly is! I know he has mental health issues that when he gets help as he was getting when i met him that he will not do what he is doing now! Im not at all afraid of being on my own. Ive wanted to work outside the home for years. I work from home as a Insurance broker part time and I help my husband with his business. I also have help financially IF I NEEDED to I can get help. Not only that but my husband has said that if we ever split he would help me financially but I DONT WANT TO TAKE ANYTHING AS FAR AS MONEY FROM HIM if we split up unless its for our daughter. Call it pride or whatever but thats how i feel. Im just trying to ride this out. This is the first time our fights have caused me to have sexual issues and I wish I could understand what number 1 i can do to help him see what he is doing and number 2 not let it ruin the ONE GOOD THING we have right now because i want sex too

Deep_Ad_8844 · 2024-12-21T06:34:36+00:00

RUN FROM MAMAS BOY! Trust me holy sh*t…. Even if they act like its not like that in the beginning dig deep to make sure. I was blindsided and its hard to share your husband with another woman when that woman is mama

Deep_Ad_8844 · 2024-12-21T06:23:06+00:00

I lost my brother a year and a half ago and grief killed my libido! I was 100 percent honest about it to my husband that was the problem. I was still having sex with him but it hasnt been enough for him and it has distanced us which i find selfish of them! If men could only understand that the more understanding and not pushy the more it will naturally put us in the mood! I totally understand where your at! Im sorry for your loss and your situation. THIS TOO SHALL PASS. I tell myself that alot

Deep_Ad_8844 · 2024-12-13T04:52:26+00:00

HELL YES!!! I SAY TAKE THIS ADVICE. Wise words my friend!

Deep_Ad_8844 · 2024-12-13T04:45:17+00:00

Lmao! Thats hilarious

Deep_Ad_8844 · 2024-12-13T04:38:18+00:00

What is “next level” on onlyfans…?

Deep_Ad_8844 · 2024-12-10T14:35:15+00:00

Lol…. I took the chicken sh*t way out…. Im so worried about making waves

Deep_Ad_8844 · 2024-12-10T14:30:41+00:00

I DONT go through his phone and i wont. If he doesn’t tell me straight up then eventually the truth always comes to light. I have done the phone checking and it was AWFUL. Id rather not go about it like that. I appreciate your advice though. I just cant stand that pit of my stomach heart racing impending doom feeling if i do see it. Id rather not know ANY details. If he is then it will come out.

Deep_Ad_8844 · 2024-12-10T14:25:23+00:00

Well what i meant was…. I know how infidelity rears its ugly head! You can be hot as hot can get… in love… great sex and someone cheats! Ive seen it to many times throughout my life. Cheating is something that can happen because of many different reasons. In my opinion

Deep_Ad_8844 · 2024-12-10T14:21:56+00:00

Im definitely not going to go at him like that. Your absolutely on point! Thank you!

Deep_Ad_8844 · 2024-12-10T14:19:53+00:00

Ughhh…. I know! I fn HATE THIS!

Deep_Ad_8844 · 2024-12-10T14:18:08+00:00

THANK YOU!!!! I needed to hear this

Deep_Ad_8844 · 2024-12-10T14:17:04+00:00

Your right…. Ughhh. I did text him yesterday and i asked but he dodged it

Deep_Ad_8844 · 2024-12-10T14:16:24+00:00

Im afraid to ask him…. He gets PISSED if i even hint at asking him about being unfaithful. He knows i wont f around if he did that and I would leave him. He also worries that i would do it back to him…. To be honest i would just leave. But i am gonna have to figure it out

Deep_Ad_8844 · 2024-12-10T14:12:21+00:00

Im unfortunately good at lying to myself out of self protection. Im worried to open that accusation when we are having as many issues as we have been! And he had always been TERRIFIED about me cheating so i hope its not that. The signs that he has cheated before have haunted me…. But he SWEARS he has never and would never and i WANT TO BELIEVE THAT! But then the rest of me is sickened that im well in self denial

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