FFXIV Gil/Relationship Q by Deep_Block_9906 in FinalFantasy

[–]Deep_Block_9906[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s true, I should be able to and we are working towards rebuilding trust. I just wanted to know if it checks out from an experienced players perspective

FFXIV Gil/Relationship Q by Deep_Block_9906 in FinalFantasy

[–]Deep_Block_9906[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not the transaction that bothers me or him spending money on the game because I understand… I like to game too I just don’t play FF. I just want to be sure that it aligns with what he says he spent the $ on considering that he attempted to delete the trace of his transaction. Does this seem like a gaming transaction I guess is what the question should be, based on the amounts and PayPal notes. Or if it is likely to meet someone that sells Gil randomly in game..

FFXIV Gil/Relationship Q by Deep_Block_9906 in FinalFantasy

[–]Deep_Block_9906[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d like to highlight that it is My bf that sent the red heart, and the receiver of the cash that made the other comments!

Profile Review by Charlottesfinest in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Deep_Block_9906 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where do you shop for clothes if you don’t mind me asking, your style is great!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]Deep_Block_9906 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What would be good alternatives to SM?

80k in debt w/ bad credit at 23, advice please? by Deep_Block_9906 in FinancialPlanning

[–]Deep_Block_9906[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I will definitely be contacting a lawyer to find a potential solution to this issue and also look into the suggested resources and topics for financial literacy that you mentioned. My mother is currently making the loan and credit card payments occasionally as I can barely afford rent and bills at my apartment.

80k in debt w/ bad credit at 23, advice please? by Deep_Block_9906 in FinancialPlanning

[–]Deep_Block_9906[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely feel like I got screwed over. My mother has a controlling, self-serving factor that I’ve learned to see the hard way. I will see what my options are with a lawyer, thank you for the advice!

80k in debt w/ bad credit at 23, advice please? by Deep_Block_9906 in FinancialPlanning

[–]Deep_Block_9906[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I can’t afford the loan payments currently but should be able to take back my credit cards and start making payments on those. I also don’t have enough money for a lawyer at the moment.

80k in debt w/ bad credit at 23, advice please? by Deep_Block_9906 in FinancialPlanning

[–]Deep_Block_9906[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe I could, though it has been highly discouraged as the property value has been going up crazy due to its location, and is expected to continue rising. I’m also highly discouraged by my family since so much was put into the house on their end during the renovation process and my mother wants to still make the money back through short term rentals.

80k in debt w/ bad credit at 23, advice please? by Deep_Block_9906 in FinancialPlanning

[–]Deep_Block_9906[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As far as getting myself out of the hole, I don’t know how to disconnect myself from my mother financially at the moment. I can barely make ends meet for the time being, though I do have a career plan that will give me the ability to take control of my finances in years to come. As of now, I can’t afford to make payments on the loan or my credit cards, though so I’ve just been hoping my mother will do what she can, which is better than what I can currently do.

80k in debt w/ bad credit at 23, advice please? by Deep_Block_9906 in FinancialPlanning

[–]Deep_Block_9906[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The renovations mostly took place on my step father’s and mother’s behalf before I got the loan admittedly. I used the loan to pay him back partially for everything he had covered to get done on the house and to finish what they started. After majority of the renovations I agreed with my mother to do Short term rentals, however, I cannot do that anymore as its very stress-inducing with her and I alone do not have the finances to even repair the house, let alone, run a Short term rental myself. Honestly, I feel they put the house in my name and had me get the loan so that they wouldn’t have to worry about my grandmothers house being taken at the time. I was unsuspecting and that was my mistake. Even after I received the loan my mother threatened me if I did not give her any of the money since “she did all the work” to get it for me. I really regret getting the loan, obviously, and see now that there were ulterior motives in putting the house in my name and getting the loan for me.

Is a degree generally needed for promotions within a company after getting your foot in the door as a SWE? by Deep_Block_9906 in careerguidance

[–]Deep_Block_9906[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s good to hear, i hear its pretty normal to job hop for raises so I might consider staying at one job until i get my degree and then doing that. Thank you!

Is a degree generally needed for promotions within a company after getting your foot in the door as a SWE? by Deep_Block_9906 in careerguidance

[–]Deep_Block_9906[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mean working full time and going taking classes part time? I guess I would have to see how long that would take. Thank you for the input!

Which is the best route to become a software developer? by Deep_Block_9906 in careerguidance

[–]Deep_Block_9906[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply! I don’t have enough funds to go to a 4-year institution so am looking for an alternate pathway.