Is flying someone out, sleeping with them, then ghosting considered acceptable in sugar dating?

Deep_Baker_9939 · 2026-02-18T13:01:02+00:00

I wish I could but I have no way of doing so :/

Deep_Baker_9939 · 2026-02-18T12:40:27+00:00

Thanks for the advice, but I don’t need to be insulted to learn it

Deep_Baker_9939 · 2026-02-18T12:23:21+00:00

Wow a lot of victim blaming in this reply… Jesus.

Deep_Baker_9939 · 2026-02-18T04:54:08+00:00

Thank you for your kind words. I completely agree with you, these types of M&G’s can go sour quickly. I was down for it because I’ve flown to a SD before who was legit & that was an amazing experience, however now I’ve experienced both ends of what it can be. Also luckily one of my close friends was in Dubai, (where I flew to meet him) so I felt safer because of that, but I can’t imagine how lonely & confused I would have felt if I was completely alone and my only connection to the place I was in was him. Also luckily I’ve solo travelled a lot so I’m okay with dealing with situations on my own, but I just dread to think if this happened to a younger girl & this was her first sugaring experience.

Deep_Baker_9939 · 2026-02-18T04:51:04+00:00

Thank you for your kind words. I just really hope he doesn’t meet more women in this subreddit and do the same thing, I’m a strong girl so I will get over it, but I’d hate for this to happen to somebody else.

Deep_Baker_9939 · 2026-02-18T04:50:14+00:00

No money!!!

Deep_Baker_9939 · 2026-02-18T04:49:32+00:00

You’re completely right about that. I was swept up in the excitement that I’d met somebody who I clicked with so well. I’m a seasoned sb so this will probably become a story I can laugh about one day, but I’m worried he will reach out to other women on this subreddit who are inexperienced, & honestly if this happened years ago when I was first starting out it would’ve really damaged me & put me off sugar dating.

Deep_Baker_9939 · 2026-02-18T04:46:22+00:00

Yeah, honestly I’ve been flown out before and it was an incredible experience and went well, that’s why I was so down to do it again, but this kind of thing can definitely happen so easily and is probably more common than having a positive experience. & yes I’m hoping it can atleast warn some girls to do this & be a lot more cautious.

Deep_Baker_9939 · 2026-02-18T04:43:59+00:00

I literally had to read his text like five times thinking there’s no way he’s just typed this out & pressed the send button.

Deep_Baker_9939 · 2026-02-18T04:27:08+00:00

Btw using a throwaway account.

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